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@ innermagicart

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@ creationtrip

[kandidly-kasey]

Q: How many of these have you personally experienced?

A: 14... so far.

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[javarisx-fightingthosedemons]

[dreamgirlvibes]

This.

[bpd-dylan-hall-deactivated20190]

reading a paper on quality of life among 45-to-70-year-olds with Down syndrome:

“Individuals expressed a desire to be allowed to go to bed when they wanted to.”

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:(

[chavisory]

Imagine.

[fullyarticulatedgoldskeleton]

I lived in a room and board that failed the burrito test. (”If you’re not allowed to get up in the middle of the night to microwave a burrito, you live in an institution.”) No one stopped me from going to bed, but they did tell me I had to have my lights out by 10, and that I had to be out of the house by 10 the next morning. When I complained to my outpatient program that I needed more help than I was getting, they threatened me with board and care, where my cell phone would be taken away and I would lose contact with the outside world. My case manager sounded so damn smug, like he had caught me out, when he said, “if you’re really as helpless as you say, then you need to be in a board and care.” Like my only options were struggling to do things I couldn’t do, or surrendering my life to an institution.

When I tried to talk about these things with other people, they always rationalized it away. (I told my dad once that my caseworker was reading my e-mails as I wrote them, demonstrating extreme disrespect for my privacy, and he said, “Well, she’s probably making sure you don’t use the internet to goof off.” I was 22 years old.)

 People tend to mock the idea that telling an adult when to go to bed, when to eat, etc., is a human rights violation, even though they would find it outrageous and absurd if anyone came into their lives to do the same thing to them.

And this is what people seem to think when they tell disabled activists we’re just not disabled enough to understand that some people really do need to be locked up and deprived of all autonomy.

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Here’s the paper:

https://library.down-syndrome.org/en-us/research-practice/06/3/quality-life-ageing-down-syndrome/

[mstopportunity]

They don’t want *any* activists for mentally/developmentally disabled people. If you’re able to advocate for your rights, you’re not “disabled enough” - and if you were disabled enough you wouldn’t be able to advocate for your rights.

[kayleightarot]

Wednesday, February 15, 2023 Good morning! Today is about Journeys, Change, and Energetic pressure Tarot of the Day: Eight of Wands

Things are about to get very busy. Any projects you begin will move quickly, with few if any, delays. The results will likely to be successful so long as you keep your head, and don’t get distracted.   Also ending is the pattern of being stuck by indecision – yours as well as from others. If you’ve done all you can do, then, now is the time to let others do what they need to do to ensure the end you were hoping for and working toward.

The energetic movement where there previously was none,  will cause a cosmic *sigh* as the energy that was building but getting you nowhere, is released and begins to draw you forward. Expect great news, great hope, speeding toward an end that promises happiness. This can also represent the arrows of love (which is where it’s OK to lose your head a little).

💚 At work, you are likely waiting for others to make decisions and it feels as though you are running and not getting anywhere. Consider the adage that no news is good news; relax, don’t push, and trust the work you offered; the delay isn’t yours to fix.

💙 Travel may become a key focus in your relationship today. Whether that means an unexpected requirement to travel, the relationship you seek will require a willingness to travel, or will be found in travel, go with the flow. Don’t force things to remain the same. Find, and then focus on, the benefits of the change.

🧡 Wherever this flurry of energy appears in your day, know that it will soon speed you toward rewards with hope and momentum, and land you on your feet. Happy trails, Lovelies! Gun a-màireach (until tomorrow) Peace out

[astrolocherry]

Birthday Saturn in the 3rd House - Saturn’s School for Overthinking Girls 

written by astrolocherry 

The individual born with Saturn in the 3rd house is a deep and complex thinker whose mind has a ‘mind’ of its own. There is enviable finesse at the peak of mental operation. However, such  intellectual gold only appears at personal discretion following the inner work and discipline required of the individual. The active, focused, and inspired mind is madly stimulated and productive, until the rattling amplifies into a state of exhausted paralysis. The condition accompanies the pervasive longing to express what is meaningful inside, but this messenger bird is easily disoriented and lost. Internal speech pressure can whip words into a loosely defined whirlwind, or she may also become tongue tied and tangled silence as her message withers into the air. The individual may routinely rehearse and replay conversations in her own head, and also sense that people are criticising, bored, or not listening when she speaks. The individual may stare at a blank screen and scream for months on end, and suddenly receive an influx of resources to write a manuscript overnight. The inner child is very repressed with Saturn in the 3rd. The only escape is through filtering its imagination into reality, so as a child she can exist in another world that appears to be a shadowy mirror of the one she is from. She may grow out of her solitary fantasy play, but discriminating between imaginary and reality can be rather more difficult. As an adult, this taunted monster instead plays with her suspicions, calculated catastrophes, or vague memories. It’s also possible for the individual to harbour unusual, ritualistic, compulsive, or even dark thoughts that remain private or shared exclusively with her diary. It’s also possible to suffer some form of breathing issues, asthma, or the tendency to skip breaths that make mindful breathing exercises vital with this condition. Nerves or panic can have the sensation of binding and confining her chest. The cause may be ruminating thoughts that also restrict her from divulging her troubles to other people, and also consuming fear or preoccupation with madness or signs of mental deterioration. 

