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@thighsquishdomme
Let's watch porn together just so I can see you start to squirm and rub your legs together. "Do you want me to do that to you, baby?" I'll say as you softly cry onto my shoulder and nod softly, your hand slowly guiding mine between your thighs
Kinda hungry kinda horny kinda tired kinda wanna get a tattoo
You know when someone says something to you that just hits one of your kinks just right and your brain freezes for a few seconds
It’s okay to let go. Let go all over me.
mature conversations mixed with a lil flirting and joking >>>
you poor thing (derogatory) (sexual)
Sometimes I feel the popular girls in high school became boring vanilla people that think spanking is extreme, and the good nerdy girls grew up into the dirtiest, nastiest, kinkiest women that can't get off unless there's degradation and hypnosis and whips involved.
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cumming “too fast” is literally one of the hottest things possible, I don’t want to hear it slandered shut up shut up shut up shut up
stoic/shy character A desperately needs to pee and character B asks him "are you okay?" and A realizes that he can't take it anymore and quietly answers “no”
People in the BDSM and kink communities are the only people who are normal about sex, actually, and we should all learn from them.
I think everyone should familiarise themselves with the theory for such key concepts as consent, rejecting a sexual practice for yourself without judging it morally for others, sub drop and how it can happen even in the most vanilla sexual encounters, and aftercare and how it’s often needed in even the most vanilla sexual encounters (but often treated as a joke and something to ridicule).
Summary for those who haven’t read the links:
Sub drop is basically getting the endrophin high from sex and then crashing hard from it. You just had an amazing, intense experience, so why do you want to cry??? Why do you feel weird and empty and alone? Even if you don’t get the outright crash, when the horniness fades, it catches up to you just how vulnerable you’ve been, and it’s natural and common to feel a little lost and alone after that. Contrary to what the term implies, you don’t need to be the submissive party to experience this. Note how much vanilla sex culture ridicules this (”crying after sex” jokes, etc.).
Aftercare is the antidote to sub drop, it’s the post-sex affirmation that things are good and you are safe and appreciated. Common forms include cuddling, ice cream, taking a warm shower together, wrapping yourself in your fuzziest softest bathrobe available and general relaxation together. Comfort and reassurance. Note how much vanilla sex culture condemns people as “needy” for wanting this kind of treatment, or for being upset that their partner just walks out on them after sex. (The people being condemned as “needy” are usually women, but I don’t even want to think about how much men certainly need this comfort too but feel like they can’t ask for it without being seen as un-masculine.)
This is what I mean when I say BDSMers and kinksters are the only ones who have this shit figured out. None of these things are actually exclusive to BDSM and kinky sex, vanilla sex for everyone would be SO MUCH BETTER if these things were part of universal sex ed.
*checks mood ring* huh i’m horny
How are we doing today ladies. Are we still losing it. Are we going completely insane
the idea of accidentally discovering someone's kink is so hot to me, like jokingly calling someone a good boy and they get all red and flustered and you're just like OH. oh
boys humping pillows is so hot? i wanna watch a boy get off just doing that while I’m rubbing his back and whispering in his ear how good he is for me until he’s drooling and whining and so edged that he cums in his underwear.
im obsessed with men in positions of power being put in positions of vulnerability.
