Slave Whore Slut Trainer

MidWest USA. I have had sub girlfriends, whores and slaves. I have helped many good girls become true sluts and helped several sluts become true whores. I enjoy training, it's an art and a science. slaves want to be owned, sluts fuck multiple men and whores make money.

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Remember, females are often viewed by society as less able to make decisions on their own. This enables them to reject accountability for their actions. As a Dom, be careful in your selection of potential submissives.

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Commonly Asked Questions (part 2)

I have trouble getting a vanilla girlfriend. How can I get a hot, thin, big breasted, slutty but loyal girl to be my sex and domestic slave? Improve yourself. That’s too much work…

I’m a virgin, but I know I’d like any type of sexual activity. Would you own me please? Not yet, get some experience and then we’ll talk. Well I don’t want to have sex with other people… You’re right, sex with other people is not a type of sexual activity you’d enjoy.

My girlfriend looked at a few tumblr blogs and now she knows she wants to be a true BDSM slave. What should I do with her? First, talk to her. When you talk to her you’ll realize she doesn’t want to be a slave, she probably just wants some kinky-ish sex once in awhile. You’re right, I tried anal and she wouldn’t let me…

The soft torture black and white photos I’ve seen on tumblr are great. I don’t want to do any further research before meeting up with this sadist on Craigslist. Anything I should do to really wow him? Let me know whether you’re alive tomorrow.

I’m an anonymous person. You don’t know my age, interests, personality or even what I look like. Would you commit to having a master slave relationship with me? This is a deeper than normal relationship, one that needs communication beyond words and knowing a person inside and out. So . . . no.

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How can I trust a Dom I don’t know

you give him as much trust initially as you would any person you don’t know: you allow him to earn your trust.

I don’t trust submissives I don’t know. she’s potentially entering an arrangment in which she’ll be vulnerable in chains , and I’ll be vulnerable to lawsuits or prison depending on her representation of the events. There are many crazy people out there who will prey upon people who put themselves in vulnerable positions. And there are many crazy people out there who are better left alone

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Can I be your no pics Kik slave?

Isn't that the best kind? 😉 Serious deja Vu

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How can I become your slave master?

I hope you meant "how can I become your slave, master?" and not how to become my slave master! ;)Honesty, loyalty, obedience and respect...

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Can I be your no pics kik slave?

That's my favorite kind anonymous!

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“Hello sir, I’m a needy little slut and I was just hoping you could let me submit some nude photos to you for you to post. I just want to be seen and I love the thought of all your followers getting horny looking at my exposed body… Here’s a pic of me, sir. Would you like to see more? I’ll show you anything you say sir.”

I would love to post your “exposed” body. I think you accidentally sent a defunct email.  I’m sure you’re real and not just a guy on the internet using this as his masturbating kick right?

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I want to try out the BDSM lifestyle someday. But I do not want to lose the respect or love of my boyfriend. Is it weird that I want to be treated like a whore but also be pampered from time to time?

Well you're asking a biased source. Your boyfriend may indeed believe it is weird. Have you even talked about it with him? Have a talk with him, maybe you'll find out he's a shy Dom and has been hiding who he is as well.Obviously, a guy who has trained literal whores understands a desire to be treated kindly or loved isn't necessarily exclusive from fucking a bunch of cocks.But again, I am biased. You're not asking the right person unless you want to hear what you want to hear. What world are you living in? Your boyfriend may think it's weird, or may lose respect for you if you try anything BDSM related. But that doesn't matter. What matters is what you want. Really ask yourself. Do you want to live in his world? Then suppress your desires so you don't lose his respect. If that is what you think you want, it is understandable and I can't judge. Most people will not venture out beyond their comfort zones. Relationships can provide stability, and it's scary to view your current partner as an obstacle to your happiness. If you want to make it work with someone who doesn't want to allow or share your kinks, you can train yourself "out" of it. If you're committed you can do that.I'm disciplined because I'm lazy:) I think it's much harder to compromise what I want on a deep level for a girlfriend than it is to love the girl who shares or accepts my nature (as I do hers). Pretending to be someone I'm not to appease someone who doesn't understand every single day just seems exhausting.

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Have you ever been in love? Is it possible to be in love with a submissive woman who is my slave?

Yes, and yes.

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On The Subject Of Grammar

So… I keep getting asks and submissions from guys. This is generally a wonderful thing- a superior being taking interest in ME?

Unfortunately, those that I’m getting are lacking one simple, all-important piece- the ability to speak English at a level higher than a goddamn third grader.

So let me just be clear- I’m a misogynistic little ex-dyke who believes men in general to be far above me in every way. But if you come in to my inbox with errors in spelling and grammar that not even a FEMALE would make, you aren’t one of those men.

But Lolli! Aren’t ALL men better than ALL women? No. All men have the CAPACITY to be better than all women. If you can’t bother to learn basic English, who the hell is going to believe you’re the superior one?

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I loved this post:) My inbox has me perplexed as well...

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Hello! Do you have any idea how can I remove my gag reflex?

