Diary of an INFJ

Jonine Garcia. Saved by Grace. INFJ. Wallflower. Old Soul.

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usually, i would avoid girls like you. girls who attempt to cover up their wounds with uplifting thoughts, happy music, and being near to um, God, cuz i've decided those are bullshit attempts after using them myself few years ago but helplessly failed. i stopped hoping and started scoffing at *inspiring* blogs like yours. but idk, i found myself following you a couple of weeks ago, and here i am visiting your blog again, smiling for some unknown reason. you've obviously affected me in a good way

im speechless. honestly, I've abandoned this blog, because I don't want to look back at my old self and recall those dark and painful thoughts. but thank you if you found this blog inspiring. you have no idea how much i appreciate your msg. 😘😘 I hope life is treating you kindly. ❤️❤️❤️

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i just read some of your posts. i wish i could meet you in real life and get to know you. i wish you could talk to me and tell me about everything you have been through and whats going on in your mind. i would like to talk to you about the world and about us humans and i want to be sad with you. i want to understand you and laugh with you and watch the sunset and talk about deep things. i think youre amahing. i wish i could listen to you

you're soooo sweet. I would like you to know that I've received and read all of your thoughtful messages. I wish I had you around during those times :* first time someone has said this to me. Thank you. I appreciate you so much!

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p.s. please feel hugged ♡

thank you! :* you're so sweet.

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hello my beautiful flower, i hope you are doing well. i have a question to you -sorry if its too personal. i just wanted to ask you if you believe in a religion and in which one, if you do. because many people i know found their peace in islam. thank you

hello. i havent visited my tumblr for quite sometime now. so im so sorry for responding late. i only believe in Jesus, and that He is my Lord and Savior. i don't find peace in religion, I find peace in Him.

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Even when I was a little, I notice everything.  I wonder how and why everything happens the way it is, just like how much I appreciate every single thing I could feel and see. I notice even the littlest thing people don’t give goddamn attention. I notice everything and sometimes a lot of it seems pointless to say to anyone, and it frustrates me why some couldn’t understand the things that I could. 

[infjedness]

INFJEDNESS #3

Criticism. I appreciate that people want to help me by giving it. But not everyone works the same way. Personally I hide away and shut down when faced with too much criticism. Please give me your listening ear and support instead.

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I can literally feel my brain cells frying away with too much mundane conversation

Like people talking about work or money or all this boring shit they gotta do… Even if I’m the one talking, it’s exhausting

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My nature to overanalyze makes me extremely sad about everything under the sun.

Infj Problem #1

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Relationships are the strongest when the roots are deep in Jesus. Without both parties’ feet planted firmly in Christ, everything can easily crumble in front of our eyes. Jesus absolutely has to be laid as the foundation, firm and secure. Each heart needs to be actively pursuing Christ, so that in everything, He is more evidently being glorified. Through this, we achieve our purpose. And when that purpose is achieved, our relationships with one another strengthen and intensify. When we whole-heartedly pursue Jesus, while picking up our crosses and following Him daily, in a humble and sacrificial way, we are only then able to pursue our significant other in the way that the Lord has intended. Because love is patient, love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not self seeking, it does not dishonor others. It doesn’t delight in evil, but it rejoices in truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things endures all things, and it never fails. And that’s how we are called to love each other. This type of love is the solution to it all. So when our eyes are focused on Christ and our roots are firmly planted in His love, that’s when we are able to love in these ways. That’s when we know that we are loving as we are called to.

Real, true, beautiful love (via itsmejennap)

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Do you know if Ridley McNabb has tumblr? I like her poetry

oh, no hun. but i know he has a wordpress acct.

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I love how people in tumblr and instagram managed to present a life behind those lovely photographs and beautiful writings – as if it was perfect. How they can present a perfect and attractive life with a great effort. Sometimes there’s a sudden envious within you, until you realized that not everything you see is true. Instagram or tumblr become the home of people who cover the truth with perfect photographs and beautiful words.

I could relate to a certain extent whenever I post something beautiful in social networking sites. People appreciate you and adore you, but there’s a whole part of your life, vsco could never saturate or cover and your audience would never know. Your life may look so perfect in the eyes of the outsiders, but you know that there’s a hole in your heart that photographs and words could never fill.

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daily life.

[back-to-the-wood]

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Being an INFJ personality type is kind of like being a living contradiction: we’re introverted, yet we crave deep connections with others. We’re highly emotional and at the same time analytical. We have strong opinions, but we keep our thoughts and feelings private, sharing them only with a select few people we trust (if anyone, at all!). We reflect deeply and may write a lot, but we may not say much. In a group of people, we’re quiet, but our warmth, compassion, and depth bubble to the surface when we interact one-on-one.

introvertdear (via plain-sailing-weather)

[hanmingee]

For those who have this earth as their heaven, woe to them, for hell awaits them. And for those who belong to Jesus, and this is our hell, blessed are we, for it gets better after this.

Mark Driscoll, The Beatitudes (via hanmingee)

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Dignity /ˈdignitē/ noun 1. The moment you realize that the person you cared for has nothing intellectually or spiritually to offer you, but a headache. 2. The moment you realize God had greater plans for you that don’t involve crying at night or sad Pinterest quotes. 3. The moment you stop comparing yourself to others because it undermines your worth, education and your parent’s wisdom. 4. The moment you live your dreams, not because of what it will prove or get you, but because that is all you want to do. People’s opinions don’t matter. 5. The moment you realize that no one is your enemy, except yourself. 6. The moment you realize that you can have everything you want in life. However, it takes timing, the right heart, the right actions, the right passion and a willingness to risk it all. If it is not yours, it is because you really didn’t want it, need it or God prevented it. 7. The moment you realize the ghost of your ancestors stood between you and the person you loved. They really don't want you mucking up the family line with someone that acts anything less than honorable. 8. The moment you realize that happiness was never about getting a person. They are only a helpmate towards achieving your life mission. 9. The moment you believe that love is not about losing or winning. It is just a few moments in time, followed by an eternity of situations to grow from. 10. The moment you realize that you were always the right person. Only ignorant people walk away from greatness. - Shannon L. Alder