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The societal pressure to get a perfect body image has push women into going under the knife known as Brazilian Butt Lift (BBL), whether it is a choice or societal pressure, insecurities and lack of confidence underlines the conversation centred around BBL. It has become rife in the world, celebrities are taking lead and followers are aligning in en masse it shows no sign of slowing down, it has form one of the strongest modern trends of sought-after beauty. You carry yourself in most preserved manner, full of confidence, to do anything that expresses any kind of doubt, whether you’re doing it for your partner, it will only add up to the list of flaws, someone that is not genuinely connected and aligned with you, cannot change because of BBL, it is soul to soul conversations that make the difference.

Recently BBL has faced backlash, normalising originality and women feeling comfortable in their most natural state. It is all over social media women flaunting their butt to aesthetics of the surgery, it is self-evident that the world has become a global village, and perspectives have changed overtime considering continuous evolution on how humans live and adapt. Understanding the circumstance in which someone would want to upgrade their body image to just feel comfortable and sought of acceptability from their targeted audience, it is a two-way traffic; one from the person aspiring to have this perfect body image, two, is the sense behind it and how it affects their relationship with others.

It has to be clear enough for people not to confuse comfortability and happiness with temporary trend they will phase out with time, and another new trend will come as happiness, it exposes you to health risks associated with it. The UK banned companies selling liquid Brazilian Butt Lift (BBL) having being accused by Advertising Standards Authority (ASA) of exploiting women insecurities around body image. One the ideas surrounding the banned products, is that, it is thought out process that women who seek to engage the services of these companies should be afforded enough time to think it through, not placing ads that has limited offer to access the services. Liquid BBL which involves injecting filler into the buttocks to make it bigger or rounded.

Many people have done a lot to feel comfortable being themselves, it is more than criticisms of altering your body through surgery. People are thinking in what way will they enter the room, and have all the attention, for the main focus to be on them. In a world that has become more sensitive than ever, every detail in between the line is essential enough to change perspective and have a new narrative about a novelty trend. It would be what kind of feel good factor does BBL offer, does such feel good factor has any sustainability? For you to have any kind of plastic surgery cosmetic surgery and all whatnot show some level of vulnerability you express within yourself, all these are important for inner peace and express yourself.

https://anthonyemmanuel.com/how-bbl-exposes-women-insecurities-around-their-body-image/

#bblsurgery #bbl #relationshipgoals #womenshealth #WomensDay2026

BBL exposes women dependency on cosmetic surgery to feel confident, while leaving them vulnerable and insecure.

#bbl bubble #women voices #womensday

Life has continued to evolve to different heights, a quest for discovery that questions sustainability of future norm. It is combination of search for dominance, technology and new perspective that brings new approach, with all these sustainability of life lies with future norm. This is evidential with different generations, with approach to life differ, they struggle to coexist due to what is peculiar to particular generation is not the same with the other, just like world today, might totally come with different future norm in next half a century. These are the considerations that determine how humans best adapt to this ever-changing world.

Artificial Intelligence has transformed not only workplace but also how everyone sees the world and technological disruption that can totally take a new shape, it is a work in progress, but not too far from its completion. Exploration of space and its habitability has continued to be a topical issue, while all these are going on, the question will be where are you going to fit in, in this disruption of human lives through technological advancement and applicability. The futuristic expectations of today depend on how you queue in to solve human problems or what side of human problem are going to provide with sustainable solutions.

The sustainability of life is a question of how effective you’re to the course of human problems, many issues bedevilling humanity are seeking for solution, that’s how you’re going to make an impact. When you’re slowing moving into the space or nothing making an effort to evolve yourself and traditionally leaning to the concept that devoid of creative ideas and execution, you’re going to struggle to live in the future, it is exactly how the future norm is going to be, it is breeding innovative leaders who are going to make bold steps to provide sustainable solutions.

You don’t change your perspective by getting stuck in one place, you need to make an effort by being in the right circle of people who are driving innovative force that will sustain future norm. Economically, socially and otherwise the world is expanding its elasticity, perspective and insights have evolved overtime and it has continued to do so, there is no ceiling for its evolvement. The future is going to be tough and competitive, it will create new world economic order, social order and further shape human relations.

https://anthonyemmanuel.com/how-sustainability-of-life-depends-on-the-futuristic-norm/

#FutureOfWork #sustainableliving #sustainable #sustainability

Your ability to become a problem solver and drive creative ideas will determine the future norm and how you best adapt.

#sustainablesolutions #sustainableliving

The level of socialization in this current dispensation has gone beyond shores, and it makes you wonder whether solitude has become abnormal or considered as a disorder. The reliance placed on socialization is born out from the notion that everyone needs that interconnectivity to succeed and spread beyond having fun, to constructive relationships that will benefit people involved. However, while this thinking is sustained, it is not absolute, as people’s personalities differ, contents of happiness differs also, and when it becomes this chaotic people look within themselves and enjoy their own company.

