𝘼𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙤𝙡𝙤𝙜𝙮 𝙊𝙗𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨 - pt. 3
contain references to abuse, divorce and mental illness
⚠️ Just because i mention bad things, this doesn't in any ways indicate certainty because you have certain placements/aspects yourself, astrology can indicate a possibility, but not dictate. Also remember these are general observations and the chart always have to be looked for confirming/declining options and theories.
🌒 Moon in Scorpio is present in many charts of people with abusive mothers or neglectful ones, the emotional life of the mother was pretty confusing and mysterious. This moon can indicate a propensity to argue frequently with one's mother.
🌒 Moon in Gemini is divided in two categories: very unstable mothers, or very cheerful and friendly ones. Anyways, the mother was very prone to mood swings. Moon in Gemini tend to have better relationship with siblings.
🌒 Moon in Cancer have generally a good relationship with their mothers but sometimes people with this placement have clingy mothers or over-attached ones. Someone who would always call them with their baby names, or cute nicknames for children, even in their 30s.
🌒 Moon in Capricorn, I'm sorry to tell, but I've never seen a single moon in this sign who has never had problems with a parent, often strict ones or very controlling, there were even some extreme cases of people who had lost one or both of them early in life, and in the best of all cases the parents were simply not that phisically or expressively affectionate, or on even more "normal" cases they've had very old parents.
🌒 Moon in Aries tend to have a conflictual relatioship with their mothers, often arguingbut I've also seen a big amount of them being on a good time with their mamas.
🌒 Moon in Leo have two dynamics to them: the mother who never gave them enough attention, or a wonderful relationship with her, i dunno why but most of them are only-child.
🌒 Moon in Virgo is likely to have the most OCD mothers in the planet, always wanting things clean and perfect, also the most judgemental ones, ready to be the child worst critic.
🌒 Moon in Taurus are the luckiest with mothers, they often have a beautiful relationship with them. On hipotetical downsides, we can have a jealous mother, someone who always check her children social network or just always analyzing her children's boyfriends/girlfriends.
🌒 Moon in Libra are likely to have mothers who projected their own dreams into the child, and that's enough pressure to hold, here we can also have a woman (mother) who got married twice.
🌒 Moon in Sagittarius can be as lucky as taurus moons in terms of mothers, but if we have to find a negative side, here we can find the overly-religious mother who wanted their children to be as religious as her, or a mother who was very independent or had to single-parent her children.
🌒 Moon in Aquarius have a friend-like relationship with their mothers, but mostly a very detached relationship where the mother leaves them soo free and without rules that those folks end up feeling lowkey not-important and neclected from her somehow.
🌒 Moon in Pisces can also be lucky with their relationship with their mothers, but some of them can have a very toxic one, and on extreme cases i can tell the mother was an alcoholic or a drug addict.
🌒 Moon Sextile/Trine Sun is a typical good aspect, meaning two parents who never got divorced or separated, and the home life was overall harmonic.
🌒 Moon Square/Opposite Sun is not that good, because it can be seen in charts of those people with divorced/separated parents, or in those houses full of diatribes and disagreements.
🌒 Moon conj. Sun can be a confusing combination because the sun is supposed to burn the moon, and this combination often end up in a familiar environment where the father was the stronger figure, very patriarchal, and the mother had only a submissive role, this can go on positive and negative sides.
🌒 Moon quincunx Sun can talk about someone who has never known his father/mother, wheter physically or just feeling like they know nothing about their parents.
🌒 Moon Sextile/Trine Mars is a great aspect too, that talks about passionate human beings that can balance their anger very well, people who had very courageous mothers or just very soldier-like minded ones.
🌒 Moon Opposite/Square Mars is not an easy one tbh, this can be an indicator of divorced parents, often give anger issues caused by the war-like family environment, or just someone that struggles with keeping up with their emotional field.
🌒 Moon conj. Mars is FIRE, here we can have all te positives and all the negatives mixed together, but I've never, and i say never, seen a single person with this aspect who would've remain stuck on their anger or resentment, they're courageous as hell, it doesn't matter how hard or not their family life was/is, they're the strongest folks I've ever met, and I'm like WOW. But all this power mixed together can be dangerous if not managed well.
🌒 Moon inconjunct Mars is a mysterious aspect to me, it brings more negative sides than positives (similar to Moon sq./opp. Mars) anyways, here we have emotions and actions that don't meet each others, so those people have to find a way to integrate those two most of the times. Somehow, their intentions were always unmatched with their mother's ones.
🌒 Moon Trine/Sextile Mercury is the: "I remember everything" aspect. Great memory tho. Good communication with their mothers and/or siblings. This aspect shine on writers, because they're so good at expressing their feelings with a pen... Imagination can be here as well.
🌒 Moon Square/Opposite Mercury is the opposite of the positive ones from the trine and the sextile, i call those aspects "the anxiety" aspects, because they give a restless mind, very prone to worry and get paranoid. Very divided on behalf of heart and logic, also a not-so-good communication with mother/siblings. These people either have a memory of a goldfish or have the best ones, no way in between.
🌒 Moon conj. Mercury, again, as the Moon conj. Mars, this can go either ways, positive and negative ones, but conjunctions always have to be developed somehow because they carry great points of power that have to be managed. So here we can have the extremely anxious that write because of anxiety, or just someone that integrate their logic into their feelings.
🌒 Moon inconjunct Mercury, logic and feelings are not definitely together. We have somene which feelings and thinking just don't match each others, can be somewhat as difficult as the Moon sq./opp. Mercury. Here we can also have a child who was never understood by her/his mother, someone who never understand the mother's logic.
