stay lighthearted

Jess. 26. Capricorn. Chicago.Something like a summer, kind of like a hurricane.

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[diobrandowo]

finals week moodboard

[thegreyrabbit]

I’m just hurting myself. I don’t feel any better.

But one more sip and one more cigarette sounds so good.

[chroniczombiegf-archive-deactiv]

ah, yes,,, my 3 alignments,,,,

[officialrembrandt]

the 1975 - give yourself a try

[bradgregorystudio]

Solar Eclipse — August 21, 2017 © Brad Gregory

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[fanonical]

harry potter breaking bad au where snape starts cooking meth with malfoy in the dungeons

[justfairythings]

[somesaw-thesun]

tell me that it’s all okay

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[coolben94]

[unlikelydreamercollective]

Do Taurus men understand how attractive they are? Are y'all just sleeping on yourselves? Do you know and you're just being subtle about it? Because seriously, damn.

[thegreyrabbit]

My maaaaan 😩

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“Never assume, no matter how strong the temptation, that other people are low-life lying manipulators without a shred of human decency.”

—

Dinesh D'Souza

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Don’t let bias, the past, or a heated moment define a person, especially if your experience with them is limited and you have many of your own things to sort out.

A good rule of thumb is if you know the person has been around in related circles for a long time and is well-regarded without overwhelming social ambition or drama in front or behind the curtain, they are very unlikely a puppeteer.

Was it one bad day or moment that imploded? How was this person really in all the other moments? Did they take note of special things about your lifestyle, needs, pains? Did they try to make you comfortable? Did they try to offer useful knowledge to improve your health and well-being? Did they listen? Were you able to have peaceful, engaging conversation? If one can find space beyond the anger and is willing to be honest the answer is they were a decent and considerate human. Difficult moments and days happen. And it’s a loss if someone ditches someone over one.

Work past the issue, and realize it is probably plucking uncomfortable strings inside which are signposts for attention on things to improve, regardless of whoever may have fallen short in the moment. This is a very strong sentiment, even if reduced down to a basic perception of mistrust or manipulation. (Again, look inside, past the moment.) We are human, we all error, and very few deserve to be defined this way.

(via metaconscious)

[thealgerian]

[umvein]

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