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[theeternalfaye]

My Trans Peeps

genuine question… how do you know you’re trans? Like all my friends are telling me I’m a trans man… cause I get excited when people use he him pronouns for me… but for me it’s more of a ooh were switching it up kind of a thing? Buf like if I were to refer to myself as any gender at all, I’d just say I’m gender-fucked… cause I just don’t give two shits? To clarify… I don’t like like it when they say I’m a trans-man cause men bleh… but how do I know (not like accusing them of being predatory or shit… this isn’t a what’s in ur pants thing) my trans friends aren’t doing the same thing? I pretty much only know trans-fems… who all hate men… but one trans-man who openly identifies as a misogynist because of his grandma? again the ‘know’ is more of a theoretical than a I NEED TO KNOW thing.

[theeternalfaye]

Also also also… if ur wondering why I don’t ask my trans friends this… they all hate me rn… woo hoo mentally ill peeps (I also am a mentally ill peep)

[theeternalfaye]

My Trans Peeps

genuine question… how do you know you’re trans? Like all my friends are telling me I’m a trans man… cause I get excited when people use he him pronouns for me… but for me it’s more of a ooh were switching it up kind of a thing? Buf like if I were to refer to myself as any gender at all, I’d just say I’m gender-fucked… cause I just don’t give two shits? To clarify… I don’t like like it when they say I’m a trans-man cause men bleh… but how do I know (not like accusing them of being predatory or shit… this isn’t a what’s in ur pants thing) my trans friends aren’t doing the same thing? I pretty much only know trans-fems… who all hate men… but one trans-man who openly identifies as a misogynist because of his grandma? again the ‘know’ is more of a theoretical than a I NEED TO KNOW thing.

[theeternalfaye]

Hey Rad-Fems

I have a genuine question. Why do you care if trans-women identify as women? Like if gender isn’t real, then why can’t they be women? Cause I’ll let people use whatever pronouns they want for me… cause genders fake and who gives two shits… (and this could very well just be my mental illness kicking in, cause I believe I’m above gender… and I’m better than everyone else and stuff) but I know people who are trans, and I’ll respect their pronouns and stuff… but I just don’t care? Like it takes more effort to say ‘no you’re a man’ than it does to just go with whatever. So why do you put in the effort?

[honeytonedhottie]

fun things to do INSTEAD of scrolling°❀⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🍈

the point of this post is to help u maybe limit ur phone usage and to give ur time purpose and feel more fulfilled.

learn something new online : start following up with an online course, theres this website (coursera.org) where u can engage in some courses and learn something new. CONTINUOUS LEARNING is probably something that i'd advocate for the most. there r so many things that u can learn online literally dont limit urself, i learned a whole LANGUAGE online. u can learn thru youtube, websites, reading online books, academic journals and articles, my girlblog :) etc

make a video to ur future self : like literally sit in front of ur camera and just chat as if ur chatting to ur future self (this can also double as a manifestation exercise) just TALK to ur future self, its sm fun when u look back and have a conversation with ur past self and to see all the things that u manifested materialized. its a lot of fun fr. this is especially good if ur the kind of person who struggles to see the progression that you've made. looking back on this SHOWS u ur progression.

turn ur phone into a productivity MACHINE : delete apps that make u feel distracted, get rid of old numbers on ur phone, unfollow ppl that give off negative energy/make u distracted. use notion (i love notion with my life) make schedules and to-do lists.

get a hobby : learn something new, start a hobby or continue one that you've had in the past. its genuinely so fulfilling to have something to do. (lately i've been into photography) if u can't find a hobby right at this moment then dedicate ur time and energy into something that'll serve u in the future. for me, i've been putting a lot of my time towards community service bcuz thats something that'll serve me in the future.