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Broken Hearted Girl
You're everything I thought you never were And nothing like I thought you could have been But still you live inside of me, So tell me how is that? You're the only one I wish I could forget The only one I love to not forgive And though you break my heart, You're the only one And though there are times when I hate you 'Cause I can't erase The times that you hurt me and put tears on my face And even now, while I hate you, It pains me to say I know I'll be there at the end of the day #BrokenHeartedGirl #MySongattheMoment #TellMeHowIsThat
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That day when I throw my life away...
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Moving on...
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Seeing these photos wanna make me laugh and cry at the same time.. Has it been 10 years?? Wow! I didn’t expect that you’ll still have this effect on me.. These makes me wonder.. These makes me ask my most hated question “what if?” It all came flashing back to me.. that day, where tears flooded the airport. That day when I hugged you so tight and you hugged me back, kissed me and said “자기야, please don’t cry. I wanna bring with me your smile. Please?? 사랑해…” That day when it hit me that I might be hugging and kissing you for the last time… And now that you’re getting married.. I just wanna thank you for all the memories.. that first hug, that first KISS, those laughter, those quarrels, those moments…. i’ll treasure them all, they’ll gonna be burried here in my heart.. and when we meet again I’m gonna say to you “아녕하서요 친고야…” But for now 고마워… 그리고… 사랑해… 기다릴께…
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10 Decisions You Would Regret For The Rest Of Your Life
Perspective is a funny thing. Look forward and the path seems uncertain, the future unpredictable. Look back and all the dots seem to connect... except the dots that mark the choices you didn't make and the risks you didn't take. Here are 10 choices you will someday regret having made: 1. Choosing the pain of regret over the pain of discipline. The worst words you can say are, "If I had only..." Think of all the things you've wanted to do but never have. What did you do instead? If you're like me, you can't recall. All you know is that time is gone and whatever you did instead wasn't even worth remembering. Think about one thing you dreamed of doing five or 10 years ago but didn't work to do... and think about how good you'd be today at that one thing if you had. Think about all the time you wasted and can never get back. Then, starting today, push yourself to do what you hope to do... so five or 10 years from now you won't look back with regret. Sure it will be hard. Sure it will be painful. But it will be a lot less painful than how it will someday feel when you look back on what could have been... but isn't. 2. Choosing not to be brave. Being brave doesn't mean you aren't afraid — in fact, the opposite is true. Courage without thought or meaning is simply recklessness. Brave people aren't fearless; they've simply found something that matters more to them than fear. Say you're scared to start a business. Find a reason that means more: creating a better future for your family, wanting to make a real difference, or hoping for a more rewarding and fulfilling life. Once you find a greater meaning, you also find courage. See fear not as something to shrink from but as something to overcome — because that's all it is. 3. Choosing not to say, "I will." A boss once gave me what I thought was an impossible task. I said, "OK. I'll try." He told me trying didn't matter — as long as I didn't quit, I'd finish it. Trying didn't enter into it. Persistence was all that mattered. Often we say, "I'll try," because that gives us an out. Our egos aren't on the line. Our identities aren't on the line. After all, we're just "trying." Once you say, "I will," your perspective changes. What previously seemed insurmountable is no longer a matter of luck or chance but of time and effort and persistence. When what you want to do really matters, don't say, "I'll try." Say, "I will," and then do everything possible to keep that promise to yourself. 4. Choosing not to take plenty of shots. You may never create the perfect business plan, may never find the perfect partners or the perfect market or the perfect location, but you can find the perfect time to start — because that time is now. Talent, experience, and connections are important, but put your all into enough new things, and some will work. Plus, after you take enough shots, over time you'll grow more skilled, more experienced, and more connected. And that will mean an even greater percentage of your efforts will succeed. Take enough shots, and learn from each experience, and in time you'll have all the skills, knowledge, and connections you need. Ultimately, success is a numbers game; it's all about taking a shot, over and over and over again. The more shots you take, the more times you will succeed. So get the power of numbers on your side and take as many shots as you can. There is no guarantee of success, but when you don't take any shots at all, you're guaranteed to always fail. UHaul Moving Truck AP If you're scared to move, go ahead and take the plunge. 5. Choosing not to move. Familiarity creates comfort. But comfort is often the enemy of improvement. If you have a great opportunity and the only thing holding you back is the thought of moving, move. If you want to be closer to family or friends and the only thing holding you back is the thought of moving, move. If you want to be closer to people who think and feel and act like you, move. (When I asked singer/songwriter Lee Brice for the one piece of advice he would give any aspiring country artist, he said, "Move to Nashville.") When the fear of moving is the only thing holding you back, move. Don't worry. You'll soon find cool new places to hang out. You'll soon develop new routines. You'll soon make new friends. And you'll gain a great new perspective on your life. Besides, Thomas Wolfe was wrong. If it doesn't work out, you can go home again. 6. Choosing not to let go. Bitterness, resentment, and jealousy are like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. You are the only one who loses. Life is too short to resent all the people who may have hurt you. Let hard feelings go. Then spend the energy you save cherishing the people you love and who love you. 7. Choosing not to say you're sorry. We all make mistakes, so we all have things we need to apologize for: words, actions, omissions, failing to step up, step in, to be there when we're needed... Swallow your fear — or pride — and say you're sorry. Then you'll help the other person let go of their resentment or bitterness. And then you both get to make the freshest of fresh starts, sooner instead of later — or instead of never. 8. Choosing not to throw out your backup plans. Backup plans can help you sleep easier at night. But backup plans can also create an easy out when times get tough. You will work a lot harder and a longer if your primary plan has to work because there is no other option. Total commitment — without a safety net — will spur you to work harder than you ever imagined possible. Then, if somehow the worst does happen (although the "worst" is never as bad as you think), trust that you will find a way to rebound. As long as you keep working hard and keep learning from your mistakes, you always will. 9. Choosing to be too proud. Don't be too proud to admit you made a mistake. Don't be too proud to have big dreams, or to poke fun at yourself, or to ask other people for help. Don't be afraid to take a chance and fall on your face… and then to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and go again. Instead, take pride in the fact that no matter what might happen, you will always get up and go again. That way, you never truly lose — and your dreams can never, ever die. 10. Choosing not to care. Rejection hurts. Sadness hurts. Failure hurts; sometimes a lot. So what do you do? You avoid getting hurt by deciding you no longer care. But then you never get to experience the joy of connection, the joy of happiness, and the joy of success. Choose to still be in the game. Choose to care. Choose to live. Now it's your turn. What things do you regret... or hope to someday never have to regret? Author: Jeff Haden: This article originally appeared at LinkedIn. Copyright 2014. Follow LinkedIn on Twitter.
