A Sub's Guide to: Squirting
Let’s face it all guys (at least all the guys I have slept with) and women are curious about whether their partner is what we affectionately call a ‘squirter.’ It’s pretty sexy to a large majority of the population but it’s also difficult for most people to master sadly. The reason for this is most likely due to the fact that they aren’t checking all the boxes in order to achieve the desired outcome.
Now don’t get me wrong, squirting is difficult to master - it takes patience and skill to elicit the blissful outcome you all desire whether it is on your own or with a partner, but I have found a way that made it super easy for me. I squirt almost every time I masturbate and have sex, but not everyone is the same - some people will have more trouble (you can blame out frustrating bodies for that haha) but it is worth trying your hardest to achieve, believe me!
1) Hydration
It should be a given for everyone just for a healthy life but it’s actually an issue lots of medical professionals rant about so be sure to drink a lot of water - especially in the hours before you try. Please note water is the best way to hydrate yourself not soda or juice because they contain to many preservatives and artificial sweeteners.
2) Get Wet
It might seem stupid to point this out but I have had so many instances where guys just try to go for the kill when I’m only just starting to get aroused (too keen). The best way to achieve this with a partner in my personal experience is oral mixed with spanking and biting (because I’m a kinky motherfucker haha). If you’re doing it solo just follow your usual routine - spit never goes astray as you will be saturated by the end.
3) Toy Time!
Anything that helps over excite you is good! I generally whip out nipple clamps at minimum as I love that tight lifeless sensation it gives them (yummy!) it helps me climax faster when I do things solo too.
4) G-Spot & Clit Combo
Once your pussy is pulsing and a little sensitive it’s time to find that G-Spot, the best way to do this is to slide your second and third fingers (from the left) into your/her pussy and curl them upwards rather than pressing them deep inside of you/her. Then pinch your pointer finger (the finger next to your thumb and your thumb) together on your clit - dual stimulation works a treat in my experience but hits be sure to keep the whole area wet and that pussy nice and sensitive - this might mean you need to use your tongue a little guys.
After doing this for a while it generally happens for me - when I squirted for the first time it took 20 minutes of stimulation and since then it has gradually declined to about 5 minutes if I’m in the mood. I have heard that some ladies can take an hour - once again it depends on your body but it gets easier as you practice it.
The same thing also goes for the amount of ‘liquid’ you actually squirt - if you are really hydrated and have practice a lot it can be impressive but when you are first learning sometimes you don’t even realize it’s happened until you look at the surface you are having sex or masturbating on.
On another note, I find chair sex increases my likelihood of squirting faster when having sex so if you’re struggling try that! I generally have my body positioned like this (http://master-of-slave.tumblr.com/post/43835484024) as it helps aggravate on my g-spot, all I need to do is slap that wet clit with a flogger or paddle and enjoy the ride hehe.
I hope this helps! The only thing to remember is to be patient, it might take a while for it to happen but you will slowly work out what works best for you and what your/her body responds to best - this is just what works for me as someone who has been squirting for almost a decade ;)
If you have any questions please feel free to message me and I will do my best to assist you as you embark on your squirting adventures.
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