Think Like A Ladybird

all things birds and ladylike

[theladybirdlisa]

🥀🖤#fbf Thoughts on the blackstallion remix?💀🐃 I'm a 5.5/10... #deftones released #blackstallion today, 20 year anniversary of #whitepony & merch from #ohms album finally posted. #deftonesband #deftonesfamilia #deftonesporvida #chinomoreno #vinyllover #musicislife (at Black Stallion Dr) https://www.instagram.com/p/CIrhADTgjqL/?igshid=1jl08ixyij89n

[wordsthat-speak]

I think everything in life is art. What you do. How you dress. The way you love someone, and how you talk. Your smile and your personality. What you believe in, and all your dreams. The way you drink your tea. How you decorate your home. Or party. Your grocery list. The food you make. How your writing looks. And the way you feel. Life is art.

Helena Bonham Carter

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[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Is it really that bad if someone sees who you are? Why is it humans have a problem with letting someone else see that they are human?

Joseph Gogler (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

[theladybirdlisa]

(via https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R2zXxQHBpd8)

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

I crave space. It charges my batteries. It helps me breathe. Being around people can be so exhausting, because most of them love to take and barely know how to give - except for a rare few.

Katie Kacvinsky (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.

Mark Twain (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

[thegreatcatsbee]

If you care about someone, fucking care about them. Remember it every day. Remember it on bad days especially. Remember it in fights. Remember it when you’re happy. Appreciate it. Love it. Be it. Live it. Feel it. Cause you have no idea when it will be gone. There are only so many chances. And if you do forget and you do something stupid. You’d better fucking fight for it, fucking fight as hard as you can. As hard as you can doesn’t mean until it is a detriment to you, but until you’re sure it won’t be. True love will always be true love and if you lose it, you’re going to regret it.

(via thegreatcatsbee)

[thegreatcatsbee]

A quiet mind is all you need. All else will happen rightly, once your mind is quiet. As the sun on rising makes the world active, so does self-awareness affect changes in the mind. In the light of calm and steady self-awareness inner energies wake up and work miracles without effort on your part.

Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj  (via thegreatcatsbee)

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to Overcome Emotional Numbness

Emotional numbness is where we experience mild to severe feelings of detachment – so it’s hard for us to access normal feelings any more. This includes both negative and positive emotions as you can’t decide to shut just one feeling off. Common causes of emotional numbness include different stresses or traumas … from receiving bad news … to being in an accident … to recovering from the death of someone close … to a relationship breakup … to feeling deeply humiliated or ashamed. So how do you overcome emotional numbness and live with emotional integrity again?

1. The first thing to do is to choose to respect and allow all emotions – no matter what they are. Also, try and grasp the fact that suppressing your emotions will likely lead to heartache and problems later on (as they’ll possibly resurface at inappropriate times.)

2. Try and understand that feelings and actions are two very different, and unrelated, things.  That is, you can still feel angry without becoming violent – so don’t assume your feelings will affect your actions, too.

3. Try to figure out the message behind intense emotions. Are you angry because you’ve been hurt, used or abused? Are you sad because deep down you feel that you’ll never find true love - as you can’t believe that anyone will love you for yourself?

4. Take that risk – and find the courage to ask someone for help. If you’re honest with yourself, you’ll know that there are those who genuinely love you like – like a true and caring friend. The important thing is not to try and isolate yourself, and to make the extra effort to prioritise self-care. You need other people to help you work through this.

5. Seek professional help if the symptoms persist. There are excellent counsellors and therapists out there who have the training and skills to help you to get free – so you can live a more fulfilling and normal, healthy life.

6. Be patient within yourself. It’s likely to take time – as you will need to learn to trust, and take some barriers down, so you can be yourself again (and that is often hard to do when you’ve experience hurt and pain).  

[sad-broken-lost-girl]

It isn’t always visible that someone is going through suicidal thoughts. Don’t assume anyone isn’t experiencing them.

[youmatterlifeline]

[theladybirdlisa]

♥ she must be a descendent of wolves because her skin smells as though it is pure moonlight

[sexualwweconfessions]

Kevin Owens is my dream man.

[theladybirdlisa]

💀💋 #poetry #poems #igpoetry #wordsalloverme #mattjbaker

[theladybirdlisa]

💀👻🎃🔫Enjoy the #Halloween #weekend #yeg #staysexydontgetmurdered #ssdgm #murderino #myfavoritemurder #podcast

[theladybirdlisa]

My fave 🐈 #ohlydia #love #thanks @ian.teamroyalty #sphinx #majestic #catsofinstagram #yeg

[theladybirdlisa]

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🎶and you're tearing up your photos because you want to forget...it's over. we're the coolest kids and we take what we can get🎶 #brandnew #yeg #music #throwback (at Union Hall)