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Being fearless means busting down those walls of fear and being who you are, not who someone else thinks you are. People like to put others in a box and tell them what they can and cannot do or who they can and cannot be. No one can tell you who you are and what you are made of, only you yourself know what you are made of, and only you yourself can do the work to become who you want to be."

-- Mariska Hargitay

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The Eras Tour has been the most meaningful, electric experience of my life so far and I’m overjoyed to tell you that it’ll be coming to the big screen soon 😆 Starting Oct 13th you’ll be able to experience the concert film in theaters in North America! Tickets are on sale now at taylor.lnk.to/TSTheErasTourFilm. Eras attire, friendship bracelets, singing and dancing encouraged 🫶 1, 2, 3 LGB!!!! (iykyk)

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Allow me to introduce…The 1989 (my version) Sunrise Boulevard Vinyl Edition💛 Available on my site for the next 48 hours 🥰

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Being Single.

Being single can still be a struggle at times.

Sometimes it's hard to wrap your mind around the fact that you still do not have someone special in your life at this very moment.

People you thought were going to be the good options, turned out to be no good at all.

Then you have days when you wake up and check your phone and all you do is wake up to everyone else's good news on social media.

People you went to school with are getting engaged today, announcing that they are pregnant or just put a down payment on their dream home.

And while you have the grace to help celebrate everyone else's special moments, you still can't help but wonder...... when those same moments will begin to take place in your own life....

What alot of people dont understand is that.... it's just not your season to be in love with anyone just yet.

So do me a favor and continue growing and developing as a person, because you never know how close you are.... for your season to be next.

~ Cody Bret

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THIS!! FUCKING!! SCENE!!! ❤️

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THIS!! FUCKING!! SCENE!!! ❤️

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More photo stills from tonight’s episode || I have to say they are 🔥🔥

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It fills me with such pride and joy to announce that my version of Speak Now will be out July 7 (just in time for July 9th, iykyk 😆) I first made Speak Now, completely self-written, between the ages of 18 and 20. The songs that came from this time in my life were marked by their brutal honesty, unfiltered diaristic confessions and wild wistfulness. I love this album because it tells a tale of growing up, flailing, flying and crashing… and living to speak about it. With six extra songs I’ve sprung loose from the vault, I absolutely cannot wait to celebrate Speak Now (Taylor’s Version) with you on July 7th. Pre-order now at http://taylor.lnk.to/SpeakNowTaylorsVersion 💜💜💜

the ending of friendship

Why does ending a friendship hurt more sometimes than a breakup? Why does it leave us questioning everything? Why are there times when it doesn’t hurt at all?

Friends are people that you collect throughout your life, there’s an old saying “you have friends for a reason, a season or for life”. You want to believe that everyone you meet will be your friend forever but sadly that isn’t the case some people you meet will and some will just use you until they don’t need you anymore, even 20 + year friendship end, the secret to good friendships is knowing which ones to nurture and which ones to let go. Friends a bit like plants, you nature them all and soon enough you’ll see which ones grow and will be around forever and which ones are the weeds who will suck all the nutrients out of the soil and leave you dry.

True friends, soul sisters, your person, whatever you want to call them are rare and you want to hold on tight to these, these are the people that you can call no matter what, they are ones who will celebrate your wins and good times, be with you through the tough times, will listen on the phone or will hold you while you cry, will always call you out on your crap, will bail you out of jail and will help you bury the body. No matter what you tell them they stay their friendship never waivers and their love for you never changes.

What happens when someone you thought was your best friend for 20+ years is no longer your friend, you begin to doubt yourself, you continually questions and overthink, you wonder what you did or said that made them pull away. Let me tell you IT IS NOT YOU. You have did not do anything wrong, it was just that this friendship was not meant to last and it was only one for a season, when the season changed so did you and so did they and that’s ok, yes it still hurts, yes It still makes you question everything but its ok to look back and remember the good times.

I recently experienced this, a few years ago my ex-best friend got married, I was so excited that I didn’t think anything when the snide comments were being made about me being single and not being able to bring a date to the wedding because a) I wouldn’t ever find anyone who would want to go with me, b) I would be to busy helping said bride on her wedding day. I should have known something was up but I chose to ignore it. When the wedding RSVP came I was not allowed plus one, ummm ok, also I was asked to be the MOH while were all out dressing shopping for her dress and I wasn’t even asked I was more so told by the way your the MOH, at that point what do you say, ok thank you, what else is there to say, Everything up to the wedding day was not the smoothest sailing but with her and the new in laws it was to be expected. I knew the night before her wedding that the next day would be the end of our friendship, she was getting married and joining that club she didn’t need me anymore the constant single person. So the wedding day came and went, forced wedding pictures were taken (which I still haven’t seen to this day) the reception was held, speeches were made and in a room full of people I knew, I felt lonelier then ever. I cleaned up the hall and left by 11:30 without even a thank you. After the wedding I heard from her only when she needed something from me, we maybe hung out once when her husband went away and it was awkward, every time since then whenever I see her I ask the normal polite questions you ask but she never asks anything about my life and its ok. Does it hurt that she can’t be bothered to ask about my life yes, but I’ve realized that, that is who she is and that at the end of the day.

I’m grateful for that time we had as friends we went through a lot, but at the end of the day I am so lucky to have such a great group of true friends who know me, know my dark twisted secrets and still stay, even with 2000km between us we are still the same best friends that we have always been, this group of girls has been there for me through it all, some longer then other but time means nothing, wether its 2 years or 20 years of friendship they are my people, my soul sisters and I am a better person for knowing them and having them in my life.

#frienship #friendship breakups #true friendship #bestfriends #friendship ending #its not your fault #find your people

The feeling that you will never be good enough for anyone, the one will pick you, you will always be the kid in gym class that got picked last no matter how hard you tried.