CHASTITY GUIDE

My husband and I both love everything to do with chastity and everything that comes with it. We have been doing this for years. My blog will contain hints, tricks, ideas, and good direction to please your man and yourself. Accept chastity and more love in to your life as you both take the time together here and there, to explore my page and have fun together going over my content. Hopefully you will find something new here you havent yet tried together. I do hope you are pleased with what you find and have fun, and come back for new posts all the time. Always please remember, I encourage you to involve your husband as you explore my blog. The most valuable aspect of chastity is the togetherness that it brings, and how everything outside of chastity should be together aswell <3

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Husband:

50 Reasons Why I Wear a Chastity Device

To stop masturbating and stay pure for my wife when she will be ready to make love.

To surrender control of my penis to my wife and to reassure her I do not cheat (including by playing with myself) when away for work.

To heighten awareness of denied sexual relief and pleasure.

To stop me masturbating and to be very attentive to my wife. I always came too quickly and now I satisfy my wife most days by giving her an orgasm or two, she loves it.

To stop masturbating excessively. Also, it makes me feel very horny all the time, as you are always aware of your penis.

Despite being unable to get an erection I’m incredibly turned on by the sight, feel and physical act of being locked in!

To satisfy my wife sexually and to remain in a continuous state of arousal for her and serve her every wish. I love the teasing that wearing a chastity device brings especially after the first few days of not being released and having to satisfy my wife sexually through other ways other than penetration.

To please my wife and be a better husband. My attention and time were going everywhere but to who and what was important. Now as my wife says’“ my mind is in the right place.”

To increase sexual tension, to avoid masturbation, saving all my sexual energy for my beloved key holder.

I believe a male should be kept chaste and denied until such time as the Domme sees fit to allow release.

To experience extreme frustration and as a sign of my devotion to me wife.

To be easier to control and learn to be a nicer boyfriend. Also to feel controlled.

The thrill of chastity / being the slave of a woman.

Stop masturbating, being fully given over to my wife and give my attention and energy to her.

Stimulating and I am aware of my manhood and the inability to get aroused.

Spice up sex life, demonstrate love for wife.

Some fantasy and some physical self control.

To give over my need for pleasure to my partner so that she gets all the attention she deserves.

So I can serve my mistress and pay her all my attention. It is also incredibly erotic being continuously turned on and semi erect without even trying.

Serving my wife better and wasting no energy for my pleasure.

Refocus my sexual behavior exclusively toward intercourse with my wife (and not masturbation), and to increase my thinking about having sex relative to thoughts about work and other responsibilities which tend to diminish my sex drive.

Prevent masturbation and increase attentiveness through sexual frustration.

My wife likes the control of our sexual relationship.

Longer term bondage. Keyholder focus is very intense, incredible sense of belonging and being under someone’s control for indefinite period. Brilliant for maintaining relationship. A couple of weeks ‘out of service’ and it’s great when released.

Like the idea of being forced to please someone while I’m teased and get no relief. Let the build up last and last until release.

Keyholder feels the longer I wear it the more sexual and erotic I am in serving her.

It makes our sex greater, and she knows that I am not fucking around anyone.

It makes me really conscious of how much and how often I enjoy sex, plus solves my problem of needing permission to attempt initiating sexual activities.

It makes every night erotic even when my wife isn’t in the mood for sex.

It is my Mistress/Wife’s wishes. It’s Her property

It helps to keep my masturbation and pornography habits in check.

It excites me. I like the humiliation I feel and the control it gives my wife.

Incredible horny and submissive feeling, plays with my mind.

Increased sexual excitement. A form of bondage.

I love to experimenting with new ways to enhance our relationship.

I love my spouse and want to devote my life to being the best, most loyal mate I can be.

I am more caring and devoted to my partner while wearing the device.

Heighten prolonged sexual pleasure, when I do get release it is more intense. Not knowing if I will get to cum adds to the excitement.

Fun. Frustration and I like her to “take control”.

Fulfillment of a personal fantasy. I enjoy the sensation of handing total control over my sexual needs to my wife and to be denied until it suits her.

For the excruciating pleasure of not being in control; to be able to concentrate on pleasuring my keyholder.

