The d00d's reaction to "NO".

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MCALC the first Gender Neutral Menstruation Calculator.

Mcalc started off as an idea to create a menstruation calculator app that could be used by anyone regardless of their gender, this way our app keeps the trans* and genderqueer community in mind so they can enjoy the features without being constantly misgendered (as with other apps).

Our new app is still in BETA so we appreciate any feedback you can give us at [email protected], we try to solve as many bugs as possible in as little time as we can so please, let us know if anything is not working properly.

What is Mcalc?

Mcalc is a new menstruation calculator app, it tracks your period and keeps you updated on your current status and any upcoming important events of your menstrual cycle

How does it work?

Simple! just provide the app with some basic information about you and your cycle, Mcalc will calculate the rest, taking your personal context into consideration. Afterwards you can set alarms and even log relevant events.

What features does it have?

-Neutrality Guaranteed: We understand that sex and gender identity are not the same, because of this, we designed our app so it can be used by almost everyone. Mcalc is 100% gender neutral and it won’t assume anything from you while using it.

-Notifications: Mcalc will keep you updated on the important dates of your menstrual cycle, it’s built in alarm system will allow you to set notifications you care about.

-Adaptation: We all have different needs, and Mcalc can suit them accordingly, it will only display the information relevant to your purposes and won’t nag you with irrelevant data. Using Mcalc on “sex mode” will help you reduce your risks of getting pregnant when having sex for fun, while setting it on “baby mode” will help you increase your chances of getting pregnant when planning one.

-Tracking: Mcalc lets you keep a log of your activity for later reference, it’s as simple as tapping a date in our calendar and tick the events that happened that day to save them for further reference.

-Information: Discover new things about menstrual cycles by using Mcalc’s informative pages.

You can learn more about mcalc by visiting our website: http://sexmind.com/mcalc-en/index.html

Or you can go to the app store and download it here: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.Sexmind.Calculator

GET MCALC TODAY!

*************************VERY IMPORTANT EDIT****************************** Due to the ammount of feedback and notes we have had we want to make a few announcements: Features that we will include in the next version or upcoming updates:

-BUG FIXES: We will try to support more android versions as well as fixing the current bugs on the supported ones ( such as being unable to set a weight over 150lbs and other minor bugs we found on supported versions ) -Tablet version: We will adapt our app so that it can also be used on android tablets

-“Neutral mode/All info mode”: We will add a new mode that is completely neutral to your purposes with the app, that way you can view all the information without Mcalc asking if you are looking to get pregnant or if you are just having sex for fun ( This way we become more inclusive with the Asexual community and every person who just wants to keep a track on their period)

-IOS VERSION!!!!!!!: DUE TO THE HIGH DEMAND WE WILL LAUNCH (in the next couple of days) AN INDIEGOGO CAMPAIGN TO FINANCE THE IOS VERSION, PLEASE STAY TUNED AND FOLLOW SEXMIND ON TUMBLR SO THAT YOU CAN SUPPORT OUR PROJECT AND HELP US SIGNAL BOOST TO MAKE THIS A REALITY FOR IOS PHONES.

we will make all further announcements through our main tumblr, so please follow back if you are interested. sexmind.tumblr.com

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why? what? wait. wtf?

[nametheproblem]

Hugo Schwyzer

Hugo Schwyzer drove while drugged and severely injured a woman.

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The Hugo.

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DEAREST DARLINGS,

We, the moderators of male-tears, are afraid that the special misandrist something has faded. We’ve gotten all the anon asks, we’ve seen all of the hate, and the spark has gone out of our blogging.

It’s time to bring in new mods.

Male-tears is a really sweet blog and we...

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spread the misandry.

