If you want to be my friend then be my friend. I am a friend to the people I choose and I don’t expect anything in return. Stop treating your desire to be my friend as something transactional. You want my time? My energy? The only person who controls that is me.
Don’t refer to me as family, found or otherwise. Emotional manipulation is not the way to get me to give you more than I’m willing to give. If the only way to get me to give you what you want is to imply that our bond is an obligation then idk how the fuck I’m suppose to want that for myself.
Grow the fuck up. You are not essential in my life. If you are here it’s because I want you to be. If you don’t see me in your life anymore it’s because I choose not to be. Blame yourself for whichever situation you find yourself in.
My life is full of leeches I stg.