Focusing on Her. Controlling my masturbating habits. Greater orgasms, when eventually getting one.

Experience more powerful sex and to be more loving to my Keyholder

Because my wife wants me for her sexual gratification. The main and only reason I am wearing one (I would never have agreed to it) is that I woke up one morning almost seven months ago and found it on me. The main reason I am wearing it from her prospective is that she noticed that when there were occasions when we didn’t have sex I was a better lover and the longer the time the better. Therefore, she felt if I wore one permanently by attention to her would get better and better the longer the time goes on. She was definitely right on this matter, unfortunately for me because I don’t know if she will ever take it off.

Because it turns us both on. She loves being in control and I love it that she is.

Because I’m told to and can’t be trusted.

Attitude adjustment, encourage my submission, encourage the growth of her dominance.

Adding new sides to our relationship, get closer to my wife, the feeling of not being in my own control.

A concrete expression of my total devotion to the source of joy in my life, My Goddess/Wife.

A “Horny” Slave is an obedient Slave!

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The Art of The Ruined Orgasm Last night I gave my husband a ruined orgasm. A ruined orgasm is when you stop providing stimulation to you man’s cock when he starts to cum or right before he starts to cum, thereby ruining his orgasm. The man may feel a brief moment of pleasure but then it immediately vanishes leaving him frustrated. I have to admit that I get a thrill from seeing his desperation and it is even more thrilling that he thanks me afterward. He is like a puppy dog that is always happy…always wagging his tail no matter what I do. Some may consider this cruel, but even he enjoys when I ruin his orgasms because it is another form of control that he gets to experience. To him a full blown orgasm is a very special privilege that he only experiences on a rare occasions. Denying his orgasm keeps him feeling submissive and controlled. He craves this feeling and enjoys the mental game. The thrill and arousal that I experience from his ruined orgasm is only a part of the reason I do it. I also consider the ruined orgasm a powerful tool for controlling him and keeping him obedient. The biggest advantage of a ruined orgasm is that it allows the man some release but avoids the post orgasm “slump” that most men experience after an full orgasm. The slump I am referring to is when the man loses all energy and loses interest in sex and pleasing the woman. After a ruined orgasm, many men do not experience the slump or it is very brief. My husband will often remain hard after the ruined orgasm. His level of horniness remains high as well. Another advantage of the ruined orgasm is that it is one more tool to add to your bag of tricks for teasing and orgasm control. You can tell your man that he is allowed to orgasm and then at the moment he is about to orgasm or as soon as it starts you release his cock. Incorporating this into your T&D keeps your man guessing about what to expect. Not only will it be a mystery of when he can orgasm but now he won’t even know if it will be a full orgasm or ruined orgasm. Ruining his orgasm also prolongs his denial period. He gets some release but not a full orgasm. Therefore you can prolong the timeframe of when he is allowed a full orgasm by slipping in a few ruined orgasms. One final benefit that I would like to point out is that it can be used as a punishment. If your man has been naughty or simply not meeting your expectations, you can announce that the next orgasm (or next 2, 3, etc.) will be ruined. Now that I covered the purpose of the ruined orgasm, let’s go over some methods of how to ruin the orgasm. As the title of this blog indicates, it is more of an art than a science. There are many techniques and approaches to the ruined orgasm. You