Cleo

25 - she/her - bi - main account is thighsquishdomme

[cryptidpiss]

god why is it so hot when doms say things like “i love watching you squirm around with a full bladder” or “god you look so hot holding in all that piss for me”

just like. knowing someone is getting off on telling me to hold it and denying me permission to pee because it turns them on. i wanna be on the verge of bursting for someone else’s pleasure i wanna hold it just for them

[fairycosmos]

can't believe hot girls follow me. if we were in the club i couldn't even look At you. love you

[samdashh-deactivated20210615]

all I want in life is financial stability, consistent kinky sex, and good food.

[fxlthyangxl-deactivated20240122]

bf who cooks 🤝 gf who looks cute on counters

[vii-5]

-5

[bi-and-bratty]

Can we talk about how underrated it is to have someone touch you over your underwear? Like not even just to tease you, but actually making you cum without taking them off 😳 or using toys over your underwear so it’s less intense and less friction, making you squirm longer while you get fuzzy headed 😳

[futureevilscientist]

People in the BDSM and kink communities are the only people who are normal about sex, actually, and we should all learn from them.

I think everyone should familiarise themselves with the theory for such key concepts as consent, rejecting a sexual practice for yourself without judging it morally for others, sub drop and how it can happen even in the most vanilla sexual encounters, and aftercare and how it’s often needed in even the most vanilla sexual encounters (but often treated as a joke and something to ridicule).

[futureevilscientist]

Summary for those who haven’t read the links:

Sub drop is basically getting the endrophin high from sex and then crashing hard from it. You just had an amazing, intense experience, so why do you want to cry??? Why do you feel weird and empty and alone? Even if you don’t get the outright crash, when the horniness fades, it catches up to you just how vulnerable you’ve been, and it’s natural and common to feel a little lost and alone after that. Contrary to what the term implies, you don’t need to be the submissive party to experience this. Note how much vanilla sex culture ridicules this (”crying after sex” jokes, etc.).

Aftercare is the antidote to sub drop, it’s the post-sex affirmation that things are good and you are safe and appreciated. Common forms include cuddling, ice cream, taking a warm shower together, wrapping yourself in your fuzziest softest bathrobe available and general relaxation together. Comfort and reassurance. Note how much vanilla sex culture condemns people as “needy” for wanting this kind of treatment, or for being upset that their partner just walks out on them after sex. (The people being condemned as “needy” are usually women, but I don’t even want to think about how much men certainly need this comfort too but feel like they can’t ask for it without being seen as un-masculine.)

This is what I mean when I say BDSMers and kinksters are the only ones who have this shit figured out. None of these things are actually exclusive to BDSM and kinky sex, vanilla sex for everyone would be SO MUCH BETTER if these things were part of universal sex ed.

[iiw-d]

[radioactivepussy]

*checks mood ring* huh i’m horny

[cumonthecleric]

God the idea of having to watch someone pee while they deny me the same relief is so hot

[leaveityaara-deactivated2022091]

Hey (with the intention of making you so horny you can’t sleep at night without masturbating to the thought of me)

[puppybeargf]

finger me stupid and let me look up at you adoringly 🥺

[wlwife]

sub who begs their dom to stop because it feels like they're going to pee and dom who pounds into them faster so they squirt for the first time

[starshaper]

[lemonslushie]

I wanna be cuddling in bed but also be frantically grinding against their thigh trying not to wet myself

[itwasajokeuntilitwasnt]

having multiple doms discussing what you should drink next/how much as well as when/if you should be permitted to use the bathroom. you don’t get a say. maybe they carry out the conversation like you aren’t even present or maybe they take the time to tease and rile you up

[itwasajokeuntilitwasnt]

your dom sets a limit on how much coffee you’re supposed to drink and if you go over the set amount you are drinking double in water and you are going to hold it