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Radical comes from the old Latin word for “root” and is used to describe this branch of feminist theory because the approach aims to identify and alter the root causes of structural inequality and oppression. Radical Feminists do want want to reform our existing patriarchal society. We want to end sexist exploitation and oppression and recognize this will take a holistic approach to revolutionize our society. There are a few cornerstone beliefs to Radical Theory: Radical analysis identifies our culture as patriarchal, and further, as racist, classist, militarist, ableist, and a host of other 'ists that started with the first 'ist which was males dominating over women and building an uber-hierarchy of male supremacy. Radical Feminism believes all sexual use of women that is attained through any form of coercion—whether it be economical, direct force, manipulation or by disabling our power to say no by weakening us (think a cultural or literal roofie)—or any sexual use attained for the purpose of exploitation, is harmful to the status of women, the rights of women, and the dignity of women. From this starting point, Radicals analyze ALL sexual interactions from the brothel to the marriage bed. Because of this, we are abolitionists. There is no gray area. Radical Feminists want the end of all forms of prostitution and pornography. We do not shame women involved in prostitution, many Radical Feminists came to Radical Feminism through the sex industry. Many of us still work supporting those who want to exit. We critique heteronormativity where women are encouraged without option to marry males and have children in part because most male violence against women happens inside the home between women and intimate partners. We believe women should not be forced into the arms of their oppressors. This is where we get the 'male hating' label. Some of us are lesbians, some of us are not, but we all recognize male violence as an important world problem against girls and women that requires serious conversation and solution. RADICAL FEMINISTS ARE NOT EQUALITY FEMINISTS. This does NOT mean we think women should dominate over men. This means we see the ENTIRE SYSTEM as unequal, and seeking to be equal with our OPPRESSORS is a waste of energy. Having female CEOs may look good on paper, but does she have a 1st generation immigrant woman cleaning her house while she is gone? Does she walk past drugged addicted, trafficked prostitutes on her way to work? Was her suit sewn in a sweatshop full of women and children? Is she experiencing violence at home by her husband? Radical Feminists are LIBERATION FEMINISTS. It is not enough that there are SOME INDIVIDUAL women who are doing well living within the terms of patriarchy. Radicals are notorious for caring first and foremost about the women who are the least privileged. We seek to liberate ALL WOMEN from oppression under male supremacist culture. We use class analysis in debate. We don't make choices and decisions based on what's right for each individual woman. We consider women a class and men a class. We consider all women in decision making, not just the privileged. Radical Feminists always put girls and women first. We are gender atheists. We believe gender is strictly a social construct, a role or performance forced on females from birth to raise us up to be subordinate to patriarchy and to men, who are raised to dominate. We’re antiwar, antiviolence, antiracist, anti-capitalist and antisexual exploitation of all humans. We fight for the right to meet without our oppressor present as all oppressed groups have done throughout history. This is controversial because in some situations we request to meet alone with only women who were born biologic female and raised as girls since birth under the patriarchal teachings of subordination. We believe this deep universal and subliminal socialization must be recognized to be fully understood. This is called feminist consciousness raising and it is a feminist tradition of trust and love.

http://wwomenwwarriors.wordpress.com/

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Guest Post: Ola Pandora gets rantastic on pomo sex-pozzie librul snowflakism

Ok, we are like 6000 years (at least) behind on all the philosophy and the theory and the literature and stuff. So it's not like we have time to waste in pissing contests, a.k.a. inf...

Cause it actually IS that simple.

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They're all over the place. So are we. But it's not the same.

Women have fought for and held their space and their voice and their rights since time immemorial. Witches, healers, amazons, suffragettes, lesbians and radical feminists, among others, as well as combinations of the above have witnessed repeatedly how when they defend their space, fight for their rights and make their voices heard, the Powers That Be go berserk.

MRAs whine like there's no tomorrow, libfems throw up their hands in horror at the abuse we are perpetrating on their men friendz, prepubescent pornstricken d00ds call for trolling raids, brocialists jump to explain how our priorities are wrong and most unicorns end up showing that what they really are are asses with a bump when they see that "but don't feminists fight for gender equality" is met with a simple, determined "No. We fight for liberation. Now shut up". And I won't even begin to describe how the trans folk react when we set this extremely simple boundary.They resort to anything. Bullying, ridiculing, threatening, censoring, the works.