can get very creative with it. Each person is different and as you get to know your man’s reactions, you can adjust your techniques to maximize his teasing. The most basic approach is to stroke his cock and then at the moment he first spurts you release his cock and let it twitch and spurt on its own. He will experience very brief pleasure at the first spurt but then once you release and there is no friction the orgasm becomes ruined and he is left frustrated. This is a good way to introduce him to the ruined orgasm. In my college days I would often do this with guys. Back then I did it more for teasing then orgasm control. It was a bit cruel I guess but I loved it. Funny thing was, the most guys would want to come back for me. I think they just never experienced a girl that paid so much attention to their cock. lol. Another technique is to release his cock before he starts to cum. This may take some practice because you have to anticipate when the orgasm is coming. If you spend a considerable amount of time teasing your guy or if he has been denied an orgasm for a long period of time, this becomes easier to do. With my husband, I will often bring him to the edge of orgasm over and over again, stopping before he has an orgasm. I will do this for 30 or more minutes. Usually by then he is mush and can barely control himself. If I decide to go the ruined orgasm route, I will lightly stroke his cock with one or two fingers. It literally twitches and bobs as he tries to hold back his orgasm. At this point, if I gave him permission to orgasm, I could stroke with one finger and then he would shoot. I prefer to tell him to try not to orgasm. I enjoy seeing him struggle. He eventually gets to a point where he can’t hold back. The fun part with this is that I can do a stroke or two and then watch his cock as he struggles to prevent his orgasms. There have been times when I have stroked his cock and then watched him struggle for 20 or 30 seconds and then he spurted without me touching him. That is art! It is beauty to see him struggle and work so hard to please and obey me. It is also a power rush to know that I control him so much and that no matter how hard he tries he can not stop me from giving him an orgasm. What a mind fuck for him! In these situations I don’t feel that it is fair to punish him for having an orgasm without permission. However, I usually give him the disappointed look and tell him how weak he is. The variations (both mental and physical) you can apply to the above two techniques are endless and that’s what makes is fun. Some variations to experiment with:
Announce the ruined orgasm ahead of time or surprise himTell him to try and orgasm while you tease him or tell him try not to orgasm while you tease him. Imagine the fun of him trying to orgasm only to have you pull away at the last second and leave him with nothing. Do this a few times and then send him over the edge and let go.Use your hands, mouth, tongue, panties, feathers, etc. to tease him. One of the most interesting videos I watched was a woman that held her man’s cock straight up and she very slowly licked from bottom to top until he spurted.Make him ruin the orgasm himself. This is a good test of his loyalty. Will he let go before he spurts (bonus points for him), at the first spurt (good boy), or will he push the envelope and hold on a little longer after he spurts (bad boy. Punishment time!).Combine with anal pleasure. Stimulating the prostate will cause his cum to leak-out more. Some women use this technique regularly to “milk” their man so that he can go very long periods without a orgasm.Experiment and have fun with the variations. I think it is great to always keep him guessing as to what will happen next. I want to share a ruined orgasm experience that I had with Thomas that absolutely drove him crazy for days afterwards but it has literally taking me over two weeks to write this post because I have been busy so I will share that experience in a follow-up post.