As trust is difficult to build, but more difficult to restore when it is broken, it could be personal relationships, business relationships or any human relations. A lot of people are moving away from socialization to building the walls of solitude, which means traveling alone, going for walk alone, having quiet moment to reflect, going for lunch alone, and literally like the serenity that comes with it. While people viewing outside may think such person is living unhappy life. This new concepts questioned the traditional conceived ideas on how people should live and interact, it travels into the future to understand how people have adjusted to focus on what makes them happy.

Solitude may not come as overly a new thing, a bit of that was experienced during coronavirus pandemic, it gives people the practical idea of what it feels like to be into yourself. Loneliness is quite different from solitude, while people who are lonely are categorised to be unhappy, solitude simply means enjoying your own company, pressing the inner button to live out your life from that view. A lot of people are reneging from these traditional concepts, people are getting married but choose not to have kids or even prefer not to get married at all, the traditional shift on living on your own terms is creeping in gradually especially for younger generation.

While these ideas are fast rising in Europe and across America, especially for younger generation, it is still moving at snail pace in Africa, the deep rooted culture that defines each household in Africa, the rigidity of this culture carries identity and difficult to change to fit into what is considered as the new way to live. The younger generation who are mostly into this concept, are determined to live on their own terms while Millennials can argue that Gen Zs are selfish to have considered themselves alone and what makes them happy alone, it is difficult to have consensus, this is because the two generations are living in different time, that’s why solitude has found its stronghold with Gen Zs.

https://anthonyemmanuel.com/in-a-world-that-over-socialize-what-is-the-role-of-solitude/

#solitude #solitudeisbliss #oversocialize

In oversaturated world of socialization, people are leaning to solitude to redefine themselves and live on their own terms.

#solitude

The connectivity of humans emotion could suggest that humans are wired not only to think for others, but largely survive on others’ empathy. That feeling of altruism brings to light the need to take certain instructions just to guarantee the safety of others. In a world that has broken its whole into tiny bits, with different perspectives on play, and the notion of thinking about yourself and putting yourself first will truncate the interdependence of human emotions, where focus is on individualism, the concept of whole will not thrive and the modern approach of human relations continue to expand beyond its elasticity.

However, notwithstanding humans natural attributes of putting one’s self first, when they are faced with difficult situations that concern the general welfare of the public, they could put themselves on the line to curb that particular incident, not literally to that fact that they prioritize the general interest of the public, but the status one gained in the eyes of wider public and how they tend to use it for their own self-preservation, sometimes what seems to be act of bravery, may not tell the whole story when it is exposed to proper test. In a time where altruism is posted everywhere on the social media, one can argue it from two-side; whether it was to enlighten the public on the importance of connectivity of human emotion or still for self-gratification.

As opposed to modern times where everyone seemed to be designed to live according to their own perspectives, earlier it used to be close-knit community life where everyone looked out for one another, there is no reason to nurture the concept of individualism and become excessively competitive. It can range from political, economic and social life, the Communist concept adopted by China has shown massive progress of their prosperity as compared to countries who leave almost everything on choice, less crisis and position themselves as one of the major determinants of global economy, and it says a lot how they have collectively muscled themselves to become big actor in today’s world.

Evolving trends have actually shaped how humans relate in today’s world, where mental health has continued to be the dominant topic. Reliability of sources from social media has increased overtime, and how people react to both negative and positive they are receiving from social media has made the world more sensitive even to the tiniest of the details. Act of kindness towards another resonates with that feeling of connectivity of emotions that overtime sustained human interdependence, and that phase seems almost phase out due to the shift to individualism approach.

https://anthonyemmanuel.com/the-science-of-interdependence-of-humans-in-todays-world/

#science #Interdependence #today #perspective

The interdependence of humans in today's world has shaped key aspects of living socially, politically, and economically.

#scientificmethod #science

The level of socialization in this current dispensation has gone beyond shores, and it makes you wonder whether solitude has become abnormal or considered as a disorder. The reliance placed on socialization is born out from the notion that everyone needs that interconnectivity to succeed and spread beyond having fun, to constructive relationships that will benefit people involved. However, while this thinking is sustained, it is not absolute, as people’s personalities differ, contents of happiness differs also, and when it becomes this chaotic people look within themselves and enjoy their own company.

As trust is difficult to build, but more difficult to restore when it is broken, it could be personal relationships, business relationships or any human relations. A lot of people are moving away from socialization to building the walls of solitude, which means traveling alone, going for walk alone, having quiet moment to reflect, going for lunch alone, and literally like the serenity that comes with it. While people viewing outside may think such person is living unhappy life. This new concepts questioned the traditional conceived ideas on how people should live and interact, it travels into the future to understand how people have adjusted to focus on what makes them happy.

