After hearing about the ban on the song "baby it's cold outside" I understood immediately why it could be a trigger for people. Although disappointed because it is my favorite song for Christmas season I put the turmoil to rest knowing that it was probably the best choice for the feminist movement of social equality to start to end that sexism and rape culture women have been drowning in since the beginning of time. While understanding this reflection, I researched the top 10 songs on the Billboard. Seeing that it probably would have taken a large amount of people to get such a popular and traditional song banned from the radio and yet these top songs are still being played. Songs such as "Sicko Mode by Travis Scott", "Mo Bamba by Sheck Wes", and "Drip Too Hard by Lil baby and Gunna". These songs are the problem it is not traditional songs like "baby it's Cold outside" that represent aggressors in our society but also the songs that speak of women as if they are dollar bills saying they have a lot of hoes and that they make the pussy wet and the vulgar degrading lyrics all throughout our top 10 Billboards.
Please, tell me if I get this right. You're telling me that we had enough people signed a petition saying that "Baby it's Cold outside" should be banned but these songs referring to people as pussies as if they are a negative thing as if they're not strong enough to push a human being out of. Saying they have a lot of hoes that are bothering them for their money as if women are unable to make their own. These ideas ultimately changing the mindset of our culture by telling everyone it's okay to use women. It's okay to use drugs stating that they "took a xan before their flight" and they were "out like a light". Children 14, 15, 16, 12, 13, 10, and all of these kids ageing, developing, listening to this music and thinking this is how their life is supposed to be, full of drugs and women.
you're going to take off a traditional song such as baby it's Cold outside and keep demoralizing desensitizing offencive content such as those songs. An exact quote from one of the lyrics from "Sickomode by Travis Scott" "Stacey Dash, most of these girls ain't got a clue
All of these hoes I made off records I produced
I might take all my exes and put 'em all in a group
Hit my esés, I need the bootch.... Bitches treat me like I'm Uncle Luke don't stop pop that pussy." The sexualisation of these girls that are listening to this music; thinking it's okay to sexualize their own bodies to get their way, manipulating men not only hurting the men activing this behavior in the long run, by desensitizing women thinking that developing emotional connections is only for the weak. It makes preteen girls paranoid about stepping into relationships and loses the value in identifying emotional yearnings but instead purely sexual. This desensitizing content hurts our society. And yet "baby it's Cold outside" is the only thing taken off the radio.
The men making these songs are looked up to by other young man those same young man that touch little girls and say "it's okay Travis Scott said don't stop popping your pussy". What ever happened to us being offended if you're going to be offended enough to take music off the radio be offended enough to take this off the radio if it really triggers. You being talk to and treated as a piece of meat as a slab of cake that should trigger you.
We should all not only appreciate an idea of taking these vulgor things off the radio but also think the after effects of taking "baby it's Cold outside" off and what it may do to our society. Growing millennials training themselves that your world should be built around fear. I understand why aggressive behavior could trigger people but telling young people that to be an aggressor is wrong is false things don't get done when you don't have an aggressor relationships don't get started when you don't have an aggressor and I understand the aggressor can be taken in a derogatory format but this is the formal use of aggressor to take the first step slightly forcefully because the truth is there are men and women out there that appreciate a firm persistent hand it's sad and it's scary because you don't know which is who and you don't know when you're just doing too much when you hear a no that's when you stop when you can see somebody's uncomfortable that's when you stop or at least you take a step back the complementing somebody because you want to talk to them that's being an aggressor not a pedophile not a creep. men are the going to be too scared to be viewed as scary or aggressive they don't want to have that name on their forehead because then they have to realize that they are old that's what happens when you get to a certain age people think you're scary when you walk up to them and that's a New concept that you want to stay away from as long as possible. By telling them that you're not allowed to approach a girl because she thinks she's pretty. Telling girls that if you're an aggressor then you're not going to be seen as pretty, just desperate. By anyone training people that it's not okay to be forward you have to beat around the bush. you have to hope someone brushes your hand down the hallway, and hope that they look at you the way you look at them. That hope, the blind Faith that something may happen instead of grabbing what you want. I understand that I may be too Frank with this what I'm trying to say is aggressors are necessary in the reproduction of our species. And I guess ending aggressors is a great way to depopulate but it's sad because Obama was an aggressor not an aggressive aggressor but he was an aggressor in the relationship and look where that relationship took them. All the way to the White House, Obama would have not made it there if it was not for Michelle and I'm sure that he could own up to that on his own.
The fact is, the people who decided to take off baby it's Cold outside and that listen to the rap music now that degrades women they are present visionaries they don't look into the past or look into the future and by doing so they are harming our species more than they will ever know training minds and harming people in the way. Will taking these songs off may help your trigger do you think that they may trigger someone else? Somebody that may not be on the planet yet and never will be because their parents never met the way the world was intended to make them meet because their dad was way too scared talk to their other dad cuz he didn't want to be seen as aggressive or the moms that were supposed to meet and have this great love story. were the two people that found each other finally I knew exactly who they wanted to be when they found each other never did because they were too scared to look at the other person that I when they walk down the street that fear takes away. Fear cannot run a country and fear cannot run us as a society. My motto is feel the fear and do it anyway responsibly of course anyway #girlythings
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