The early education years are pivotal development points. She may have extremely vivid recollections of this period, or unpleasant memories that consolidate through her shame-based monologue. There may have been incidents involving car or vehicle accidents, experiences during school, or with siblings, neighbours that remain long term secrets. The child may have been reserved or nerve-stricken and prematurely worried about circumstances beyond her control. Exam stress can manifest as physical sickness along with the inability to mentally rest, her mind is too worn down by the time pen is put to paper. The academic setting can be especially intimidating, she may have nightmares leading up to exam period or feel that she left her brain outside the door at the most crucial time. She has likely concluded that you either know it all or you know nothing at all, so she sets her own stands beyond authoritative measure. It isn’t merely a strict school teacher inside her head - she has a rigorous and relentless Headmaster that disciplines regardless of result if she has failed to meet her personal potential, passed using sheer luck, or repeated her bad preparation habits. She may become too afraid or ashamed to approach academics for support and stumble through certain semesters pretending that she can understand and praying that she won’t be asked any questions. This tension can signify the deeper desire to prove the intellect, and therein self worth to those who invalidated her intelligence, verbal contribution, or even degraded her for asking a question or failing to provide the correct or expected answer. These experiences become conditioned into complexes that as an adult she may perceive as a form of innate impediment or defect. It’s also possible that the parents were excessively invested in the child’s education, demanding exceeding grades and having reward or punishment based on academic results. Conversely, she may have considered the parents to be absent in this area of her life. This may have been due to a myriad of circumstances such as the parents lacking their own education and confidence to teach the child, a restrictive or hierarchal household where conversation is limited and closed, a sibling who requires extra or special care, or a parent struggling with psychological adversity such as depression or thought disorder.

Keep reading

[aidashakur]

Growth does not come from comfort

[kayleightarot]

Wednesday, June 15, 2022 Good morning!  Today is about Partnership, Joy, and Connection Tarot of the Day: Two of Cups

This card represents a meaningful and symbiotic relationship; one of balance, joy, sharing, and friendship. It often speaks to a romantic relationship but is just as likely to represent any partnership/friendship bond founded on equal respect, trust, and affection.

Two of Cups shouts of love, respect, and positive relationships; a karmic connection that brings you great rewards and happiness for years to come. This is a time of feeling at one with Universal energies and with yourself. Harmonise your shadows and your light, open your heart chakra, and share your loving vibes with the world.

💚 At work, the Two speaks to balance and fairness. You are likely very comfortable in your workplace, even if you are not in love with your job. Ensure you are giving all your company deserves. If you are looking for employment, this is likely to happen very soon; stay open to surprising options.

💙 If love is your focus today, Two of Cups speaks of ‘true love’, equality, respect, commitment, and all things most people hope for in a healthy love relationship. If you have not already found this person, they will likely soon arrive in your life.

🧡 Whatever aspect of your life the Two speaks to today, it heralds warmth, joy, and loving energy. Share those feelings with others and watch the world change. Gun a-màireach (until tomorrow), Lovelies Peace out…

[kayleightarot]

Tuesday, June 14, 2022 Good morning!  Feeling Divinely Inspired to Create? Seeking Truth & Justice? Sensing a need for Change? Tarot of the Day: Ace of Swords

The Aces represent their suit’s elements in their highest and purest form. For the Ace of Swords, some of these are objectivity, achievement, reasoning, and creative thinking. It represents a change or turning point that will reveal many truths. It cuts away the artifice and the confusion to show you the ‘bottom line’ so you can take the next steps.

With this type of clarity, comes a need to apply the ‘blade’ responsibly. Don’t cut too deep or too quickly, as that could damage aspects you wish to maintain – people’s feelings, beneficial processes, etc. This Ace may show itself as a brilliant idea or, perhaps some sort of divine inspiration toward creativity. Regardless of how/where it appears for you today, bravery is what’s called for because, you already have a sense of what you need to do next- trust yourself and take the next step.

💚 At work, the Ace indicates the need to take a different tactic or even, possibly, consider a different job. Be generous with your creativity and ideas today; you may not appear to be getting the credit for the new outlook but you will in the end; and to your benefit.