Solitude may not come as overly a new thing, a bit of that was experienced during coronavirus pandemic, it gives people the practical idea of what it feels like to be into yourself. Loneliness is quite different from solitude, while people who are lonely are categorised to be unhappy, solitude simply means enjoying your own company, pressing the inner button to live out your life from that view. A lot of people are reneging from these traditional concepts, people are getting married but choose not to have kids or even prefer not to get married at all, the traditional shift on living on your own terms is creeping in gradually especially for younger generation.

While these ideas are fast rising in Europe and across America, especially for younger generation, it is still moving at snail pace in Africa, the deep rooted culture that defines each household in Africa, the rigidity of this culture carries identity and difficult to change to fit into what is considered as the new way to live. The younger generation who are mostly into this concept, are determined to live on their own terms while Millennials can argue that Gen Zs are selfish to have considered themselves alone and what makes them happy alone, it is difficult to have consensus, this is because the two generations are living in different time, that’s why solitude has found its stronghold with Gen Zs.

https://anthonyemmanuel.com/in-a-world-that-over-socialize-what-is-the-role-of-solitude/

#solitude #SolitudeInNature #oversocialize

#solitude

The level of socialization in this current dispensation has gone beyond shores, and it makes you wonder whether solitude has become abnormal or considered as a disorder. The reliance placed on socialization is born out from the notion that everyone needs that interconnectivity to succeed and spread beyond having fun, to constructive relationships that will benefit people involved. However, while this thinking is sustained, it is not absolute, as people’s personalities differ, contents of happiness differs also, and when it becomes this chaotic people look within themselves and enjoy their own company.

As trust is difficult to build, but more difficult to restore when it is broken, it could be personal relationships, business relationships or any human relations. A lot of people are moving away from socialization to building the walls of solitude, which means traveling alone, going for walk alone, having quiet moment to reflect, going for lunch alone, and literally like the serenity that comes with it. While people viewing outside may think such person is living unhappy life. This new concepts questioned the traditional conceived ideas on how people should live and interact, it travels into the future to understand how people have adjusted to focus on what makes them happy.

Solitude may not come as overly a new thing, a bit of that was experienced during coronavirus pandemic, it gives people the practical idea of what it feels like to be into yourself. Loneliness is quite different from solitude, while people who are lonely are categorised to be unhappy, solitude simply means enjoying your own company, pressing the inner button to live out your life from that view. A lot of people are reneging from these traditional concepts, people are getting married but choose not to have kids or even prefer not to get married at all, the traditional shift on living on your own terms is creeping in gradually especially for younger generation.

While these ideas are fast rising in Europe and across America, especially for younger generation, it is still moving at snail pace in Africa, the deep rooted culture that defines each household in Africa, the rigidity of this culture carries identity and difficult to change to fit into what is considered as the new way to live. The younger generation who are mostly into this concept, are determined to live on their own terms while Millennials can argue that Gen Zs are selfish to have considered themselves alone and what makes them happy alone, it is difficult to have consensus, this is because the two generations are living in different time, that’s why solitude has found its stronghold with Gen Zs.

https://anthonyemmanuel.com/in-a-world-that-over-socialize-what-is-the-role-of-solitude/

#solitude #SolitudeInNature #oversocialize

#solitude

Life has continued to evolve to different heights, a quest for discovery that questions sustainability of future norm. It is combination of search for dominance, technology and new perspective that brings new approach, with all these sustainability of life lies with future norm. This is evidential with different generations, with approach to life differ, they struggle to coexist due to what is peculiar to particular generation is not the same with the other, just like world today, might totally come with different future norm in next half a century. These are the considerations that determine how humans best adapt to this ever-changing world.

Artificial Intelligence has transformed not only workplace but also how everyone sees the world and technological disruption that can totally take a new shape, it is a work in progress, but not too far from its completion. Exploration of space and its habitability has continued to be a topical issue, while all these are going on, the question will be where are you going to fit in, in this disruption of human lives through technological advancement and applicability. The futuristic expectations of today depend on how you queue in to solve human problems or what side of human problem are going to provide with sustainable solutions.

The sustainability of life is a question of how effective you’re to the course of human problems, many issues bedevilling humanity are seeking for solution, that’s how you’re going to make an impact. When you’re slowing moving into the space or nothing making an effort to evolve yourself and traditionally leaning to the concept that devoid of creative ideas and execution, you’re going to struggle to live in the future, it is exactly how the future norm is going to be, it is breeding innovative leaders who are going to make bold steps to provide sustainable solutions.

You don’t change your perspective by getting stuck in one place, you need to make an effort by being in the right circle of people who are driving innovative force that will sustain future norm. Economically, socially and otherwise the world is expanding its elasticity, perspective and insights have evolved overtime and it has continued to do so, there is no ceiling for its evolvement. The future is going to be tough and competitive, it will create new world economic order, social order and further shape human relations.

https://anthonyemmanuel.com/how-sustainability-of-life-depends-on-the-futuristic-norm/

#FutureChampions #FutureLeaders #futuretech #FutureReady #future

Your ability to become a problem solver and drive creative ideas will determine the future norm and how you best adapt.

