As a partner or a wife in a Domestic Discipline relationship, you must experience the effects like a punishment spanking feels like it is way too much for you to handle. Adults have mechanisms to handle pain, and that has to be overcome. If you are sitting there weighing the pros and cons thinking, I might get spanked for this, but I’m going to do it anyway. Your spankings are not actually working. They are not being a deterrent. They are not being a motivation to do the right thing. It also means you do not embrace the concept of a submissive partner and the belief of obedience without hesitation. Spanking is a structure of domestic discipline to motivate behavior and to elicit growth in your taken in hand and your relationship. And so you really do have to look at is the spanking severe enough to actually motivate. Is it severe enough to actually change and modify behavior? If the answer it no then your relationship is a fraud.