💙 If love is on your mind, truth is key. If you are in a committed relationship, the Ace speaks to ending a pattern that is not positive for you. It’s time to speak up and speak truth to your partner. You are being guided to build the relationship that is better for you.

🧡 The Universe rewards us for the risks we take on our own behalf. Know that there is good, beneficial energy that is getting you where you want to go. Excise the extra weight and take the leap –  the Universe will catch you. Gun a-màireach (until tomorrow), Lovelies Peace out

[mylittlepositivecorner]

may you find people who happily listen while you gush about your obscure interests. may you find people you feel comfortable and safe enough around to be your authentic self

[saturnrevolution]

the day you were born on and what that says about your purpose in life

by saturn revolution/more on instagram

In traditional astrology, each day corresponds to a planet. No matter your zodiac sign, the day you were born on can influence the flavor of your sign. However, this does not mean that you completely get the characteristics of those planets, but rather this shows the direction in which you are heading in your life through daily efforts and the person you are growing into. Just like a birth chart - think of the day you were born as a potential indicator of your life's journey. It's your job to do the work though.

Monday / Moon day (the healer)

If you were born on a Monday, then you are likely taking the direction of a healer in this life. You are learning everyday how to listen to your intuition and tell when and how things are happening around you. This can make you moody as well on some days, but it's part of the journey. Those born on Mondays should listen to their body in order to tune in with themselves and be able to heal the world with empathy. Use Mondays as a day to celebrate yourself - do not push yourself and take things slow while allowing time to rest.

Tuesday / Mars day (the warrior)

If you were born on a Tuesday, then you are likely taking the direction of a warrior in this lifetime. You are learning everyday how to go straight for your goals and to proudly fight everything that gets in the way, how to have confidence in your power. Doing new things helps you feel motivated and through your ambition you know how to lift others up. Be careful to not keep your anger inside, but rather express it in healthy ways. Use Tuesday to get in touch with your motivation by working on your goals and getting your body moving through physical activity.

Wednesday / Mercury day (the mentor)

If you were born on a Wednesday, then you are likely taking the direction of a mentor in this lifetime. You are learning everyday how to take a step back and evaluate things, how to use your sharp mind to problem solve in ways in which others do not see. This can also make you overanalyze things, so make sure you find a balance. Use Wednesdays for writing, researching or conversation. These activities can help you uncover new and innovative ideas that already live within you, which will give you enough information to help guide others with the best advice.

Thursday / Jupiter day (the philosopher)

If you were born on a Thursday, then you are likely taking the direction of a philosopher in this lifetime. You are learning everyday how to give meaning to life and how to use personal experience as your best asset. This can also make you a bit of a dreamer. Use Thursdays to learn, explore life, travel and find something to believe in. All of these will get you closer to who you are meant to be and also will build a strong foundation for you to teach others your point of view and open their eyes on new perspectives.

Friday / Venus day (the charmer)

If you were born on a Friday, then you are likely taking the direction of a charmer in this lifetime. You are learning everyday how to love the most vulnerable parts of yourself and how to use them to your advantage in order to build connections. This journey can leave you feel insecure at times. Use Fridays in order to appreciate the little things, communicate, invest in your relationships and consume art. The more love you give to yourself, the more charming you become and inspire others to be more vulnerable. Love is contagious.

Saturday / Saturn day (the titan)

If you were born on a Saturday, then you are likely taking the direction of a titan in this lifetime. You are learning how to be disciplined and be patient with yourself and know that time is on your side. This can also make you seem a bit cold at times. Use Saturdays to organize yourself, think back of what works for you and what doesn't and focus on the things that do. The more you focus on your goals and hard work, the sooner you reach them and can offer step by step solutions to the problems you once had to deal with.

Sunday / Sun day (the leader)

If you were born on a Sunday, then you are likely taking the direction of a leader in this lifetime. You are learning how to trust yourself enough in order to appreciate your authenticity and be true to who you are without seeking outside validation. This can also make you a bit too focused on self development. Use Sundays to remember who you are, the power you hold and invest in your talents, show your potential. You need a great deal of self expression and people will appreciate you for your courage and let you lead the way.

Reblog and complete this: I am a _________ (zodiac sign) _________ (day you were born name) (I am an Aquarius leader)🖤

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Capricorn the Philosopher 🐐📚- Cap 9th house stellium

[thedailyzen]

Sometimes growth requires acknowledging deeply uncomfortable truths. It is hard work. It is not always calm or pleasant.

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tumblr is like a group therapy with no therapist.

[mymanicmelody]

Am I the only one who is so excited for fall. Dark academic clothing, coffee and tea, leaves, books in the chilly air. Walks through the forest. Doesn’t anyone else crave this?