#futuresuccess #futureleaders

The fulfillment of life is where you have lived for your purpose, your intuition can be that secret recipe to living the desired life. It is process that birthed the required results, trusting your decision making and general feeling of perception over different scenarios in life. You have to start pressing inwardly, it is that creativity inside that brings organic change in your life, this is because it comes out of finding solutions. Approaching problems in life, it is less troubling when such problems is split in bits and it can be ascertained and addressed accordingly trusting your intuition.

When you approach your life thinking about the herculean task to conquer the challenges, it will deter you from going full potential to make the needed change, when you take it step by step, it provides your intuition with structured guidelines and improved decision making, and also help you to understand why you have arrived in that position and help you to understand what intuition is all about. Intuition is not static it grows overtime and keep on developing. It goes deeper into your subconscious mind, visionary and direction your mind to your focus.

Intuition is natural flow of life, it builds and connects different types of your inner selves, which will help you to see perceptive insights of doing something in a particular way, when you lose your inner self, you become a stranger to yourself, you won’t recognise when something is going wrong or the best approach to deal with it. It nurtures your self-awareness, and create channel where you track your thought process perceptively. Life always involves reasoning, critical thinking, that’s where intuition make the difference, it enables to recognise different voices in your head.

Intuition helps with self identity it will enable you to recognise yourself and your core beliefs, strengthening from your strength and weakness, and share the same feelings with other people. It brings all of you into alignment, creating formidable umpire of stronghold within you and around you, which guide you to your desired destination in life. It says a lot about how you connect with yourself, others and your environment, it nurtures pattern of connections overtime. Intuition is fundamental base of intelligence, it is an oasis through which you navigate through yourself, others and your environment.

https://anthonyemmanuel.com/a-guide-to-how-your-intuition-changes-your-life/

#intuitivereading #intuitiveguidance #IntuitiveLiving #intuition

Intuition helps in building strong umpire of thought process, where you’re in alignment with your inner selves.

#intuitive

Commitment with your purpose and focus bring the clarity and freedom of moving forward, you need to focus on the things that matter, the centre of your existence. You don’t have to hold unto the dark days, you have fought through it all and were able to kept your head above the water, now, it is all about purpose-driven and actualize your vision. Putting the guilt behind you, will give you clarity of purpose. Freedom of moving forward means you leave all the guilt and regrets behind and start a new phase that represents your existential identity.

The desired destination into the future is the early stages of your liberation, that fixation of mind into the list of goals you have set out to achieve, create a template you walk into and inspire the whole process. Constancy of purpose creates a strong link between the process and where you have envisaged to be in the future, it relieves you the burden of doubts, and enable you to walk freely with clarity of purpose into the future. It is like starting a new path, you become eager of what the outcome will look while hoping positively, that’s exactly what freedom of moving forward brings, it gives you the vision.

Life is a continuous process it never stops at anything, you desire to keep moving forward, the freedom of thoughts, freedom of ideas and freedom of creativity joined forces together to have a well tailored futuristic plan. You have to pay the price and liberate yourself, building the wall around you especially somewhere between your dark days and future plans, connecting with people of likeminds and sharing ideas make the work easier, the world evolved overtime and thrive more on shared ideas and interests, where teamwork is indispensable.

Put yourself in the map that’s how you get rid of constant voice in your head tormenting you. It brings all round freedom, sometimes, it is all you need to navigate through the dark days, for you to be able to shine light in the way and found your true identity. It is no longer your past life that’s holding you down, you shake off those shackles of captivity and breakthrough. The freedom of moving forward put behind all the dark moments of your life and brings clarity in your path, it is soul uplifting to be able to find new purpose, where everything truly defines your existential identity.

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#clarity #ClarityOverChaos #ClarityAndGuidance #clarityofmind

Finding yourself is the pathway to a new life and brings the freedom of moving forward, and enables you to put yourself in the map.

#clarity

Life is going to sway you in different directions, but those who adapt to these different directions are going to be real change makers not the fittest. It is a learning process that strengthen your capacity to be able to triumph against the odds. Adapting to the circumstances give you the confident and flexibility of mentality to keep going in ever changing world which has been dominated by ultra tech innovations, it gives an edge over what you are doing to earn a living professionally, you don’t have to complain about hostile nature of the environment but your ability to numb the pain and keep on going despite the bumps on the roads.

Adaptability shows that you are better prepared on the roads which lie ahead, the labour market now is highly competitive preparing your mind to nurture the idea of adaptability and expounding your scope professionally will help you get ahead of the time and surviving change when it hits you. It gives the mindset of hard working oriented to ever sourcing the relevant materials that will provide you the chances of going higher and attaining new goals with new skills that is going to sustain the newfound market to keep thriving beyond the limits which the society has set for you.