🌒 Moon Trine/Sextile Venus is the cutest aspect someone can have, "the shoulder to cry on", the relationship with the mother is quite often loving and caring, and those people are such sensitive and emphatic buddies, they're pure honey most of the times, super loyal, giving and gentle. Sometimes they can also be somehow needy, but they have a good emotional field.
🌒 Moon Square/Opposite Venus, ok, i dunno where to start with this, first of all, people with these aspects very often have TONS of lovers around, TONS of exes and people they've dated or at least TONS of crushes, i won't say they're non committal, but they don't like to be in the same relationship for too long. Also, the ideals of a perfect lover and perfect wife here don't match. Their relationship with their mother was kinda never totally calm and quiet, because here we can have a mother who was the total opposite of caring, nurturing and sensitive. I personally consider it "the player" aspect, along with Mars square Venus.
🌒 Moon inconjunct Venus produces effects similar to the square, or just the general negative ones.
🌒 Moon conjunct Venus at their best, are like the trine and sextile folks, on the downside there can be soemone who's overly or extremely emotional and get offended very easily. They're the ones that have to be on a "aesthetic" environment to really feel good.
🌒 Moon Trine/Sextile Saturn are the best at controlling their emotions, they're able to work so well under pressure most of the times, very emotionally wise because most of them had to learn many tough lessons along the road. These two are aspects of emotional stability, very pragmatic and routine-like people.
🌒 Moon Square/Opposition Saturn, i mean, this aspect is very demonized in all descriptions, and I'm sorry i won't sugarcoat, this aspect is hard. These people tend to be very hard on themselves first, and that's the cause to many problems of you buddies. This aspect is often related to a bad relationship with the mother, who was very strict or controlling, and who's politics never matched the child emotional needs. This aspect is often the one of a neglected child, or someone who had to face his own responsabilities very early on in life. But, i have to tell that squares especially are about internal conflict, so what they have to find is internal peace and learn to be less harsh on their self-talk.
🌒 Moon conj. Saturn, this aspect is no good either, very similar to the negative ones we've already said with the sq. and opp. But the good thing here is that if the power of the conjunction is managed well, these folks can become like the trine/sextile ones.
🌒 Moon inconjunct Saturn, more like the sq. and the opp. But here the emotional side and routine don't get along very well, these two sides just don't match each other. The lesson here is emotional growth.
🌒 Moon Trine/Sextile Jupiter, omg these buddies are the literal rapresentation of a "big heart", these are those cheerful joyful friends who people always like to be with, it's veeery difficul not to get along with them. Here we have emotional stability and wisdom as well. They're so generous and giving most of the times, to the point of exaggeration sometimes, so beware from it folks.
🌒 Moon Square/Opposition Jupiter is still like the trine/sextile overall, but waaaay moore moody, these people have to learn emotional growth and how to keep their feelings stable. They can also be very wise and great counselors to their friends, but not that good with themselves. They're still joyful people who are very fun to be around, but once they return home, they become the moody asses they were before. Self-indulcence ca be here.
🌒 Moon conj. Jupiter, same effects as the trine and sextile but stronger, as all conjunctions, this can go in an either positive or negative way (like the sq. and opp.)
🌒 Moon inconjunct Jupiter, emotions and wisdom are two different things that don't communicate to each others, so as all inconjunctions, the less is integration.
🌒 Moon Trine/Sextile Uranus, the most original people I've met so far, these people can be very creative and ingenious, somehow an eccentric or uranian mother can be present as well, instability is well-managed and emotions run free and wild here. Also these people crave indipendence, they hate all sorts of bonds and like to have their space untouched from others.
🌒 Moon Square/Opposite Uranus, the qualities from the trine and sextile are still here, but here eccentricity is heightened, here's there's an URGE to create, becase there's so much instability to be managed that the only proper way is to create and express it. Emotions are run wild and free but to the point of difficult control. They crave indipendence but also dependence at the same time, and I've noticed most of them entering in a relationship and getting scared as things would've get more serious because they would've feel like their space was invaded. Mothers were unstable 99% of the times, or just very particular human beings. Over-independece or over-dependence, no way in between. Balance is the key, and for these folks especially, is a very difficult matter.
🌒 Moon conj. Uranus, can go either ways, as trines and sextiles or as squares and oppositions.
🌒 Moon inconjunct Uranus, more like the square.
🌒 Moon Trine/Sextile Pluto, mysterious as fuck, doesn't matter if it's a potive aspect, here ve have the deep feeler, the mother was a very powerful/strong figure in their lives, also, these people come in layers, and you can still be by their side for years and still don't know them entirely. They have a very intense emotional life tehy don't show, but they're used to it and can manage the energy prettu well. They're amazing at keeping secrets, you could share you've killed someone and they will be silent for sure. Not the most talkative people here for sure.
🌒 Moon Square/Opposite Pluto, that's somehow as hard as Moon sq. or opp. Saturn. Here we have the same characteristics of the positive aspects, but tend to go on a negative spectrum, deep feelers full of trauma that have sky-high walls and never let people enter their emotional room. It's very hard to get to know them, and can even be frustrating. Here the mother wasn't certainly the "best awarded mama of the year", this aspect can offer a beautiful thing called "trauma" and those people could take years to get through it, or just never fully overcome it. Resentment is a common theme here.
🌒 Moon conj. Pluto, not the happiest aspect, moon and pluto are natural nemesis to each others. But this conjunction can go either ways, positive (trine and sextile effects) and negative (square and opposition effects). Since in the most powerful one in my opinion, here there's a tendency to the negative sides than the positive, because there's literally soo much to handle...
🌒 Moon Inconjunct Pluto, is again not the happiest one, here feelings and obsession are not combined, they key is to find a way to integrate your deep feelings without avoiding them.
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