The Weird Girl @the-dutiful-reserved - Tumblr Blog

yknow as much as content creators on tumblr beg people to reblog posts more, there’s a handful of people that will reblog literally anything.

There’ll be a post like “hm I can’t decide whether to have nacho cheese doritos or cool ranch doritos with my lunch today” and some of yall will reblog it and not even add any tags or comments. And sometimes it’ll be really specific to that one person??? not even necessarily private, but just.. so specific to them that I don’t see why you feel the need to put it on your own blog?? Like it won’t even be a funny or interesting story or have a punchline or anything. And I’m not even saying this is inherently a problem. I just want to study the people that do this

u-v-la

hi, i am a person who does this. i just reblog everything that i identify with and makes me laugh, and fan-content i like bc i love the artists and wanna support them in some way since i don't always have money.

also i'm too lazy to add tags.

sabertoothwalrus

ok but you realize what the difference between reblogging fan content and posts that are like “my mom yelled at me bc I dyed my hair” is, right? because that’s what I’m talking about

I guess I’m saying a post shouldn’t need to say “do not reblog” for you to be able to ask yourself if it’s something you should reblogging

thedeepmiracleperfection

Ok but like if you willingly post something on public social media that has a reblog on anything you post you can't be surprised if someone reblogs it. Like you can't have posts that you don't want people to reblog. If that was a feature of tumblr, where you could select certain posts to be unrebloggable as in remove the reblog option, that'd be one thing. Or if you could make certain posts private. But you can't. Anything and everything you post on tumblr can be reblogged by other people. and that's something everyone who uses tumblr is aware of. I've never understood "do not reblog" on the bottom of posts. Or people posting random mundane things and being surprised when others reblog it. Like? You consented to sharing a piece of info on a public website where anyone and everyone can indiscriminately interact with all posts the same select ways: like, reblog or comment. If you don't want someone to interact with a post you're making then why post it? Even if you're just venting or using your blog as a sort of diary or personal record and you dont intend for any posts you make to have relevance to other people, it's still a public website and people are allowed and able to interact with your content just as as much as anyone else's.

It's not my job to ask myself wether someone would want me to reblog something they chose to post. If it's public, i can interact with it how i choose. If you don't want something reblogged then dont post it to a public website where all posts can be reblogged.

sabertoothwalrus

you sound like the kind of person that willingly breaks your friends’ trust by sharing private secrets they specifically asked you not to tell anyone else and you justify it by saying it was their fault for expecting you to be trustworthy in the first place

koipepo

The Avatar’s love ❤

i think they’re the only canon ship that I fully can get behind because how perfect they are for each other

[reblog is allowed]

extramadness

celesse

F…fluffy…..

fiona-widdershins

mienar

“the stars said hello, love.”

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Algunas veces siento cómo que me pierdo. Hoy es un buen ejemplo de ello. Salí del trabajo, todo estaba bien y de repente un comentario, uno solo, me hizo sentir un nudo en la garganta, lágrimas en los ojos y ganas de mandarlo todo al carajo. ¿Porqué? Porque me pegó en el centro.

Es como volver al pasado, con mis padres, donde este sentimiento era común, de no ser suficiente, de falta de valía, de esconderme a llorar en el baño. Tengo que entender que no es lo mismo, soy otra yo, una más fuerte e independiente que está aprendiendo a ser pareja.

#travel #road #roadtrip

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the-dutiful-reserved

Amé este post, una de las reglas de la oficina es que siempre tienes que venir arreglado por si viene una persona importante o tienes que ir con cliente, así que el último año (y después de varios feedbacks) me he vestido más “ejecutiva” y la verdad es que es una carga, tener que levantarte maquillarte, peinarte, ver que tu ropa sea suficiente por si tienes que al CLIENTE. Así que los día en los que puedo usar shorts, t-shirts, o simplemente mi pijama son los mejores.

Pero... qué pasaría si me arreglo para mí. Para sentirme bonita..

