BRCA: What those letters mean to me?
4 letters to swallow; after getting my blood drawn to test my likelihood of developing breast cancer over my lifetime. I'm 24, just graduated college less than a year ago, and now I'm faced with so many life-changing decisions. But I'm writing this blog post to inspire others, like myself. I was 9 years old when my mother passed away from this unforgiving, relentless disease. I witnessed her radiation and chemotherapy treatments; she was diagnosed around my age somewhere in between the time my father proposed and her wedding day. I attended the wedding, of course. It was perfect -and it was the happiest day of her life. So back to what I was saying; 24 years old, the world at your fingertips and expected to make decisions that not only effect you, but your entire family and future generations. Four years ago, I attended an event at Kent State University where two courageous women spoke about getting genetic testing done. I attended the event for extra credit, and their message really resonated with me, yet I did nothing. Recently, I met a woman who got diagnosed with breast cancer at age 35 and she is currently done with chemo and in the final stages of reconstruction. Thankful I met these incredible women, or I would be a lot less fearless than I am about making my decision to undergo genetic testing.
Two weeks ago, I met with a genetic consoler and she educated me with all of my options once the results come in. I decided to push forward.
Now my thoughts are racing and I find myself evaluating my life based on the experiences I've had thus far. I've lived a blessed life, and I couldn't ask for anything more except more time, of course. This brings me to my point of writing this blog post. Undergoing genetic testing is not a death sentence - it is merely a change of direction, and an opportunity to re-allocate your priorities. Let me tell you this much; your life is your priority. The time you spend with your family, your friends and however you spend your free time is your priority. Prioritize your life. Take the time to understand what it is that makes you tick; whether that be world travel, philanthropic efforts or just live the good ole' simple life. Take this time to really evaluate whether you want experience and depth, or consistency with that dream house or flashy car. What does a successful life mean to you? What is it that you want out of life? You are granted the opportunity to really access your innermost desires and make them a reality.