Adaptability keeps you alert and proactive to be able to effect any change. The world has become a different place after the coronavirus pandemic which has disrupted what used to be normal. It is now a new normal, working place has changed, the emergence of online meeting and retrenching of staff to deal with economic loss all these have come under new normal for it to thrive in this kind of unplanned arrangement, it is only adaptability can save you beyond, and help you to become creative and seize any opportunities to grow in life and give you the trait to stay calm in the time of crisis to be figure it out and come up with solutions

Adaptability comes with harnessing your mindset and cultivating your skills, you have to keep it up and running, it is not going to be how strong you are, because life is going to throw heavy punches at you which you are going to find difficult to contain, your ability to adapt to every situation puts you in a different track to undisputed. The world is fast changing and heading to different directions it is on you to move with the changes and innovations, the pandemic has disrupted the mode of operation, you just have to reinvent yourself and adapt.

https://anthonyemmanuel.com/it-is-not-about-the-fittest-those-who-adapt-are-the-real-change-makers/

#changemakers #changeyourmindset #changeyourlife

Adaptability provides you with flexibility of mentality those who adapt to different circumstance in life are the real change makers.

#changemakers

Chaotic nature of figuring out yourself and trying to be everywhere at the same time leaves you in dilemma, creating environment in alignment with your purpose brings clarity over your pursuit in life. What comes next is the determination to live in your own terms, turning those dreams to reality and achieving your long terms goals and live on fulfillment generally. Your growth is instrumental to this advancement, you have to bring that mentality in alignment with your purpose. It starts from your upbringing and the environment you grew up in and your orientation, this is where you take clue from every detail and use it as guide in alignment with purpose.

You need to build that confidence around you, life can hit you hard but you need to stand on that vision, this is part of life lessons that you take going forward, they play role in every stage you enter in life. When you’re obsessed with your dreams you make conscious effort to get rid of any obstacles on the way, you analyse and absorb, move to the next stage. It is about everything you stand for, your existential identity is infused in alignment with your purpose, it has to be a habit that you’re excited to get at it, waking up looking forward to getting the work done, you create environment where you thrive and make it come to reality.

You have to move with purpose, you’re going to walk alone in the process, that’s the price you pay when you’re embarking on something remarkable, it improves your exposure and relationships with people of likeminds, you spend more time in that circle, where sharing of masterful ideas take the central age, you evolve personally and professionally. There are so much to live for, you have to decide which part you’re on, creating environment in alignment with your purpose brings you closer to your dreams, you become mentally wired to focus on the target, and such moment brings out the best in you.

There is no shortcut to this journey, it is a progressive growth you have to embrace the process going forward, if you decide to follow the easy and quick route, when the dust settles you will realise that you set yourself ten years backwards. It is gradual process and you continue to unlock the puzzle, life is like that, it is about your ability to solve problems and create sustainable solutions. Anywhere you step in, have to come with your purpose, that’s how you create the environment, you breathe your purpose and live it, you need to walk in that path believing you have what it takes to make the difference and live for your purpose.

https://anthonyemmanuel.com/creating-environment-in-alignment-with-your-purpose/

#PurposeDrivenLife #purposefulliving #PurposeDriven

Your dreams, goals, and aspirations have to come in alignment with your purpose, that’s when you start to live for your self-actualization.

#sense of purpose #life purpose

The treasure you should always reach out to going forward is finding peace with yourself. You can’t make any headway without pressing the button internally, that’s how you get the best version of yourself, it creates moment of clarity and direction in yourself. It brings out the potentials in you and put you in the right track to accomplish your goals. The reverse is the case when you’re battling with yourself, it brings chaotic moments in your life. It could be career wise or relationship is at a very terrible stage, that it goes to the root of your existence and purpose in life. Your life is your primary concern, and the way you react to the rest of the situations determine the atmosphere that comes with either peace or chaos.

Making peace with yourself career wise:

The utmost pleasure one can seek is peace and happiness, they both combined to form the climax of human existence. As peace and happiness can connote different interpretations in individual understanding of it. In this context it is used to mean living your life through those lenses you have nurtured and crafted for yourself and use the influence of that to shine light in the lives of many. You might be fuming because you have not achieved half of what you wrote on your bucket list. The peace comes when you have the dreams turned realities. As much tough it can get, you need to pay the price of peace in your life, it is a sad thing to spend the rest of yourself doing a job you despise, you need to acknowledge the fact that it is going to be a hard one, and have what it takes to sustain the pressure.