They're all over the place. And not in a good way.

But the thing is that what they do, is to actually make us take even more space, and do it with more conviction, more strength and above all, more women. Because what happens with women spaces is that those who participate in them, learn to cherish and defend them in a way only they can do. Bear in mind that for many women, these are unique, once in a lifetime experiences and memorable "first times". So what happens when you shut down these spaces is that you get more. You force those women to replicate that lost space any and everywhere they can. And every time that happens, more women take the lead. For instance, the woman writing this did not have a tumblr account before ;-)

Minutes after Facebook took down Boner Busters (after having taken down its predecessor, BraBusters, under allegations that the radfems who took over the formerly porn page and filled it with radical feminisn, were posting, brace yourselves, porn) the women who participated in the space got together and decided that we will re write EVERY single word we have written there, every single thought we have discovered there, every little bit of truth that we have seen there (so many of us for the first time in our life). We decided that, in fact, we will write EVEN more, speak even more, think even more, and love (some many of us for the first time in our life) even more.

That does not mean that we were not outraged at the injustice.Outrage is a funny word. Just like us and all the women before us, it has "rage" inside. The rage we are not allowed to have when we see death and destruction all around us, and the rage that we endure every day of our lives, around us and inside us, inside our bodies and our souls, and the bodies and the souls of all our mothers, all our sisters, and all our daughters from the very men we gave life to, because all women are givers of life, including those who are never mothers, because woman is life. That rage, that same rage, is what allows us to get up again, and keep fighting. So it's good. But the most important bit is that this irrational - and yet unsurprising - act of injustice has strengthened us in ways those Powers That Be had not expected. They taught us how to collaborate, how to find alternatives, how to multitask like superheroines, how to organize globally (admins of BB cover 7 time zones), how sisterhood works and the even more valuable lessons that there is nothing forbidden to us and that we are not alone. So now we're all over the place. But in a good way.

We have two new pages for the one taken down: we created the Spinsters Auxiliary Needlework and Havoc-Wreaking Society and other women inspired by all this gave us another page for those fond of keeping the word "busters" in a page name. We still have this tumblr to record all the reasons why the NAMALT argument (Not All Men Are Like That) is a fantasy, and this one here to record what happens when women say NO. Other women have created Radical Feminist pages on Herstory, Literature, Theory, Pornstitution, Music & Poetry, Loving Women and even humour. (Because we actually DO have a sense of humour, you really should have heard us roar with laughter during the troll swarms). And there are more to come. So this is a quick note to say that it didn't happen. We did not shut up. And we never will. Until we are free. Until we win. 

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This is a summarized account of the prepubescent rage of 4channers. Their strategies to "take over", their anger and finally, their disappointment about the fact that we were watching and screencapping their crap. Finally, a reflection right from the boner's mouth: "In some kind of fucked up way" he wants to carry on doing what he does.

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More interesting messages from the d00ds and their sock puppet women profiles.

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Because Hitler never gets old. Also, funny that we're the feminazis.

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I have met a group of extraordinary women some months ago. They are Radical Feminists. They are so extraordinary that their awesomeness is contagious. I have become more radical, more feminist and more extraordinary just by being around them. By reading their analyses, hearing their music, seeing...

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Just another sample of how entitlement works.

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Moar d00d accepting boundaries.

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Just one sample of how smoothly "This is a women only space" went with the d00ds. More to come. MASSIVE WARNING FOR D00DS DOING TRIGGERY SHIT.

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No means "me no likez". Well, see how I care.

