I am male, I am 43 years old, I am cis, I am pansexual, I am a switch, I am Norwegian, and I am a huge fan of that reblog button and will reblog almost everything I find beautiful.
Mostly reblogs here, but I've tried tagging most of my original content with #thenickissilent is typing.... Likewise, most of my replies to asks are tagged #asked and answered.
Minors DNI. TERFs/SWERFs DNI. Fascists DNI. Kinks etcetera below the fold.
My biggest kink is whatever makes you horny. If you're talking to me about something that really turns you on, that's the hottest thing I know, regardless of whether that's somethng I would have masturbated to by myself.
I don't have very many hard limits, but a couple of turn-offs are smoking (smoke whatever you want! I just don't wanna watch it), guns (why is that even a kink), and misogyny (If you wanna be degraded, that's fine. If you want all women in the world to be degraded, GTFO).
I try keeping my blog mostly (though not 100 %) free of piss and CNC, as those are topics I'm aware some of my followers aren't very fond of. You will definitely find both of those in my likes, though.
For any other kink, I'm probably into it in some way, but feel free to just... ask me.
I'm extremely unphotogenic and won't post too many photos of myself here (I think there's one). I may send you one or more if you ask me directly, though.
My asks and DMs are always open, and I strongly prefer asks. Please don't just DM me "hello" or "how are you doing", I'm very bad at smalltalk, you won't get a very creative reply to that, and I won't be very enthusiastic to keep the conversation going. Especially if I have no idea who you are, as in we don't follow each other and have never interacted with each other. If one of your first questions is how old I am or anything else clearly visible in my bio, I will be insulted and act like it. And if we've never interacted, you have an almost empty blog and your entire bio is that you're "looking for a s*ssy paypig", I really don't think we can ever become friends, sorry.
Thank you for being you, you're really good at it! 🩷
bulge rubbing is so fucking hot holy shit like your dick’s not even out of your pants and you’re already hard and desperate to be touched? I wanna play with you until you cum in your pants
okay but collars :( and handcuffs :( and intimidation :( and vibrators :( and being called out on how easily flustered and desperate you are :( and biting :( and edging :( and being told to look into their eyes :( and hickeys and bite marks :( and being praised :( and petnames :(
I would Die™️ to need to ask to come, even knowing the answer will always be "yes"
Being told to "give it up"/'give it to me" when I'm so close to coming
Being praised and called sweet thing and blushing and scrunching my nose because praise makes me shy and squirmy and embarrassed and blushy
Asking for what I want from a scene like an adult and then getting it, relaxing into it because there are no surprises, nothing to brace myself for, and I can trust my dom to handle things while I'm soft and small
"don't muffle yourself, those noises are mine, give them to me"
Hickeys!!!! across my shoulders and chest and stomach and thighs!!!
Giving someone an orgasm as they walk me through pleasing them, not having to worry about being good at it because they tell me how to please them, they tell me what to do and all I need to do is listen, and I'm so good at listening
Getting to worship someone who deserves it and being able to ask how to do it better, knowing I will never be made to feel like I've failed