Pressure is a good thing, if you have worked all your life and you have not been put to pressure positively to show character and grit, then you have not make any headway. To find peace with yourself you need to break that deadlock and live up to any challenges to get to the destination point. Getting your dream house, your dream cars and dream lifestyle come with extreme price, the price tag is huge but not impossible, you need to understand plans and processes to turn it into reality, there are millions of people out there fighting everyday to have their dreams come true, that’s the only option they have to make peace with themselves, avoid chaos and guilt that will creep in when needed efforts to make the dreams happen were find wanting. You need to be exceptionally good in your field and have no ceiling for your improvement.

Finding peace and solace in your relationship:

Many people are finding it very difficult to commit themselves in a relationship, due to their past experiences and what is happening around them, and also the role of social media. Many people find it very difficult to have a relationship built on peace, a place you can hold unto when everywhere is full of distress. To build a relationship where you can find peace with yourself, and create enough space for you and your partner to lean on each other to find long lasting peace and solace is still possible, you need to commit with likeminds, for you to be able to see a better version of yourself in your partner crack the code for you. It gives you emotional security, and the needed support to find peace with yourself.

https://anthonyemmanuel.com/the-best-way-to-make-peace-with-yourself/

#PeacefulMind #peaceofmind #PeacefulLiving #peace

You need to make peace with yourself going forward, that's only way to conquer the obstacles on the way and create a path for yourself.

#peaceofmind #inner peace

Forgiveness is the path way to a new life, that’s the last shot you need to start all over again to get yourself through that rain. You have been betrayed by the people you place all your trust in, and you’re finding it difficult to forgive them, you felt that the level of damage caused is enormous that it can never be forgiven, sometimes it is not the level of damage melted on you, but what you need to let go, to start new a life in a positive note without necessarily carrying the wounds of past relationships. When you overburden yourself with the thoughts and keen for revenge, it denies you the opportunity to look at yourself in the mirror, limiting your chances of picking the pieces of your broken self and start forging ahead.

You need to start the process of moving on with your life and it starts with art of forgiveness, it is encompassing, it is not something you do once and let go, you need to teach your mind how to get rid of those hurtful experiences that are occupying your thoughts, and it becomes overreaching when it pushes you for revenge. Focus on your career, prioritize everything that makes you happy, with that little distractions you will be able to have a life to live. When you make a step to your new life, the vision will become clearer, the desire for revenge will gradually die down, the shift in focus will be about yourself. It is one of those punches that life throws at you, you need to learn how to strategize to survive the punches.

Life is not always going to be bed of roses and not like people open arms for hurtful experiences, but these experiences are very pivotal for growth in life, they are practical experiences in life that shapes your approach to life. When you conquer your problems in life, it is like waste, you throw it in the bin and dispose them off. But, when you allow the waste to litter everywhere it becomes plagues making it hard to get rid of easily. Forgiveness places you on a different point of view immediately you conceive it, a point where you make peace with yourself going forward and you don’t have to be traumatised remembering it, it draws a meeting point between the hurtful experiences and your new life, they can easily coexist.

When you go through that experiences in life that you thought you would never survive it, and you were able to keep your head above water, it is an opportunity to create new opportunities that fit in with your purpose in life. You have passed through that stage of forgiveness, what comes next is a new life, a chance to make beautiful memories again. Life is a continuous process, you cannot fold under one hurtful experience, rather you learn to live off it. There are still myriads of chances to reach the height you had always wanted to reach in your career, you can still do it with your personal growth, it doesn’t stop at anything there is no ceiling for improvement, you can still live that beautiful life and create memories.

https://anthonyemmanuel.com/why-forgiveness-is-the-last-shot-to-a-new-life/

#forgiveness #forgivenessisfreedom #forgiveyourself #forgive

Forgiveness is the lead way to a new life, it creates meeting point with a life you enjoined yourself to seek amid life experiences.

#please forgive me #forgiveness

Guaranteed security of anything in life creates safe havens for it to be protected against any foreign element, to talk more of its importance in relationships, emotional security flourishes and grows bond that exists between two people who share in their flaws and perfections to form a unit of mind and soul. It is continuous communication that opens up the needed aspects of the relationship that needs security, you never know how someone receives love, the interpretation they give to it and the impact it makes in their lives. Emotional security grows stronger where in all circumstances your partner has your back and your interest at heart, even when you’re not present in the scene, that gives you emotional boost.

The most important aspect of showing love is the way the person receiving the love makes of it, loving someone the exact way the person wants to be loved. And it involves constant communications and a pair of good listeners, you always allow people to be heard and give the needed emotional support to show them that they actually belong. Respect is one of the most softest forms of love, when you feel respected in relationships it places you in the right position in the relationship. You need to know your stance in any relationship, how does it improve you personally and aid your career, some level of compromise to balance interest and have meeting of the minds in managing conflicts.