I have met a group of extraordinary women some months ago. They are Radical Feminists. They are so extraordinary that their awesomeness is contagious. I have become more radical, more feminist and more extraordinary just by being around them. By reading their analyses, hearing their music, seeing their art, watching their politics, which also means watching their lives. A small group of these women took over a porny facebook page from some idiots who posted pics of women's breasts and commented with all their wisdom about the size or what they'd do to those women. After women took over they also commented what they thought about that. You can find most of that, as well as new additions of male opinions, here. A few months later, Facebook took down the now NOT porny, but Radfem page in a real display of rapey mantrum politics. These are the details. So this group of women, now larger, created a new page, Boner Busters. And it rocked! It also showed in detail what the reaction is when women get together and start operating independently from their masters, even for harmless things such as facebook posts. The page was a space where women shared articles on herstory, sexuality, politics, health, spirituality, about what women had done, about what women could do and about what women wanted to do. So, a few days ago we focused on PIV , its reality, its consequences, and its implications. That quite naturally led to us further detaching ourselves from The Men as an institution (Also, for some of us, it meant detaching ourselves from the men IRL) and that in turn, led to us (some for the first time) setting our boundaries.  We soon set the page to be a women only space. And in each of these four steps, hell broke loose. The escalation of the menz' (and some of the women helping them in their oppression and destruction) reaction was amazing. We got messages about how they "admired" us (while still mansplaining what we had to do), then messages about how they did "NOT APPROVE" of our recent statements, and finally and quite quickly, to specific insults and disgusting violent threats, including graphics of mutilation and rape, and dreadful grammar, some of which you can find here.. What followed defies belief. A bunch of prepubescent d00ds called for a 4chan raid, while other groups of assorted trolls flooded the page with their opinions, and their demands. HOW DARE WE not allow the men to speak at our Page. We even got a real funny one from a guy threatening us with legal action (which he referred to as "his legalities") because we published a screencap of his actual words. All of this, we survived, and with every new sample of d00dness, we grew more certain that what we were doing was right. With most admins blocked from facebook due to their outrageous double standards that allow men to post and send pictures of rotting corpses being raped but will ban pictures of breastfeeding mothers and statements like "My feminism will be about women or it will not be feminism", and the immature swarm of trolls now devoted to reporting the page "incessantly", finally the page got unpublished.

This of course, has NO consequence whatsoever for the women running BB. If anything, it has strengthened our conviction to build, and defend, women only space. We have backup of most materials and new pages underway. The value of this injustice lies in the fact that it does not require ANY action from us, other than looking and standing our ground to trigger their hate. Our just being there, not doing anything for the men, or related to men, our saying "I do not care what you think about me, about what I should think, feel or behave. I do not care what your opinion is on my beliefs, my body or my politics. I am not here to be APPROVED by you. I am a woman. I am a radical feminist. Your judgment and opinions on me are irrelevant to me", that alone unleashed the truth about men and their class behaviour. And when we took the extra step and added that we cared about women, exclusively and specifically, well, that was too much. They closed it down and we'll open a million more. We will re write EVERY single word we have written there, every single thought we have discovered there, every little bit of truth that we have seen there (so many of us for the first time in our life), I have no doubt about that. In fact, we will write EVEN more, speak even more, think even more, and love (some many of us for the first time in our life) even more.  It does not mean that we don't feel outraged. Funny how rage is contained in the word outraged. The rage we are not allowed to have when we see death and destruction all around us, and the rage that we endure every day of our lives, around us and inside us, inside our bodies and our souls, and the bodies and the souls of all our mothers, all our sisters, and all our daughters from the very men we gave life to.

So yes, we have that healthy, liberating rage against what holds an entire world slave to a cruel oppression. But we are also exhilarated. We CAN choose our agenda, our priorities, our rules, our ideas. We can think and discuss and create. We can do that without men (we have both the right AND the ability to do so) and we will. That simple.

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He does NOT approve of this video

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He says it like it's a bad thing.

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Common reactions to women setting their boundaries.