Tengo que descubrirlo y les aviso.

princesszeldazbyebye-deactivate

List of things I wish I could go back and tell 10 year old me about this whole Adulting™ shindig

1 - You shouldn’t trust someone just because you get along with them. It’s good to have friends and expand your horizons, but not all of them will be reliable, and that’s ok. Save the best of yourself for high quality people.

2 - That first job interview likely won’t be as scary as you think it will be. It pays to act professionally but remember that the interviewer is also a human being. An IMPORTANT human being yeah, but every single important human you’ll ever meet has their moments. Literally the first day I walked into work one of the managers was running through the back of our store in a Disney Olaf onesie and that was just the way it was.

3 - Think of the big picture, especially regarding your health. Yes that homework has to be done at some point, but don’t work yourself sick. You need to sleep and you need to eat. In fact you will feel tons better if you take several 5 or 10 minute breaks when you’re studying heavily, to grab a snack or even just to walk around and stretch.

4 - You have all the time in the world. Not everyone gets their driver’s license at 16, not everyone leaves the house at 18, etc. There will be times when you feel like you’re behind, but honestly, who are you even competing with???? Nobody lol it’s your life and you’re going at your pace.

5 - Mistakes are fine????? You might feel pretty bad about breaking that dish now but 2 days later you’re probably not gonna remember it happened. Unless the dish was part of your mother’s $500 china set or something. In that case, consider running.

6 - Sort of like the last point but also: no matter how hard you try to be a nice and pleasant person, everyone has their limits. You WILL get pissed at something and probably say something rude to someone. That doesn’t make you a bad person. It all depends on how much responsibility you take for your actions. If you hurt someone, own up to it.

7 - NEVER underestimate the power of a nap. It can make your day better or it can make you feel a thousand times more tired. The nap giveth yet the nap taketh away, use it wisely.

8 - No matter what you’re doing, do your best. The best doesn’t have to be perfect, but when you’re done you’ll feel better knowing you did what you could. Don’t overwork yourself, everything’s relative and changes by the day; you can take it slow when you’re sick and/or hurt and that would still be alright.

9 - There’s no way to be ready for it, but eventually you’re going to lose someone. It will be hard. But whoever they are, they’re going to want you to remember them kindly. Wherever they are, their spirit can probably feel it when you smile. They’re proud of you.

10 - It can be calming to visit places by yourself. Go shopping on your own, stop at a restaurant, read at a library. It allows you a chance to get to know yourself better, and you’ll find that there’s great comfort in your own company.

11 - Don’t always share what the word on the street is. Privacy can be hard to come by in this day and age, and people will appreciate it if they can trust you with a level of confidentiality. Unless the secret is seriously detrimental or harmful, you don’t have to gossip.

12 - You don’t have to be in school to learn things. Learning is essential to growth, and it never stops; you could be 100 years old and there would still be things you wouldn’t know.

13 - Making deep retrospective posts about life lessons at 1am is probably unwise. You’re gonna be begging yourself to go to sleep, so don’t do it maybe?

14 - Failed lesson 13

lightningbenders

Katara: does literally anything

Aang:

the-dutiful-reserved

Me, next year if they look my wife

chiefbrody

Isn’t it rather dangerous to use one’s entire vocabulary in a single sentence?

EVERY FILM IN THE DISNEY ANIMATED CANON: oliver and company (1988)

the-dutiful-reserved

De mis películas favoritas <3

Extrañando

Mi prometida está de viaje. No hay nada que me guste más que verla crecer, desarrollarse y mejorar, pero estos 4 largos días han sido eternos. No me había percatado que tan necesaria es para mí. El besarla, abrazarla y sentir su aroma me hace falta y me lleva a preguntarme. ¿Y sí algún día, nos separamos por más tiempo? ¿Y si el trabajo nos separa meses? ¿Podré con ello? Dicen que de amor nadie se muere, ¿y de extrañar?. Sólo sé que faltan 7:00 horas para que aterrice su avión, y mi cabeza ansiosa pide al mundo que me la regrese en una pieza.