People can go out of the way to say hurtful things to the other especially when they are angry or angered, in relationships courtesy demands that you must be respectful in addressing your concerns, foul words and denigrating language should be jettisoned to avoid a mistake that might prove difficult to solve. Some in relationships don’t forget what their partners said during the time of argument, they believe that’s the time they show their real character and intentions, although, this might not be generally true as flair of emotions can contribute to someone saying something they do not actually mean, but as it goes, it is the person that receives the hurtful words will determine how they will interpret it, that’s why guarantee of emotional security create safe havens even in heated moments.Emotional security

Management of social life outside your relationship can be complex at times especially when both parties don’t understand each other, and couples should be aware enough to know that their emotional and romantic priority first resides with their partners, you can’t neglect that just to make people at your workplace feel that you belong. You can still keep up with people in your workplace and business associates without neglecting your partner’s right to emotional security, you have to pay attention to details and know that business is business, when business associates pose a threat to your partner’s emotional security, you need to communicate the feelings and have it sorted out.

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#emotionalintelligence #emotionalwellbeing #emotionalhealing #emotionalGuaranteed security of anything in life creates safe havens for it to be protected against any foreign element, to talk more of its importance in relationships, emotional security flourishes and grows bond that exists between two people who share in their flaws and perfections to form a unit of mind and soul. It is continuous communication that opens up the needed aspects of the relationship that needs security, you never know how someone receives love, the interpretation they give to it and the impact it makes in their lives. Emotional security grows stronger where in all circumstances your partner has your back and your interest at heart, even when you’re not present in the scene, that gives you emotional boost.

The most important aspect of showing love is the way the person receiving the love makes of it, loving someone the exact way the person wants to be loved. And it involves constant communications and a pair of good listeners, you always allow people to be heard and give the needed emotional support to show them that they actually belong. Respect is one of the most softest forms of love, when you feel respected in relationships it places you in the right position in the relationship. You need to know your stance in any relationship, how does it improve you personally and aid your career, some level of compromise to balance interest and have meeting of the minds in managing conflicts.

People can go out of the way to say hurtful things to the other especially when they are angry or angered, in relationships courtesy demands that you must be respectful in addressing your concerns, foul words and denigrating language should be jettisoned to avoid a mistake that might prove difficult to solve. Some in relationships don’t forget what their partners said during the time of argument, they believe that’s the time they show their real character and intentions, although, this might not be generally true as flair of emotions can contribute to someone saying something they do not actually mean, but as it goes, it is the person that receives the hurtful words will determine how they will interpret it, that’s why guarantee of emotional security create safe havens even in heated moments.Emotional security

Management of social life outside your relationship can be complex at times especially when both parties don’t understand each other, and couples should be aware enough to know that their emotional and romantic priority first resides with their partners, you can’t neglect that just to make people at your workplace feel that you belong. You can still keep up with people in your workplace and business associates without neglecting your partner’s right to emotional security, you have to pay attention to details and know that business is business, when business associates pose a threat to your partner’s emotional security, you need to communicate the feelings and have it sorted out.

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Emotional security creates safe havens in relationships as it guarantees balance of interests to have each other’s back.

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Happiness is a core existential element of you which defines your purpose and intents in life, everything you do revolves around it. Happiness is not fixated what might be happiness for one may not be for another, and it runs in that vein, and it may change over time as you evolve yourself to understand the precepts of life. In developed countries emphasis on happiness largely depends on love, individual goals, health, freedom, appreciation and romance, and less emphasis on money. It is sharp contrast in Africa, where money determines happiness, thereby losing the organic sight of essential elements of you. Due to economic might there is a bridge between the two climes, and that’s why happiness differs.

Millennials and Gen Z differ on what determines happiness, they can argue side by side and have different opinions as to the end product of life, the fulcrum of which life rests. The latter which grossly attached to social network, needing all the outer recognition to boost happiness and self-esteem. The former is likely to look inwardly in pursuing happiness, thereby bridging the gap of validation in favour of grinding to gain the respect and importance. In ever changing world happiness is continually being swayed by trends which make social buzz of daily living, and people tilt towards that line without necessarily sparking the internal joy but something that lives for the moment.

Expressing yourself is very important, you don’t have to confide yourself within small enclave of your mind. That which you enjoy doing in order to advance your life in a positive way, you need to express yourself and look beyond making mistakes. Mistakes are lessons learned, it gives you holistic assessments of your endeavour. The end product is happiness when you most have crossed that stage of understanding the basis of your endeavour in helping you to grow. It could be your talents where you’re looking for proper channel to show your ability to do certain things, when you go out of that space to express yourself, it will spark internal satisfaction.

Relationships help you to get to the end product of your existence, it prepares your mind and guarantee security of emotions. Healthy relationships push you to understand where your happiness resides. You need that right people around you, you need to feel that connection and emotional attachment, which comes from both sides. There should be matching of energy from both parties, and right channel of communication which brings out the beauty of consistency. Also it extends to important people in your life, staying in touch and quick checking up may make the difference.

