settling in a dream...

collective account for some pluralthings so tired

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low activity upd. 24/3

plural on/off forever

old pinned posts and coined terms

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ask abt us 1-5≈ ppl any given moment

P.s - certain posts have certain tags mostly due to purpose of that post

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how do i pretend ? - 💜

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would it be easier to just say plurality is community aligned n multiplicity is medically aligned and for peace sake we should just put a border between the two?

then ppl can use their own discretion and freewill to choose the language without offending those who can't get their head out of or into a textbook; both can be called systems - 🎀

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not really, because there are many who have DID and who do not want to be associated with medical ideas and who associate themselves more with community aligned spaces and there are those without DID that feel like their experiences are still medically aligned for certain reasons and/or do not associate themselves with community aligned spaces

i think there's an implication that there's an experience that should be called plurality and there's an experience that should be called multiplicity and that they are different experiences. and until you have solid, verifiable proof that says so, you're drawing lines in sand that mean nothing with people's actual experiences.

what about those that need medical support that also identify as endogenic or mixed origin and whom call themselves a plural multiple and whom love the community but also require a therapist for their issues?

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dont want to drag it but also dont want unneeded flack so ill clarify your take is the most responsible one if we're considering the scenario that the vocal minority which engages the majority (suddenly) starts appreciating nuance in good faith which both sides need to work on and which i believe is often not the case. That's the angle i was originally intending and id hope everyone could graduate from such black and white views but its not the case all the time hence what i said

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would it be easier to just say plurality is community aligned n multiplicity is medically aligned and for peace sake we should just put a border between the two?

then ppl can use their own discretion and freewill to choose the language without offending those who can't get their head out of or into a textbook; both can be called systems - 🎀

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we've never really had that sense of existing together collectively instead of with each other like it seems with other ppl

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headmates are ppl... or not if they don't want/you dont function that way thats their prerogative/just how you work

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lowkey evolution of one of my headmates

☂️ > 🫐 > 🦋/☁️/🌈 > 🌪

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you're valid if you don’t want people to kmow your plural, especially if you have that minority opinion in your group or community

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Problematic post maybe

was abt to feel bad my difficult days aren't more severe n often and in the midst of trying to accept someone can feel very intense things and still ultimately manage it which is true often the case and healthu way to think but i feel guilt and jealousy over it being fake looking and not bad enough

then i remember i have a headmate (condolences) with consistent mental health issues that in a twisted way makes me feel like not all of its fake n i feel better but terrible for her

any opportunity ill shout her out feels so communal to me - @luminousorchestraectoplasm

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started out as a companion, turned into my broken mirror /neu

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oh i did not miss the discourse jeez

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So imaginary friends are plural? So ur alters are just imaginary friends 😭???? Riiiiight

1st ask ever.. cool aka my reason for ressurecting this blog sorry it wasnt answered sooner

ill hope this in good faith but really it depends on the individual, plurality can be manifested as imaginary friends but

rather than imaginary friends which behave similar to puppets my parts are tulpas which tho theyre created are fully autonomous/independent

i mostly refrain from calling them alters by the way as its a medical term exclusive to a cdd which i dont have

hope that clarifies stuff

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ok ykw i didnt want to derail another post so like i get that nonblack having black headmates thing but i never see it the other way round because im bored i feel left out of something that has no stake in my life but honestly its a wider problem as a mixed person ive always felt onesided im technically not even white at all but culturally thats how it manifests and the same goes for my majority white skinned group

sidenote: for some reason my poc ocs end up bring different flavours of self-insert too anyway i just feel like there's an inherent shame sometimes in poc who aren't as connected to their culture(s) and seeing the alterrace thing just amplifies that for me ik i reek of victim complex and whataboutism im sorry apparently id rather think ahout this than work n thats how it comes out

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Sure those things about us are true but we're lonely as fuck in this place so why not emphasise the reasons why even more, its like i (mostly) have an allergy to belonging

spotlighting my girl/my good friend @luminousorchestraectoplasm

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btw u cant kill a consciousness hope this helps (IMO)

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hearing music i like but doesn't 'belong to me is bittersweet and sad there's a semi-sweet loneliness to it cuz fuck

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my p3 is that syscourse about endos even occurs, only the system in question knows whats going on in their head and people trying to guess otherwise is genuinely so infuriating and i wish EVERYONE talking about syscourse would just hush about it

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