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Science of Male Orgasm Denial In an update to her popular article The Orgasmic Benefits of Habitual - Male Orgasm Denial, Aislin Acquati explores the biological, psychological and evolutionary reality of routine male orgasm and how limiting them can dramatically improve your intimacy in relationships. Dominate His Brain Chemicals By Controlling (Harnessing) His Orgasms Male orgasm denial has numerous benefits, but do you know the chemical reasoning behind them? Endorphins, hormones, neurotransmitters, and neurochemicals (neurochemistry) affect how we ALL think and feel. By controlling your mans orgasms, you can control their brain chemicals and condition (train) them. Without any supervision or domination, men will masturbate and have as many orgasms as they please – which creates chemical chaos as well as undesired Un-Attentive behavior. What are Endorphins? Endorphins are a group of hormones that influence emotions and minimize the sensation of pain. They attach to opiate receptors, mostly in the brain. Pain and stress most typically influence endorphins to be released. They operate similarly to codeine and morphine. Scandalous! Bestseller Bestseller Women Can Enjoy Blissful Daily Orgasms – But Men Need To Be Denied It’s true – Orgasms affect men and women “Differently”. It is empowering to know that you can relish multiple orgasms on a daily basis while withholding them from your Virile Lover. Knowing there are hormonal reasons behind the science, (making him stronger and healthier), is just icing on the cake! Endorphins and Other Chemicals That Control The Brain and Motivation 1. Endorphins: Natural painkillers that are extremely more potent than morphine – producing feelings of euphoria. 2. Oxytocin - The Love , Cuddle and Bonding Hormone: Decreases abstract cravings – diminishes stress – keeps couples together – provokes passion, devotion, attachment and deep feelings of fondness – strengthens sexual receptivity. Normal/Raised Levels of Oxytocin: Devotion – a feeling of being connected – feeling protective and responsible – health benefits (reduces blood pressure and speeds up wound healing) – intense feeling of attachment – increases sexual alertness – less addictions and cravings – positive viewpoint and attentiveness.
Low Levels of Oxytocin: Depression – low sex drive – reduced, indifferent or no feelings of of attachment, connection or devotion – poor or no feelings of protection and responsibility for another person – weakened immune system. 3. Dopamine, The “I have to have it” Neurochemical: Normal/Slightly Raised Levels of Dopamine: Generates feelings of happiness – healthy sex drive – joy in completing tasks – motivated – optimistic outlook – postitive feelings toward others – rational decisions – yearning to bond with others.
Low Levels of Dopamine: Ambitionless – despair – displeasure – idleness – impaired judgement – low sex drive – remorseless of own behavior – social anxiety – unable to feel love. 4. Serotonin (a neurotransmitter): Too Much Serotonin: Anxiety – gastrointestinal disorders – insomnia – sexual malfunction.
Not Enough Serotonin: Decrease or increase in appetite – insomnia – isolation – loss of libid – low self confidence – ongoing saddness – over sensitive –– sore joints and muscles – stoamch pain. 5. Testosterone ( a hormone): Low Testosterone: Anger – decreased motivation and self esteem – decreased muscle mass and increased body fat – depression – difficulty with concentration and memory – fatigue – low sex drive – irritability . 6. Prolactin (a hormone): After orgasm, it may make one feel sexually satisified and repress dopamine. Excess Levels of Prolactin: Depression – diminished interest in bonding with others – – lowered testosterone levels – low sex drive – depression – infertility – irritibility – lethargy – pessimistic outlook – weight gain. This is how it works: Men experience a rush of dopamine during orgasm that puts them in a state of ecstasy. However – in most men – the blissful feeling disappears after 5-10 seconds. Interestingly, the surge of dopamine triggers an almost simultaneous burst of prolactin that causes dopamine levels to plummet. The result is a dopamine level that is much lower than it was before sexual arousal began. In addition, an above normal level of prolactin continues for up to two weeks. Woman receive a peak in dopamine during orgasm, but (unlike in males) it doesn’t crash drastically; rather, it subsides in a gradual sequence of steps. Prolactin also increases to a level slightly above normal (upon feminine climax) – staying there briefly while dopamine levels gently return to their normal levels. Another recent discovery is that Women’s dopamine levels vary throughout the month based on their menstrual cycle. You may be wondering what all this means. It means that… 1. Male Orgasms Are Addicting Have you heard a song about love or sex being a drug or addictive and wondered if there were any truth to it? Consider the following song lyrics: “Oh oh catch that buzz
Love is the drug I’m thinking of
Oh oh can’t you see
Love is the drug for me” – Love Is The Drug by Roxy Music “The perfect drug | the perfect drug | the perfect drug
You make me hard when I’m all soft inside
I see the truth when I’m all stupid-eyed
The arrow goes straight through my heart