The increasing attention on looks need to address how significant it is in taking your physical health seriously. Regular workout will not only keep your body in good shape but also the mental alertness. Healthy foods and also eating well, not allowing yourself to become totally out of shape. Quiet moments and even it means having enough sleep. It will help you to be in the right frame of mind to get on with your daily pursuit in life, when you feel good outside it is an invitation to also feel good inside. It is all about achieving the end product of life, which is anchored on happiness.

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Happiness is an essential element of you, it defines your purpose and intents and channel it to your daily pursuit in life.

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It is evidential that mode of parenting half century ago is no longer what it is obtainable today, it continues to evolve and change overtime. Modern parenting has become so stressful, the demands to raise well-mannered and well-behaved children have made some parents to loose themselves bit by bit mentally. The long list of responsibilities that come with living in ultra-modern world, pressure from within and outside create unfathomable measure of responsibility. As parents continue to give their children the best upbringing they can get, children are stressed and struggle to live up to the potential expected of them. Both parents and children are finding it difficult to navigate through these changes as the pressure pile up.

Absence of required patience is slowing the process, parents want to see the results without putting much efforts, it is about staying committed to the process, embracing each step and having the right approach to navigate through that phase. Sometimes, parents become overly saturated trying to fix family responsibilities, that they lose hold of their grip. With social media and all that buzz, concerning upbringing, parents need to wait to see how their efforts manifest, rushing the process could alter the work already done. Intended parents need to be intentional about their decision and have a well-thought-out plan on how to go about this phase, its tedious nature is enough to cause burn out.

Couples are leaning to the trend of no children in marriage, having children in marriage have been considered massively inconvenience, either ways there are people in support or against for various reasons. Children upbringing has become inbuilt stress that cannot be jettisoned. Children upbringing has created enough stress not to talk about couple’s expectations they have for each other, especially when it becomes difficult to share moment together after having kids, children tend to take substantial aspect of the time, and couples could no longer rejuvenate the bond that ignited their coming together as couple. In the course if trying to fix everything, parents often drag their health in the mud and looking stressed all the time.

Parents get hard on themselves when they make parental mistakes or use words they shouldn’t use on their children, as important parenting job is, parents should not seek perfection, but rather seek improvements in the needed areas, it can come in a way of therapist, listening to parenting podcast or trusted group you can share your parental experiences. Talking about your kids struggles don’t mean that everything is wrong with them, it is way of easing your stress, and provided you with the need relieve and energy needed for parenting responsibilities. Times have changes, parents need to keep tap with steady development of their children and their response to everything they are taught.

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Parenting tasks keep swingling from angles as times and space create different responsibilities to match up children upbringing.

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Forgiveness is the path way to a new life, that’s the last shot you need to start all over again to get yourself through that rain. You have been betrayed by the people you place all your trust in, and you’re finding it difficult to forgive them, you felt that the level of damage caused is enormous that it can never be forgiven, sometimes it is not the level of damage melted on you, but what you need to let go, to start new a life in a positive note without necessarily carrying the wounds of past relationships. When you overburden yourself with the thoughts and keen for revenge, it denies you the opportunity to look at yourself in the mirror, limiting your chances of picking the pieces of your broken self and start forging ahead.

You need to start the process of moving on with your life and it starts with art of forgiveness, it is encompassing, it is not something you do once and let go, you need to teach your mind how to get rid of those hurtful experiences that are occupying your thoughts, and it becomes overreaching when it pushes you for revenge. Focus on your career, prioritize everything that makes you happy, with that little distractions you will be able to have a life to live. When you make a step to your new life, the vision will become clearer, the desire for revenge will gradually die down, the shift in focus will be about yourself. It is one of those punches that life throws at you, you need to learn how to strategize to survive the punches.

Life is not always going to be bed of roses and not like people open arms for hurtful experiences, but these experiences are very pivotal for growth in life, they are practical experiences in life that shapes your approach to life. When you conquer your problems in life, it is like waste, you throw it in the bin and dispose them off. But, when you allow the waste to litter everywhere it becomes plagues making it hard to get rid of easily. Forgiveness places you on a different point of view immediately you conceive it, a point where you make peace with yourself going forward and you don’t have to be traumatised remembering it, it draws a meeting point between the hurtful experiences and your new life, they can easily coexist.

When you go through that experiences in life that you thought you would never survive it, and you were able to keep your head above water, it is an opportunity to create new opportunities that fit in with your purpose in life. You have passed through that stage of forgiveness, what comes next is a new life, a chance to make beautiful memories again. Life is a continuous process, you cannot fold under one hurtful experience, rather you learn to live off it. There are still myriads of chances to reach the height you had always wanted to reach in your career, you can still do it with your personal growth, it doesn’t stop at anything there is no ceiling for improvement, you can still live that beautiful life and create memories.

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Forgiveness is the lead way to a new life, it creates meeting point with a life you enjoined yourself to seek amid life experiences.

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