We are a fruit(y) salad

Traumawillo system of 16 alters Formerly @ollie-an-fwens and @the-ashen-system

[thefruitsaladsystem]

Hello! We are the fruit salad sys/collective!

If you want to know who’s fronting go here: https://pluralkit.xyz/f/tyyjun

Simply plural: Thefruitsaladsys (you can send a friend request but please tell me on here)

We are a mixed origin system of 12 62 112 members.

we run @fruitsalad-bah

Bodily a minor please don’t be a creep

We are ok being called alters or headmates. We refer to ourselves as fruits. We are not “parts”

We use both We/Us and I/Me, and if referring to multiple of us we use They/Them (Plural)

Systems can form from autism and maladaptive daydreaming and I will not argue about this (We are pro-endo and want to stay away from syscourse in other words)

Now for our intros! (Click the links and it will take you to our individual intros which are in progress)

Ollie/Rain/Dizzy, They/He/Xey, Host, @thedamsolangelofan

Finn, He/It, Co-host, @finn-l0v3y, #Fruity Finn

Berry, She/It/Xe, Idk, @b3rry-yay, #Fruity Berry

Nico, He/Him, Protector, @nicoisntsilly, #Fruity Nico

Theo/Brina She/They/Star/Any, Caretaker, @x0x0sw33t, #Fruity Theo

𝚆𝚒𝚕𝚕, 𝙷𝚎/𝙷𝚒𝚖, 𝙲𝚊𝚛𝚎𝚝𝚊𝚔𝚎𝚛, @willisstillsilly #𝙵𝚛𝚞𝚒𝚝𝚢 𝚆𝚒𝚕𝚕

Leto, They/Them, Former co-host, #Fruity Leto

Lacy, She/Fae, Little #Fruity Lacy

Vix, He/Him, Protector, @dumbassery-sold-here, #Fruity Vix

Ⓡⓞⓧⓘⓔ, Ⓘⓣ/Ⓘⓣⓢ, Ⓛⓘⓣⓣⓛⓔ, #Ⓕⓡⓤⓘⓣⓨ Ⓡⓞⓧⓘⓔ

ᴺᵃˡᵃ/ᴬˡᵉˢˢᵃ, ˢʰᵉ/ᴴᵉʳ, ᴾᵉʳˢᵉᶜᵘᵗᵒʳ, #ᶠʳᵘⁱᵗʸ ᴺᵃˡᵃ (translation: (Nala/Alessa, She/Her, Persecutor, #Fruity Nala)

Nanachi, They/Them but She/Her is fine, Fictive, #Fruity Nanachi

Grian, He/Him?, Factive, SOURCE DIVERGENT.

Cherry Blossom (Cherry), She/It/They/That, I don’t honestly know, @ch3rry-yay, #Fruity Cherry

Siena/Sienna, She/Any (not he/him), kinda an introject, @thesixteenthreason (btw we don’t hate her, she came up with the blog name), #Fruity Siena

1011001/Y, It/Sh3/Glitch, robot, @i-am-y, #Y fruit salad

Fizzi/Fizz/Fizzarolli, She/They/He, source divergent helluva boss fictive, #Fruity Fizz

Mira, They/She, KPDH introject, #Fruity Mira

The littles blog is @smollie-ollieee

[dranktwocoffees]

no silena never died wdym? did you have a nightmare

[animentality]

[thedailyheadmate]

headmate who refuses to admit he's gay for someone in his source

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[thedailyheadmate]

Bill cypher headmate who exclusively refers to his headmates with the emoji that they chose to represent them

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[thefruitsaladsystem]

I just realized why Jax and Angel front together so much so that’s cool

[thefruitsaladsystem]

On an unrelated note, you ever just find our two of your headmates are dating and you’re really shocked cause you would not expect that pair?

🙂 <- in shock

(These posts are very related if you can’t tell)

[thefruitsaladsystem]

I just realized why Jax and Angel front together so much so that’s cool

[firstlevelflags]

identity host

[fuckradios]

I'll complain about how I don't interact with sourcemates then complain when I do. Especially other Voxes. Yeah, you want to be a cult leader, that’s nice. Do you have ANYTHING else you want to contribute?

[memories]

The day I started posting about #system stuff was the best day of my life.

[autistobrat]

i think someone on tumblr is secretly an owl

[thefruitsaladsystem]

ITS ME IM THE OWL

[the-blue-fairie]

Original comic by Rasenth

[memories]

According to all known laws of #nico blabbers, there is no way a #coppy should be able to #my ocs.

[thefruitsaladsystem]

real

[im-not-an-expert-lol]

Been meaning to post these for a while now, but saw a hate post earlier that inspired us to finally do it!

ENDOS ARE PUNK AF!!!!!

Endos are punk!

Endos are real

Endos are valid

Endos aren't anti-trauma

Endos can have trauma

Endos can have disorders

anti-endos are oppressive

Sysmeds are gatekeepers

willogenic, tulpagenic, endogenic, whatever- all origins are valid

endos aren't mistaken or faking!

You are valid, you are real, and YOU ARE PUNK!!!!

[serafawnforest]

There is this false narrative that Complex Dissociative Disorders are only caused by the most extreme trauma imaginable, when that isn’t true for most pw/CDDs.

Though it does happen, pw/CDDs do not usually have histories including the most horrific actions recorded in history, and this belief is often dangerous to people with the disorder.

Everyone with a CDD has severe trauma response. However, development of CDDs is not related to the severity of trauma, but instead to the complexity of trauma. This is why disorganised attachment to caregivers is common in pw/CDDs, because the shift of adapting from extreme kindness to cruelty is too complex for children to manage.

In most situations, dissociative responses to trauma are due to feeling like a situation is inescapable. Children may experience abuse, neglect or multiple “less horrific” traumatic events, and feel as though they cannot escape the situation, usually due to a combination of repeated trauma and lack of an adequate support system. Due to this feeling, children dissociate, since it is the only method of escaping the overwhelming feeling when other escape routes are not accessible. Missing a support system to overcome traumatic events or stressful feelings and situations is a recognised central cause of dissociative responses.

It’s also important to mention that children have a higher predisposition to dissociation, due to already having a less cohesive identity. For this reason, children may experience dissociative responses to situations that adults (without a history of dissociation) would not.

When adults experience complex trauma, for example domestic abuse, it’s not uncommon for them to mention feeling as though they “lost themselves” or “need to rebuild themselves” because they already have a cohesive self, but their trauma made them dissociate from that self. Children, however, do not have a cohesive self to “lose” and therefore the threshold for dissociation is lower.

Many people with CDDs do not recognise their trauma as being severe enough to qualify for a dissociative disorder. This is due to dissociation, and denial, but also because the false narratives about how CDDs appear, and what our trauma looks like, because people will often only listen to stories which can be turned into a spectacle for consumption. Your trauma is enough, regardless of what it may be, and you don’t need to doubt yourself.

TLDR — Development of DID is not exclusively connected to severity of trauma, and not everyone with DID has experienced the most extreme, horrific actions of human malice. Its development is more connected to complexity of trauma, feeling of inescapability, and lack of adequate support systems. Your trauma is always valid, and enough.

[editedantiendoposts]

“The future is plural!” is admitting you want a future in which all plurals can live life and be accepted in society, not that you want to traumatize kids into having DID.

[skullrift]

how it feels being an introject wearing merch of your source

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