Without you everything just falls apart” – The Perfect Drug by Nine Inch Nails Well – male ejaculations can definitely be addicting due to dopamine, the “I have to have it” neurochemical. When comparing brain scans, Gurt Hoistege, a Dutch Scientist found an astounding resemblance of male orgasm to shooting heroin. After they researched rats, scientists in Mexico City pointed out that repeated ejaculations can very closely imitate the effects of abusing drugs. 2. Men Experience a Post-Orgasm Hangover After orgasm, men experience a hormonal hangover similar to an opiate or cocaine withdrawal due to low dopamine and high prolactin. Dopamine levels fall while prolactin levels rise after orgasm and after stopping an opiate or cocaine. It takes two weeks for prolactin levels to normalize after stopping cocaine. During a post-orgasm “hormonal hangover,” men may look for new highs, such as drinking alcohol – eating sweets – new sex partners – porn – and drugs, to boost their dopamine levels. They may also feel disconnected from their partner – experience depression – or become lethargic. When dopamine levels are constantly bursting up and plummeting down due to uncontrolled orgasms, it can wreak havoc on relationships. Your relationships could feel like a never-ending roller coaster ride full of highs and lows with no middle ground. 3. Too Many Orgasm Lead Him To Cheat Once plighted, no men would go whoring.
They’d stay with the one they adore,
If women were half as alluring
After the act as before – Ancient Greek Anthology Poem Or we could phrase it: Once married, no men would be cheaters.
They’d be faithful to the one they adore, rather than acting a whore
If women stayed half as enticing After orgasm as before In any case – long before our time, humans knew that men cheated on their wives because they were not as appealing after sex! Once again, dopamine is the chemical responsible for men choosing to act in a way we ladies don’t like. Scientists found that after male rats partake in a frenzy of sexual intercourse, they will lose interest in that female. However, if a new female comes along, the male will have sex with her. They linked the phenomon of mate fatigue to dopamine. When a male rat has intercourse repeatedly with the same female, dopamine levels continue to drop. When a fresh potential mate arrives, a surge of dopamine follows. So – to keep your men feeling you are the most beautiful woman on earth with a World Class “Sacred” Vagina – you must harness and resolutely control their orgasms! 4. Repeated Orgasms Decrease His Sex Desire Male rats also experience a decrease in testosterone receptor for up to seven days within their reward circuit. Hormones, such as testosterone, and neurochemicals dock on the nerve cells, along with receptors. In this instance, fewer receptors equals less reactivity to circulating testosterone. As a result, the reward system releases less dopamine. The first problem is that low testosterone, or a reduced sensitivity to it, can cause anger and irritation. No woman wants to give a man an orgasm and then receive annoyance in return! Not only that – you don’t want to “Allow” your man to Ejaculate if the undesirable psychological result is a lowered sex drive. This brings us to the second problem, which is the fact that endorphin and serotonin levels go up - in the reward system of the sexually satisfied rats. Endorphins and serotonin are both neurochemicals that can produce happiness, but when they are in this part of the limbic system, they bring things to a stop rather than only generating good feelings. Think of it this way: Antidepressants, such as Zoloft – Prozac – and Lexapro, that increase serotonin and narcotics, such as Vicodin – Percocet – and Methadone that imitate endorphins, can cause sexual side effects. When neurochemicals diminish the reward circuit for a period of time, complications in your intimate relationship – both physically and emotionally – can and will occur. If you want your guy to have a low sex drive for several days to a week, allow them to have orgasms whenever they chooses – or encourage them to take an antidepressant or opiate! If you just thought or yelled – HELL NO – Then we’re on the same page. 5. Uncontrolled Orgasms Make Him Fall Out of Love In her book “Cupid’s Poisoned Arrow: From Habit to Harmony in Sexual Relationships,” Marnia Robinson points out the following: As a cure for love, the Roman Poet Ovid cynically recommends pursuing orgasm until it results in disinterest. cruel Love presses your neck beneath his foot?…
Go, and enjoy your girl, any time, nothing’s forbidden:
let her steal away your nights and days.
Seek loathing for your sickness: and let loathing end it.
Now, too, when you believe you could be free, stay on,
till you’re quite overwhelmed, and abundance destroys love,
and disgusted you’ve no pleasure in her house. – Or Sate Yourself With Her by Ovid Due to a dopamine drop and prolactin burst after orgasm, “eventually a man can develop feelings of indifference or slight repulsion for his sexual partner,” according to Taoist Secrets of Love by Mantak Chia. Oxytocin is the chemical that keeps love alive, and Ladies can magically increase this baseline oxytocin level in their lives by cuddling – hugging – holding hands – massaging as well as sexually “Edging” their males. The Cure is Simple The cure for the chemical chaos that uncontrolled orgasms produce in males is simple – The Cure is Orgasm Denial. . Are you ready to dominate and ultimately control your mans brain chemicals – do you want to train him to respond to you with any “Conditioned Response” You Desire ? or have you already learned to do so? Share your experience with femdom relationships and male orgasm denial (Karezza) by visiting the Tumblr Site Below. To learn more about Male Orgasm Denial, Natural Subjugation and Devotional Male Response – read “The Orgasmic Benefits of Male Orgasm Denial.”