~ hey, you deserve love, don't forget that ~

I'm a bisexual bean~*~18~*~They/them ~*~ just trying to live in this fucked world

[tiktoksthataregood-ish]

[cryoverkiltmilk]

There is no conceivable way you will predict where this video culminates

[glumshoe]

I heard too many sounds at once and now I am a bitch

[tits-n-trix]

We're all one sensory overload away from becoming the strongest versions of ourselves

[glumshoe]

supervillain origin story: two conversations happened near me at the same time

[mysharona1987]

[academicssay]

[thebeachboys-deactivated2020050]

who was the first animal to fuck instead of budding or something.. he mustve been like mm.. oo damn girl this feels good LOL

[thebeachboys-deactivated2020050]

microbrachius dicki

[dudeholdmybeer-deactivated20180]

loch ness monster

[fungoidz-deactivated20200705]

fuck ness monster

[adhrac]

fucking was invented in Scotland

[showerthoughtsofficial]

It would be cool if after you died you could see the top 5 times you almost died

[atlastheninth]

5 times you didn’t die and one time you did

[theroguefeminist]

okay but more of us need to say we are antifa - like if everyone who opposes fascism and trump just refers to themselves as antifa, its going to be harder and harder for moderates and conservatives to write it off as a “terrorist group.” 

i know people who are trump supporters. talking to them is the perfect opportunity to say “i’m antifa” or “i support antifa” watch them freak out and then follow up with: “antifa just means anti-fascism - it’s not an organization.. are you for fascism? because i’m anti-fascist.” 

i cant believe i have to say “normalize antifascism” but here we are

[theroguefeminist]

might as well bring this back now - antifa = antifascism. if the president says being anti-fascist makes you a terrorist then that’s a pretty good sign his administration is fascist

[svinto]

i wish there wasn’t such a stigma around being proved wrong, bc it’s a part of life, no one can be right all the time. if we didn’t feel as much shame about it i think a lot of things would change a lot faster

[feminismandhappiness]

we all need to practice saying “I hadn’t thought of it like that” “I hadn’t seen it that way before” “I must have misunderstood the first time I heard about it” “if I had known those facts I wouldn’t have thought like I did”

[randomslasher]

Can I just say I really love @feminismandhappiness‘s addition, because for those of us who grew up being valued for our intelligence, it’s really okay if admitting you were wrong is difficult, and learning to approach it in a different way can be really helpful! Here are some other ways that might be easier to digest, for those of us who have trouble with the whole “I was wrong” thing. 

“Thank you for giving me more context!” 

“That makes a lot more sense now.” 

“I really appreciate the additional information on this subject.” 

“Your perspective is really helping me understand this better.” 

“I’m going to do some more research now that I realize how complex this issue really is.” 

“I didn’t realize how much information was left out when I was taught about this the first time.” 

“I see that my opinion was being deliberately guided in one specific direction. Thank you for helping me realize that.” 

“This was way over-simplified when I first encountered it. I’m glad I’m starting to see the whole picture.” 

“Now I get it!” 

“You’ve given me a lot to think about, thank you!” 

“I can see this is something I’ll need to look into a bit more before I jump to conclusions.” 

“I am happy to have more data. Now I can draw a more accurate conclusion.” 

“This is really helping me re-contextualize this issue.” 

“This is much more nuanced than I realized before. I can see how the information I had access to previously has been oversimplified.”

“This really is more complicated than I originally thought. I’m glad I can take this new information into account.”

Being wrong isn’t a personal failing, but it can be difficult to realize that if you grew up being praised for being smart. Learning to accept changes of opinion as simply “new conclusions based on more thorough research” can be a really useful step in internalizing that idea. 

[jalynnn]

[railroadsoftware]

me: (farts right before leaving a store) my girlfriend: oh wait I want to look at this one last thing me: no we got to go right now

[motiya]

*looking at the moon* what highlighter does she use?

[hazelstreet]

hot girl summer means sitting still in your room and staring at walls

[mudstickbandit]

if kirby had access to the internet he would go on google images and look at pictures of fruit

[yeah-yeah-beebiss-1]

kirby and yoshi would send each other emails with cool pictures of fruit attached

[mynewurl]

this website has destroyed my sense of humour, last night i was in bed with my bf and i had a mental image of an egg with the word suspicious written on it and honestly lost my shit

[mynewurl]

[nouveauartpunk]

[progressivefriends]

[alexisthenedd]

This white boy came over a month ago and asked why my pillow was shiny. I told him it was satin, because I need a satin case to maintain my natural hairstyle overnight.

This past weekend I stayed over at his house after a party because it was too late to go back to Manhattan, and when I got in bed I noticed that one of his pillowcases was satin.

I asked him why a white, nearly bald man needed a satin pillowcase and he said he bought it for me, in case I needed to sleep over sometime. He didn’t want me to ruin my hair on cotton.

I kissed the ever-loving shit out of him.

That’s how you show a brown girl you care.

[alexisthenedd]

Update: he’s my boyfriend. our 1 year anniversary is coming up next month.

[alexisthenedd]

New Update: We had our two year anniversary on August 9th.

We also have moved in together.

As we went through his stuff for the move, we found the last of those pillowcases he bought for me in 2015.

I sleep on it every night.

[alexisthenedd]

THREE YEARS AS OF LAST THURSDAY

[peachykopii]

Awww