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hello

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I have read all your blogs. U just seem to be The right person for me. I am a female aged 25. I love pain..torture and have a total submissive nature. ..i am looking for an online master who can guide me to become a cheap stree alutt n whore..pls uide

Thanks for the mail. I’m delighted that you are aware of your pleasure from pain, you would make good property for someone with a lot of tools …

Unfortunately, I do not personally experience the appeal of an online relationship. I understand the benefit of doing so for someone who chooses to be an online master, but currently I don’t see myself doing that. I am committed to building and developing my Household in real life, which makes it likely for me to undervalue an online arrangement in which I do not experience the same level of reward. The most I’ve participated in were long-distance relationships.

Having said that, I would not mind offering advice on training or things you could do to develop yourself. Perhaps an online mentor, if that makes sense?

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Hi there. I really enjoy your tumblr. I rub myself to it frequently. I would love to be transformed into a slut/whore/bimbo and think about it a lot. Unfortunately my Master does not wish this. I feel torn at times by my need to obey and my want to be a slut. Any advice on how to handle this?

Without knowing your true relationship with him, I will try to answer this succinctly. I’ll make assumptions, but take what you can.

you should obey, but you should also express your desires to your Master. Does he allow you to journal? If so, he can see how much this desire may affect your obedience, and may think of ways to fulfill it or ways to suppress it. He should know that a fulfilled slave is a better performing slave.

Ultimately, if you are his slave and he is your Master, then you will become what he wants. your only responsibility is to obey. I believe any female (or human for that matter) can be trained to be what a Master wants; whether he wants to invest the time, resources and has the personal commitment or knowledge to do it is another thing.  So in this situation, he should be focused on training this *out* of you. It doesn’t seem like this is happening if he allows you to rub yourself to my tumblr. (Thanks for the kudos btw:)

And if he’s not actively focusing your desires to align with his then you will always have this desire.  your decision is whether you can obey and never be the slut/whore/bimbo you feel you are inside, or find a Master who also wants this. If you don’t actively make this decision, and leave this buried, the mind has a way of forcing a course of action.

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"She is not submissive at all. She is bossy which is why I want to break her."

Is she not submissive at all, or just not submissive to you? I wouldn’t waste time with the first case; in the second you can at least hope to change to encourage her to submit.

Unfortunately, the fact that you married a bossy bitch shows to her (no matter if accurate or not) that she — in every way she is — is good enough for you without changing. It is much easier to make a bossy bitch into your submissive before committing to her.

You will have to earn her submission by becoming the guy to whom she wants to submit.

Are you willing to leave her if things don’t change? If not, what power do you have to make her want to modify her behavior? In a negotiation, the party more willing to walk away usually has the advantage. 

Maybe you can hope to encourage her to pretend to be submissive in bed. You both can live out your life roleplaying.

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Have a question about how you should follow instructions from your Master?

Are you communicating with your owner? Have you asked him? Why not? Is this an online only thing? If so, what are you doing to ensure you make up for the loss of nonverbal communication? If you aren't given great instructions from him, or they aren't clear or you're too afraid to ask him, then is he the right owner for you? Is he the best master you've found or just the first? One of the good things about the way I live is that I get to explicitly state my expectations. I get to talk with my sub on a level many do not experience. I get to invade all of her mental privacy and see the picture she's painting for herself. There are no moments she needs to ask another Dom about what she should do to follow my instructions.

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Hello, I have some questions. How do I know if I'm a Dom? I sometime think I'd like to be, but I have a lot of respect for women and have had a hard time being unnessessarily harsh.

So you sometimes want to be a Dom but sometimes you don’t since you have a lot of respect for women?  Well, the good news is you’re not a Dom, you’re a top; no need to worry about this dilemma. There’s nothing wrong with being a top without calling yourself a Dom. 

Doms or submissives, Masters or slaves are usually not people who wake up and just think “Yeah, I’ll be a (insert role here) today.” It is what we are. Even if we try to maintain a vanilla relationship, it’s still in us.

You are a guy who might like kinky activities, and you also want to follow others. This would make you a perfect top. Many women, submissives and bottoms included, would like a top to do what they want in bed. Even slaves can benefit from practicing with a top before going to a real Dom.

A Dom doesn’t like to blindly follow others including society collectively, although we can take orders when it makes sense or is necessary. The fact that you think Doms do not respect women means you cannot go on your own and be a Dom regardless of what this misconception states. Somewhere you learned that Doms do not respect women, and instead of knowing what you are, this turns you off from “wanting to be” a Dom. This is not Dominant behavior.

You also have learned you have to be “unnecessarily harsh.” Instead of knowing yourself and being how you want to be, this too turns you off from “deciding to be” a Dom. That is not Dominant behavior.

This community needs to reclaim our power to define. Those who live the lifestyle know that not everyone is Dom/submissive. It’s the novices who are not clear. Get in touch with your nature as a kinkster who enjoys the top position.  You get to enjoy playing a Dom role in the bedroom without the stigma we may receive outside of the bedroom.

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Notes from session with two subs

sub a. did a good job not showing jealousy, however she still displayed assumptions about what the night would entail. I should reward her for the good performance and obedience. slave b. was good as usual. I wonder whether her behavior can somehow be broken down to be used as an example for others. she did as told and asked no questions. Haven't found a limit under mine with her yet...