Since you blocked me without even giving me the chance to explain myself or defend my perspective, I’m left with no other option than to express what I feel this way.
First of all, I do not hate you. I never have. In fact, I genuinely liked you — as a friend, as someone I thought I could relate to and share space with in good faith. But everything changed when you started treating me in a way that felt unfair and hurtful. That doesn't mean I hate you — it means I was disappointed. There’s a big difference.
About the term: it was never mine. I never claimed to have invented it. It’s been around for years, long before either of us started using it. I simply created my own interpretation and symbol, just like you did (LITERALLY IN THE SAME POST I SAY THAT IT IS NOT MINE, JUST THE FLAG!!) — because:
1. This is my personal understanding and experience with dya identities.
2. I feel more comfortable creating something that resonates with my own feelings, my own journey, and gives visual form to an identity that’s deeply important to me.
3. The information I used was literally the same information I found in a video made by the original creator of the term — before he deleted it after coming out as a trans man. Nothing was taken from you, and if you had just asked, I could have told you that.
So no, I NEVER copied you. I have no interest in copying anything from someone who.
You don’t own the term. None of us do. The original creator left it open for others to explore, to reclaim, to reshape. That includes flags, symbols, interpretations — and everyone should be allowed to express their relationship with it without being accused of theft or bad intentions.
I just want you to leave me alone.
This whole thing is exhausting. I found out only TODAY that you made that post about me — and the only reason I hadn’t responded is because you blocked me and never gave me a chance to speak.
Stop bothering me, persmo!!
