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you don't just marry a person. you marry their ecosystem. their food. the temperature of their house. their sleep schedule. their friends.their family. their way of moving through the world

theambitiouswoman

This made me think about all the “I can change them” people and how in reality, it usually ends up changing you. The reason we become those people isn’t just control but the hope that love can create the safety we are craving. That we never got or aren’t giving to ourselves. It’s attaching to potential instead of reality. Believing that if you can fix what feels off, you won’t get hurt later. That if you can shape the situation, you can finally relax

Sometimes it comes from old patterns where love to you meant earning, proving, or holding everything together. So you start adjusting yourself your standards, your needs, your routines,trying to make the relationship work. But you don’t change someone into alignment, you choose someone who already is because that “ecosystem” isn’t a small detail. It’s your everyday life. It’s what you wake up to, how you feel in your own body around them

And if you constantly have to reshape yourself to fit into theirs, you’re not building a life together you’re slowly abandoning pieces of yourself just to stay. And this expands to everything else in your life. Just to avoid looking inward, and really going for the love you deserve

circuslollipop

so i read a tempest of tea by @hafsahfaizal recently and just KNEW i had to make fanart for it, so here's something inspired by the illustration on the inside of the owlcrate edition dust jacket--matteo showing the group the plans he'd drawn up!

serenadeformice-deactivated2025

Girl who is about to tell you the saddest fucking thing you've ever heard in your life: Okay so funny story actually, when I was a kid-

fellator

doesn't it piss you off that you have to find something to eat every single day. every one of them. just every day. you gotta eat something

spinalfluiddarling

if I ever pass away do NOT unfollow me. I will be back

louisegluckpdf

got my lab results back turns out i’m full of rage because i am full of grief

hiveswap

The time between 2015 and 2020 and the time between 2020 and 2025 cant be the same

handweavers

how it feels to wake up without getting your required 13 hours of sleep daily

exwife-of-frankenstein

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a-mind-in-ruins

People just be too late. Its too late. I don't want it. I wanted it when I wanted it. I don't want it now.

nightlyquotes

“It’s become very apparent to me that the older you are the less praise you’re going to get. When you’re 3 and you paint a picture outside the lines, they give you gold stars. When you’re 10 and you score a goal, they take you out for ice-cream. But when you’re 17 and struggling to fit in, no one gives you a hug just for making it through the day. And when you’re 23 and pulling long hours at the office, no one asks if you’re alright. And you start to wonder if you are, if there’s a point to any of it. The answer is yes. Because good work, real good work that shapes your character, doesn’t need to be acknowledged. You grow in the silences, in the reflections, in the inhales and exhales that let you know you’ve made it from one moment to the other.”

— Unknown

probuccalfat

nobody gets me. not because i’m really complicated or anything but because i won’t tell anyone anything real about me

hjarta-deactivated20260124

in my room on a saturday evening talking to myself like this

abedmajed69

💔🇵🇸 My Daughter Was Born Under Bombs — I'm Just Trying to Keep Her Alive

My name is Abdulmajid.

I got married one month before the war. Those were beautiful days — full of hope, love, and simple dreams. I dreamed of a small home, a quiet family, and a baby girl I could hold without fear.

But the war came… Suddenly. Brutally.

My mother was killed. My brother was killed. Children in my family were taken by the bombs. My home was destroyed. And my work stopped completely.

Then… in the middle of this nightmare, my baby girl was born. A tiny soul, innocent, unaware of the war. She cries from hunger, from cold, from the sounds of bombs shaking what’s left of our walls.