A journey through kink

A 42 year old guy who loves bondage, restraints, impact play and more. I'm definitely a sub, and there'll occasionally be pictures of me in various states of being tied up and restrained on here. I do like DIYing my own stuff!

[thehalfheard]

41 and a bit days

I started a journey at basically the end of last year. A journey where I don't get a say in when I get to have an orgasm. Tomorrow marks six weeks since I last had one. And even then that one wasn't that impressive, mostly because it was ruined. It's been hinted that in a couple more weeks I *might* get one. I also might not. It might entirely be prostate induced, and I may very well stay caged for it. My keyholder is talking about training me for prostate orgasms primarily. She's devious that way. Over the past six weeks I've been caged more often than not - though some hot weather recently meant that I've been experiencing a bit of chafing, so I'm currently free. But still on my best behaviour. The chafing and stuff has me and my keyholder seriously discussing a PA piercing (with all the fun that entails of healing and all that) and a tube only device compared to one that has a ball trap ring, as that tends to be the troublesome spot for me. Interesting times ahead though.

[thehalfheard]

Ahhh, a brief pause from retail worker life for two days before back into it post Christmas. On the flip side, I should end up suspended and tormented on Christmas Day! What a nice present that will be.

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Just some casual exploring of Scotland on this trip.

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Some more photos of what I call the Mouse Trap - the name is inspired by the saying of "building a better mouse trap".

Added a bunch of adhesive foam panels to the inside to cut down on noise. And it's very effective at doing that. It also got intake/exhaust fans, and a lot of additional tie down points by the way of anchor track rails.

It might need some more stuff in the future but I'm trying to think what else to do. Possibly some led lighting or something.

[thehalfheard]

The kink shopping/browsing stage of my trip has begun. Got to visit a place called Enfettered this afternoon! And it's fun when their showroom is actually a dungeon. I may have inspiration for things to save up for in terms of bondage gear and furniture, hahaha.

[thehalfheard]

So looking forward to travelling to the UK next month. Visiting a few places, absolutely have some fun shops to visit whilst over there.

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Been doing some DIY bondage furniture making with the help of a friend, and so my fun bondage table isolation box combo is close to being finished.

Unsure as to if I'll bother painting it, because I love the shipping crate look. The inside needs a bunch of tie down tracks added, some ventilation fans installed to ensure air flow is a thing (it's otherwise very airtight) and probably a few other fun ideas for the future.

In terms of overall dimensions, outside is basically 2400 x 900 x 900 inside is 2294 x 794 x 600. Plenty of room to be inside in the sleep sack.

Is this overkill? Heck yes it is. But it's *fun*.

[thehalfheard]

A lovely new straitjacket from LeatherPrison.com. Looking forward to being strapped in it!

1.3mm thick cow leather, leather lined inside as well.

It's going to be glorious.

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While I love buying new bondage equipment - in this case a straitjacket, leather booties and a leg divider for use with my sleep sack. - I absolutely loathe having to wait for it.

I know the reward is in the patience for it to be made and shipped, but I so just want it now.

And then knowing the way it goes, once it ships it'll arrive the day immediately after a session, meaning having to wait a week to use it! Argh!

[thehalfheard]

Spending one of my days off work before Christmas making gifts for sadistic people in my life, when I have the realisation that I'm making toys that I know I'm going to get hit with, and I know it's going to hurt...

[kinkyintherealworld]

SEASON 2, BABY!

And we start of Season 2 with a bunch of Kinky Q & A!

HUGE thanks to everyone who write in with questions - we adore you!!!

thehalfheard asksed: So here's a fun question... As someone beginning to dip my toes back into the dating scene - which feels somewhat terrifying nowadays - at what point do you think someone should admit to having these kinds of interests, especially when it's more than just kinky sex that you're looking for, when it's more lifestyle oriented side of things? Could really use some advice on this topic.

dread-loxx asked: So just listening to episode 2 Which is fantastic btw And you drop the line nudity isn’t sexual. And mention nudity on beaches in Europe,I had a little giggle because I live in Qld Australia. And with alllll of our fantastic beaches there’s not one in our state that’s clothing optional/nude. In so many ways we are very Americanised over here

thisgingersnapped50 asked: You lovely women need to do a podcast on feeding fetish. 🤗 That’s a thing…right? 👀 Asking for a friend 😂

Anonymous asked: Can someone PLEASE LET PEOPLE KNOW that ordering someone to “cum for me” will most likely end In frustration or with someone faking an orgasm.

Anonymous asked: Advice for someone who’s SO USED to cumming by themselves-with a vibrator and porn? I am very worried I won’t be able to cum WITH a person ever again without those things?? Help me get out of my head!

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[thehalfheard]

Yay a new episode! They're back!

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Some bondage gear stuff - way too much leather!

I'm definitely a bondage gear fan, and I have way too many leather restraints. However! That's not a problem as I see it.

So, an acrylic yoke I created and made on my laser cutter. 7 layers of acrylic, too many bolts, nuts, and d shackles. It's fun, there's pictures of it in use elsewhere in my tumblr.

Some lovely leather hoods, a nice facemask, and collar goodness. Just ordered a posture collar to go with it all. Looking forward to that arriving.

Mr S Leather arm sleeves, waist belt with thigh/wrist cuffs, wrist and ankle cuffs, and a ball cuff. It's all fun. Love the sleeves.

Other restraint goodness! Fist mitts, mini arm binder, Fetters wristlock, and padded wrist and ankle cuffs.

4" wide padded wrist, ankle, thigh and bicep cuffs. Going to get a matching waist belt soon. All from Atrocity Shop on Etsy.

Impact goodies! A nice paddle that's got two different leather sides for different feels, and a couple of Bare Leatherworks floggers. One is Elk, the other is Buffalo (or Bison as it's called). The Elk is so soft and is sensual, makes a lot of noise, not a lot of smack. A great warmup flogger. The Buffalo on the other hand... Wow. You feel every single hit.

Pictured elsewhere on my blog - a lovely leather sleepsack.

There's loads more stuff I want... just takes time at work to earn the money to pay for it all.. lol.

[thehalfheard]

Wheeeee! First time trying out suspension with the new sleepsack, and apart from needing to make some changes to the suspension bar, that was fun! Heck, first time trying out suspension, period. It's a very weird feeling, being pulled up from laying on the ground and then up into the air. Amazing though!!!

[thehalfheard]

It was my birthday the other day, and I copped a nice bit of impact play and then put in my sleepsack nice and safely wrapped up like a big leather wrapped present for a few hours. It was awesome.

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The best thing about regular weekly bondage sessions is that they're every week.

The worst thing is that it's only once per week and I always want more.

Like yes it gives me something to look forward to, but gah it always feels so far away!!!

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And you thought ballet boots were evil…

Although not forcing the feet into a toe-crushing en-pointe position like the ballet boots do, this little reinforced leather device still manages to create a lot of uncomfortable stress and training when it is locked on the feet.

Due to the nature of it, the wearer can not relax the on-toe-position and is forced to walk in a way that reminds of a heel-less high heel shoe.

[themistressmaye]

Anyone have an idea what these are called/where to purchase?

[thehalfheard]

@themistressmaye they are from Church of Sinvention, https://churchofsinvention.com/pony-foot-trainers?limit=100

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Watched the latest @kinkyintherealworld episode this morning and it's totally worth watching the video just to see the amount of bondage gear in the background of @themistressmaye dungeon!

Only some slight gear envy I have today!