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okay, first off I am a male who loves to crossdress when I can. it's been a long time and hoping to make a friend to do so with. I am NOT into men. I am attracted to women and have a huge infatuation for trans women, but have never had the chance to be with a trans woman even though I'd absolutely love to and has been a huge attraction my whole life.not here for a mistress, to be a slave, to be humiliated, to buy content, pay to meet, or anything like that. but to enjoy mutual. I love having 2 sides, the male and the feminine side to enjoy. Am hoping to make a discreet friend to enjoy this with again. if you are real and want to message or see a picture feel free to message.

[thereal-97]

Honest question. Is it so disturbing and crazy to think some guys are genuinely into trans women and aren't assholes? Not as fantasy but genuinely what he is attracted to. And why is it not alright for a guy to enjoy having 2 sides , go back and forth enjoying both not just for sex or fantasy but because that's genuinely who he is?

[thereal-97]

Honest question. Why is it pretty much okay for women to go back and forth being a woman to a man and accepting. But most are not accepting when a man does? I know a guy who is married and has a wife and they keep between them but flow back and forth on mood of the day and it has really drove them closer . I was also in a relationship where she was actually the one who was brave enough and asked me if I would try it for her. Wasn't sure about it but ended up discovering it was awesome to not just always want one but whether we had sex or not some days I'd come home or over the weekend if I felt like dressing I did, if I didn't I didn't, like wasn't planned but she actually told me she enjoyed it and kinda felt like having both a man and a woman and wasn't a big deal. It was nice to be able to discover and not be ashamed. Now though seems like it's possible she was the only one who actually liked or enjoyed and I'm judged heavily if I get comfortable enough to see if a woman is okay with it and isn't bothered. Really sucks. Seems it's taken offensively and like it's a sex thing for fantasy or something

But seems almost impossible and uncommon to meet people who are accepting and even enjoy. Like I don't expect every trans woman to be interested or accepting of it even like it, or every woman, but is there none that are and respect that a guy is comfortable in his skin that he discovered who he was, knows what he likes, and with the right person doesn't have to feel bad? Like is confident enough to know he doesn't have to be one or the other and enjoys both? And isn't just something for fantasy or sex? Like I'm not stupid, I knew when I enjoyed the feminine side it didn't make me a woman, and when she made me feel comfortable and okay with it right away I knew I enjoyed but didn't change the fact I was only into women and liked but didn't always want to do full time. Does no one understand that?

[thereal-97]

So while hoping to meet some real people on here with post I've made I've been scrolling around checking it out. I didn't realize how much judgement, assuming or whatever there was. I guess from living in places like Kansas City, and New Mexico, I was just around so much that was prevalent maybe, I don't know. Like and this is just on the man side of things but, a man is into trans women... He's a creep, and gotta be into men .. Guy is into crossdressing..he's automatically gay or a slave or whatever and needs a mistress and to be humiliated. Like I get some are like that but not all. I guess same for trans as well from what I've seen, apparel they are addressed like they all just like one thing and that's it. Absolutely crazy on here it's 2026 and people are out here making so many assumptions without even giving respect and realizing there's so much out there Anymore, it doesn't matter what they are, you don't know and can't assume everyone is the same. Absolutely crazy like are people just scared that they accept that other person is into something different than if they accept it's there that means they are t sorry I will quit ranting, just bothed me, like this isn't the 60s or something, if you aren't going to take the time to find out, don't Assume

[thereal-97]

Even though I can't stand my x woman now, I'm sitting here thinking, I'm actually kinda glad I had that opportunity at that time. Like most people I had always been in regular relationships, and you didn't really discuss kinks or curiosities you had. I really had no idea when I got with her everything I was about to experience. Pretty much through the 10 years we were together it was like a intense adventure. We would tell each other turn on and if the other wasn't into it it was just dropped. But I had no idea with me never really thinking about it and not having many how many she had. Some I wasn't really sure about and was even nervous to start but I'd see how much it got her and I'd end up letting go, not concentrating and have a phenomenal time. Witch in everything actually drove our time alone even more and crazy. And she always respected whatever it was I didn't want to do if it would come back to involving another man in any way and really didn't want that anyways. I experienced things I would never have thought I'd do or enjoy and it made me incredibly confident and driven. But, after we split, I had honestly forgotten how rare that is to come by. So after 3 years I've decided I'm just going to put myself out there, not really looking for anything tied down but to maybe find another woman or trans women who is maybe like me. And if I don't, I already knew that was a rare situation and at least I got to come out of my shell, experience things I never knew were going to be so enjoyable, build my confidence, make me what I am like today and have that experience I didn't expect that most will never have. So hopefully I meet the right one to enjoy some experiences I've never had or would like to experience again but I just don't know that I ll find someone that comfortable with me and in their skin again. But if not, I hope I at least walk away with a few friends I hope to make here. Anyway if you are ever in the situation with someone you have the opportunity to do with, don't hesitate, it's absolutely incredible. You all have a good day and if you took the time to read, even if you don't get it, thanks

[thereal-97]

Okay, things to know about me. I am polite and laid back. Honest and real. Unlike a lot of men I have two sides I enjoy equally and am very confident and driven in both If you're interested and only interested in one or the other, I have no problem bringing just the one to the table and enjoying. Some people are not going to get me and that's okay but I'm very comfortable in my skin and happy I'm not like most men and was brave enough to try a couple things before instead of not exploring a little. Im not going to lie, if I connect with the right person on here there are absolutely things I'd love to do with them, and I have been told I am very confident, high energy, passionate person, but if I don't meet them and just make some friends that's cool to. Im just a huge people person who moved from a bigger town to a smaller town because I had to and forgot how judgemental and racist it could be, and I'm honest enough that I have no problem telling someone that it's wrong and not appreciated, so, I don't have many friends lol. If you dm me and you haven't read my bio I am probably going to think you are one of those bots on here that I didn't realize there was so much of until I made my first post trying to make friends and then spent the next couple hours being disappointed and having to block people. I'm only into women and trans women. Apparently that's odd but that's what it is. That doesn't mean if you message I'm going to be that guy and go straight to hey, you want to hook up? Lol, I match what is brought to me. I don't have my picture posted Bec last time I used this app people were stealing my pictures to message others, that's not cool. If you message and we're talking and I can tell you're real, I have no problem sending. Other than that feel free to message, ask whatever, hoping to meet new people and make some friends oh and final thought, I'm not here to judge anyone, hurt anyone, or assume anyone's interest, please have the same respect

[thereal-97]

Hello, new here. Male, 40, that truly has admiration and respect for trans women and would like to make some friends with them. Always have wanted to but in the area I live in I've never had the chance. Would anyone like to chat? Possibly be friends? Give me a chance and you'll see I'm a very laid back, honest people person

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