letting go is an act of acceptance, not a denial of what happened. when you bring peace to the past, you can move forward to the future.
when you feel like you can’t go on.
I’m sorry that you’re hurting so desperately right now. I know how painful the seconds, and minutes, and days can be, how long the nights are. I understand how very hard hanging on is, and how much courage it takes.
I ask though that you hold onto one day at a time. Just one day, and slowly this despair will pass. The feelings you fear you’re trapped in will serve their purpose, and then fade away. Difficult to imagine isn’t it? Almost impossible to believe when every cell in your body it seems cries out in agony, desperately in need of comfort. When it feels like the only thing in the whole world that can touch your pain and banish it is beyond your grasp. And after all this time, the assurance that you will heal has become an empty, broken promise.
Hold on because it’s worth the terrible waiting. Hold on because you are worthy. Hold on because the wisdom that will follow you out of this darkness will be a tremendous gift. Hold on because you have so much love and joy waiting to be experienced. Hold on because life is precious, even though it can bring terrible losses. Hold on because there is so much that you can’t now imagine waiting ahead on your journey - a destiny that only you can fulfill. Hold on although your exhausted and your grasp is shaky, and you want more than anything to let go sometimes, hold on even though. Please hold on.
And the light, the light at the end of the dark tunnel for so long cannot be seen, although eventually you’ll begin to feel its’ warmth as you move forward. And forward you must move in order to get through the hell of remembering, of despair, of rage, of grief. Keep looking forward please. Rest if you must, doubt your ability to survive the journey if you have to, but never let go of the guide ropes, although when you close your fingers around them, your hands feel empty, they are there. Please trust me, they are there.
When you’re exhausted, when all you have to count on is a weakened, weary faith, hold on. When you think you want to die, hold on until you recognize that it’s not death you seek, but for the pain to go away. Hold on, because this darkness will surely fade away. Hold on. Please hold on. - Tammie Byram Fowles, LISW, Ph.D
dont give up, just hope.
It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head. - Henry Rollins
In that moment, I felt my heart break. And I thought, “I can’t live without you. I don’t want to live without you,” and then it slowly crept into my mind that no matter how bad I wanted or needed you, it wouldn’t matter. Somehow, and very painfully I was sure, my life would continue. With or without you, right?
when you feel like you can’t go on.
I’m sorry that you’re hurting so desperately right now. I know how painful the seconds, and minutes, and days can be, how long the nights are. I understand how very hard hanging on is, and how much courage it takes.
I ask though that you hold onto one day at a time. Just one day, and slowly this despair will pass. The feelings you fear you’re trapped in will serve their purpose, and then fade away. Difficult to imagine isn’t it? Almost impossible to believe when every cell in your body it seems cries out in agony, desperately in need of comfort. When it feels like the only thing in the whole world that can touch your pain and banish it is beyond your grasp. And after all this time, the assurance that you will heal has become an empty, broken promise.
Hold on because it’s worth the terrible waiting. Hold on because you are worthy. Hold on because the wisdom that will follow you out of this darkness will be a tremendous gift. Hold on because you have so much love and joy waiting to be experienced. Hold on because life is precious, even though it can bring terrible losses. Hold on because there is so much that you can’t now imagine waiting ahead on your journey - a destiny that only you can fulfill. Hold on although your exhausted and your grasp is shaky, and you want more than anything to let go sometimes, hold on even though. Please hold on.
And the light, the light at the end of the dark tunnel for so long cannot be seen, although eventually you’ll begin to feel its’ warmth as you move forward. And forward you must move in order to get through the hell of remembering, of despair, of rage, of grief. Keep looking forward please. Rest if you must, doubt your ability to survive the journey if you have to, but never let go of the guide ropes, although when you close your fingers around them, your hands feel empty, they are there. Please trust me, they are there.
When you’re exhausted, when all you have to count on is a weakened, weary faith, hold on. When you think you want to die, hold on until you recognize that it’s not death you seek, but for the pain to go away. Hold on, because this darkness will surely fade away. Hold on. Please hold on. - Tammie Byram Fowles, LISW, Ph.D
dont give up, just hope.