I actually went ahead and did a clarity spread to see why I’ve been nervous about the idea of a new room mate and it helped me understand I’m letting my own ambitions get in the way of understanding and communication.
Blessed be.
Question Asked: Why am I apprehensive about my new Room mate?
Biggest Fear: Six of Bows Reversed. Moving in with this person will mitigate personal achievement. She and I are of the same work status and she has big aspirations like me. Damaged Ego.
Where to Focus: Two of Stones, Reversed. I have my own issues of over commitment and disorganization to worry about over how someone else is fairing outside of home life.
Past Experience to Let Go: Four of Bows. I should put aside my own past achievements. Allowing them to plague my mind is clouding personal growth and inflating my ego.
Useful Past Experience: The Stag. Rather then focusing on what I achieved, I should focus on the strengths that allowed me to achieve that and continue to persevere through my physical challenges.
What to Cultivate: Queen of Arrows. Rooming with this person, I should be more focused on communication, setting boundaries, and worrying about my independence. I already have a good base line, but this will make sure we stay honest, open, and clear.
Next Step: The Archer. Taking control of my situation and pushing forward with my own goals and creating success in a shared environment.
Inner Strength: Page of Vessels. My creativity and my curiosity will be my strengths in finding solutions to problems and creating a happy home for both of us while we surge forward.
Outside Help: The Blasted Oak, Reversed. Seeking outside help will only aid in my personal transformation as well as help avert disasters. This could be in a confident or a third room mate.
