Kremy is simultaneously a masculine cis man while also being a femme twink. He's got the suit and the cane but he's also got that mascara. I think Rich actually jokingly confirmed that he wears mascara. He absolutely has a tiny make up kit that's canon lol. He's just so gay lmao I love him
-Kremy always wants be treated like a lady in the context of social ettiquete, so he feels mildly offended when someone doesn't hold open a door for him or something. Could also just be his ego sometimes. Gideon usually does do little things like that for him, but if he's mad he'll just let the door shut on him to make it clear he's upset with him.
-Kremy has always been gender-non conforming and expressed interest in things and activities that people consider girly at a very young age. Basically all his childhood friends and family already kinda knew he was gay before he figured that out himself.
-it rarely happens but there have been times someone mistook Kremy as a woman.
-he mostly presents masculine but some people think he comes across as androgynous with his mustache and sharp eyeliner. And some people see purple as a feminine color even though he sees the color as a sign of wealth and status . . but also admits it does look pretty.
-his posture changes subconsciously depending on how masculine or feminine he feels. If he feels feminine he tends to sit with his leg over his knee with his arms close. When he feels closer to his masculine side he sits with his legs slightly spread open and his arms out making himself look big. However he doesn't see either posture as either binary gender, he just feels like he's being himself.
If you where to hypothetically point it out he would think you're reading too much into his body language (even though he uses body language to manipulate people at times) or he just admits he's a little genderfluid.
-his auxiliary pronouns are he/him and prefers it that way most of the time, but he doesn't really care what pronouns are used for him when he's doing drag or crossdressing.
-he does his make up every morning and takes special care to keep the scales around his face clean and presentable for others. He keeps a small make-up kit on him at all times for that reason.
If he's feeling especially fancy he'll put on eyeshadow.
-Kremy doesn't see make-up or cooking in a kitchen as a gendered thing and feels confused when someone expresses that make up is only for women.
The belief that "women belong in the kitchen" confuses him.
-he's vauge about his gender, he usually just tells people he's a man. When asked about his presentation he explains that he's kinda genderqueer or a little fluid with his gender. He personally veiws genderfluid and genderqueer as the same thing and uses them synonymously. He doesn't identify with the transgender label because he's very comfortable being and living as a man. He identifies more with being outside the gender binary but not exactly non-binary.
-Performing drag at the Witchlight carnival and crossdressing in Gricko's political hoppera didn't feel awkward at all, it just came naturally to him.
-at some point after their quest Kremy just invested in silicone breasts for reasons
-if he crossdresses for entertainment he has the tendancy to get so comfortable wearing a dress for hours and completely forget he's in costume and can change back to his suit. (I'm 99% sure Rich just forgot Kremy was still dressed up for Gricko's Hoppera but I personally like to interpret it as Kremy being feeling pretty comfortable in a dress)
-Kremy was Gideon's bisexual awakening and he feels strongly attracted to his masculinity and feminity. He once jokingly said "yes ma'am" to Kremy and Kremy just gave him a weird look. Later he says "yes sir" to him in the same flirty tone lmao.
-while they're technically married Gideon sort of treats Kremy like a wife. Sometimes Kremy allows him to put his arm around his back or put his arm around him when they sit. Gideon also likes to give him affectionate little back touches. He opens the door for him or pulls open a chair or rests his coat on his shoulders. Kremy enjoys being treated like a lady or a gentleman lady for lack of better words.
The affection is not really awknowledged beyond Kremy using body language or verbally consenting to Gid that type of gesture towards him. Not at first anyways.
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In the bedroom Kremy is a submissive pillow princess power bottom, which pairs well with Gideon's general repulsion towards being on the receiving end of sex. Gideon is more of a service top who feels uncomfortable being sexually submissive due to truama. A stone if you will. If he is touched he prefers it in an indirect way like touching his packer/prosthetic dick or letting Kremy ride or suck on a strap. Gideon does NOT like to bottom or receive direct touch because it would trigger his PTSD and cause him dissociate and lock up.
So their needs are fulfilled perfectly and make them very compatible as sexual partners.
Imagining Gideon (trans man) starting to realize that Torbek might be trans while backstage during Torbek's performance as Torbecca. Like he's just standing there watching Torbek and sees how emotional the performance is. And he just connects the dots and a little trans lightbulb goes off in his brain. Also he recognizes what severe dysphoria can look like. He's like this
thinking about the richie pipeline of "ooh, is kremy into gideon?? who knows, tehee 🤭" to "kremy lacroux is a GAY MAN. he LOVES is HUSBAND and is very HORNY for him"
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