There is no accountability in our community.
So I made a post yesterday talking about how the cardiophile community quite frankly sucks, and it does. Why am I posting something like it again? Because I still feel there is more to be said. This community has become a Sodom and Gomorrah over a fetish and the narcissism that has grown because of it is disturbing .
Again, the people that hide behind accounts and target other people, specifically the women, are nothing but no life having incels, and I hope something can be done where we donāt have to deal with that. The new users especially have done nothing wrong.
The poppers and needle users. The people that are willingly stabbing their heart, damaging themselves, using substances to strain their heart all for a high and couple likes to post on the internet. Why? Why do this to yourself? Someone elseās get off is not worth it. Weāve had people die because of it.
The cheating on partners. How can you take a pregnant woman that is carrying a kid that is not yours, do an exam on her, then post stuff like that? How does that personās partner feel? Do they know youāre posting their pictures and videos online? How do you feel knowing people are going to enjoy themselves a little too much to things like that? How can people in a relationships, ask others to do meet ups and explore their fantasy platonically, and not think thatās not cheating? How can you be in a relationship with someone in the community then turn around and do meet ups with other people, and think thatās not cheating?
I get we have had some users on here that are super awesome that are open with their partner about what they are doing, and thatās on them. They keep it strictly to the Internet, and weāve had some people become families because of this community, and they make that known. So good for them. But how can you turn to your partner, say I love you, do some heart hookups with another person, then turn back around be perfectly fine with yourself when you look in the mirror?
Againā¦I am a nobody. I am just someone that has sat through rock and time on this site and Iāve seen every high and low. And I keep to myself. But itās disgusting that the people that do these things pretend to be the good guys. You canāt take a recording of a soon to be mother and post it on a fetish part of a community and be a good person. You harming yourself and by proxy hurting people that care about you for some clicks needs help. And the people that lie and cheat on their partners to get off or get some attention for a fetish, you are not a good person.
I am no one. But I want there to be a deep introspective on this site, because God knows it does. The community is genuinely filled with a lot of good people. But just in that same amount, itās filled with people that pretend to be good.
Seriously. Tf is up with this needle/popper trend? Weāve had people die from needles and one speak out about the dangers of poppers. If you want to get your heart rate up, GO RUN. Simple as bloody that. Or else weāll lose a lot more cardiophiles more than we have in this community as itās so fragile and niche. You love the heart? Stop abusing it. It genuinely makes me so sad seeing people abusing their hearts just for laughs and pleasure when they can simply just do it on a run. If you donāt wanna run, run up the bloody stairs. Donāt use a fucking needle or poppersāthe two most dangerous things that can and will definitely kill you.
