I dont want to fight but reading the asks and your answers... It feels like the one that is not forgiving harry is you, he made bad choices but he's good at heart and he probably misses william and wants to have a good relationship with him, William is the one thats holding back which speaks of him bein a little inmature? and just resentful, he needs to learn to let go, he wasnt the perfect brother for harry either
This is classic abuser tactic 101! Hurt people and demand for forgiveness because things didnβt pan out the way you wanted. There hasnβt been a public apology which there should be since the years-long bashing was extremely public.
Iβll remind you of the things Harry accused his family of:
- Racism (or unconscious bias when he decided to walk it back nearly 2 years after the initial accusation)
- Neglect
- Abuse
- Not getting Meghan help when she was suicidal even though they didnβt know and Harry didnβt get her help either despite him having a therapist at the time who he admits he went to after William apparently pushed him and broke his necklace
- Briefing against them
- Conspiring to get him and his family killed regarding security etc.
Good people donβt repeatedly publicly or privately cause harm to others they claim to love so your good at heart quip is silly at best.
There is nothing immature about established boundaries. The most mature people have them in place and donβt remove them for anyone. The people (like you) who tend not to grasp them are usually the toxic ones. He needs to let go. He has. Letting go is possible without granting access back into your life.
He wasnβt the perfect brother for Harry, sure. Thatβs why you should leave him alone. Heβs not disturbing anyone. Heβs not hurting anyone. Heβs minding his own business. Whatβs it to you? Why does it bother you so? Why are you so desperate for Harry to make up with people who apparently enacted some of the worst things you can do to another human being on him and his family? Unless of course you donβt believe they happened. If so, why would someone with even a sliver of sense and self respect make up with someone who falsely accused them of such horrendous things?
Itβs a lot more immature, unhinged and stalkerish to not leave someone alone who wants absolutely nothing to do with you. Thatβs where the letting go should happen. Take a hint.
You lot want forgiveness for Harry but somehow donβt have the same energy for someone like Thomas Markle, who they are doing the exact same thing his family is doing to them to (which by the way is their right), so why is that? Why the push to kiss and makeup when 5 years ago people were calling for the RF to be abolished or for Harry and Meghan to severe all ties to them? What has changed?
