Bonbon

Isofeminine Genderflux woman with fluid gender expression , she/her/hija (iyya) | Southern Mediterranean | Semite | Sapphic: Bi, omniflux and abro (sometimes bi-lesbian) | Agnostic | Grew up bilingual, now a perpetual polyglot | Pole dancer/aerialist | Unaccomplished writer | Never in one place for too long

[awakefor48hours]

Dana is an absolute gem of human. When The Owl House got canceled, she gave Disney the benefit of the doubt that Disney really did cancel it because it “didn’t fit their brand.” She’s supported pirating her own show. After Disney supported the anti gay bill, she made the Be Gay, Do Witchcraft livestream. When For the Future got leaked, she felt sad for us because she and crew already knew what was going to happen. She made season 3 a lot more gay.

There’s a lot more but that’s all I can think of at the moment. Dana is amazing and I hope her future projects are treated with more love and support.

[gingerpines]

missing them hard😞

[balderrama-deactivated20230621]

asigned bisexual by the cw

[balderrama-deactivated20230621]

there was a time I hoped this would apply to Dean Winchester but as usual spn did something worse and funnier

[nsfwitchy]

My favorite thing about online queer discourse is that it literally repeats every year but with a different identity and so many people just go along with it. It’s like watching a series of people literally never learn their lesson.

[nsfwitchy]

Let’s see if I can make a timeline so if I remember correctly it was bisexuals first right because y’all wanted them to pick a side (no irony there, clearly forcing people into a sexuality they don’t fit with has historically worked great and been a net positive)

Then pansexuals because people had the audacity to experience multi-attraction but not identify with your specific label

And then there was the ace discourse about how people who are ace/aro aren’t REALLY lgbt because?? Y’all said lack of attraction wasn’t a sexuality and clearly they were just?? Broken??? (Again, no irony in this. Telling people with sexualities you don’t understand that they’re broken has always been a net positive and worked out great for everybody in the end)

Oh and then y’all came for bi-lesbians because y’all forgot people can experience different romantic and sexual attraction

Then y’all started calling trans women pedophiles (AGAIN WITH NO IRONY, NOT LIKE THE COMMUNITY HAS A RAMPANT HISTORY OF QUEER PEOPLE BEING CALLED PEDOPHILES AS A FEAR MONGERING TACTIC)

And then y’all started insulting trans men for speaking out about possibly suffering from their own set of issues that comes with being trans men (god forbid people have their own set of issues they wanna address separately, everyone knows the queer experience is universal right?)

And literally every single time all I hear is:

Like maybe I’m crazy but perhaps the biggest threat to our community is not people making up labels or mixing labels or talking about their own personal forms of oppression they face - but maybe. Just maybe. It’s the hoards of just genuinely straight up homophobic bigoted people who are actively trying to cut trans health care and take away gay marriage. Idk maybe that’s just me.

[animentality]

[lute-strings-deactivated2024072]

[canetadechocolate]

[heartlessdevil97]

Please..

[softboi97]

I'm so sick of having dreams where I'm in love, only to wake up to the cold sting of loneliness as soon as I open my eyes

[earl-greytea-deactivated2025041]

I wish I could at least pretend that you think of me every now and then.

[tb00oy]

I'm starting to think that I'll never know how it feels to be loved

[an-happy-sad-virus]

I just want to know how it feels like to be embraced by someone who loves you. I just want to feel loved by someone.

[invisiblebeesstuff]

"I have manipulated everyone who has ever fallen in love with me to fall in love with me and that either makes me a very good liar or a very unlovable human being."

- Sade Andria Zabala | Paper Napkin Stories

[dumblr]

I did not unlove you overnight.

No, I unloved you in bits of pieces over time.

I grew a new skin that you could not touch, a new heart that you could never break, and a new soul that you could never corrupt. This is how I unloved you... Slowly, painfully, but with no regrets.

[tallyovie]

To all the people who go non verbal under stress, or after facing trauma i love you. Even when the most you can say is a soft, barely audiable "mmmh" to a question, you are doing wonderful

[sedlex]

Clance reviews: The Wizard of Oz

[the-lincyclopedia]

Is it just me or does having a positive interaction with a stranger scratch a very particular itch? I think it's the reassurance that the world is not split solely into people who already love you and people who never will.

[pjharvey-moved-deactivated20250]

i hate when family comes over and theyre like how’s the job going. how’s the education going. and i’m just like don’t talk to me unless it’s about the Show i just watched