In the Commons

Ashley is my name. I suppose I could go by that, I'm just your neighborhood blogger, and welcome to the commons. A big bowl of EVERYTHING. I'm a creative soul and sensitive about my shit. Stylist in the making, Life Coach, Motivation speaker, poet, phucking amzeballs, all of the above. So come join me in the commons, relax and let the journey begin. This a peak into my brain and my soul but other ways to see my existence sc,tweeter,ig....@leybutta_

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Next Monday we will be somewhere else 🙏🏾🧘🏾‍♀️

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oohhhhhhh killl em 😬 sincerely, your favorite neighborhood blogger 🤓

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Food for Thought 💭

Greetings neighbors and visitors,

I hope everyone is having a great day,

Today has been stressful but enlightening and I’m here to spread the message, in this world filled with people they will make you feel as if you’re emotions are less than or make you feel like you should let give into your emotions but rather feel and act as they want and feel.

Control. People want control some way or another whether that’s by using your weaknesses manipulating you into feeling as though you don’t know what you want or deserve....in order to be free from those you must realize your worth. And lemme just tell you here first...you’re PRICELESS!😽

The biggest issue we face is admitting there is actually a problem or actually anything wrong with how you might be getting treated. I know it could be difficult weighing out pros and cons of love and feelings but your sanity, and long term self esteem mean more. Or should at least.

So let all that really soak in and lemme know what you think and how you feel...😌

With all that I leave you with this, protect your energy and hold on to it tight.

Sincerely,

Your favorite neighborhood blogger 🤓🧘🏾‍♀️

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The Motivation 🧗🏾‍♀️

Hello neighbors and visitors,

Just your favorite neighborhood blogger back with another motivation monday,

I hope everyone has had a productive day so far and accomplished at least one thing on your check list, for all my east coast neighbors fall is officially here and today is definitely a gloomy one, but try to make the best of it.

My message for today is live in the now and take advantage of every second because time waits for nobody. Whatever you wanna do, do it all the way or don’t do it at all because half-assing what you’re trying to do will only leave room for regret.🙌🏾👌🏾👏🏾

And with that neighbors, I leave you with this, protect your energy and remember your happiness and sanity come before anything.😌🧜🏾‍♀️🧘🏾‍♀️

Sincerely,

Your favorite neighborhood blogger🧘🏾‍♀️🤓🦄

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Smile that can light up any room😇 happy Sunday Funday neighbors🧜🏾‍♀️ I hope everyone had an amazing weekend😌🙌🏾 tomorrow we are all back at!!!! Message for today, I heard it takes more muscles to frown than it does to actually smile.😌😂🤗 So if you have a chance today just be HAPPY😁 sincerely, your favorite neighborhood blogger 🤓🧜🏾‍♀️🧘🏾‍♀️

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check-in🤓👋🏾

good evening neighbors, I hope everyone has had an amazing week so far, I know for many of us the week is over and if it isn't just hold on for a little bit longer! You got it! I’m just checking in today making sure y'all check out Poetry for the Soul this week!

Well on that wordy note I leave you with this, protect your energy and hold it close because those who admire your energy may try to take it or damage it in someway, don't allow it. end of story. 

sincerely,

your favorite neighborhood blogger🧘🏾‍♀️🤓🦄

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Poetry for the Soul.🧘🏾‍♀️

Thoughts of the abandoned Poet.🖋

It is the uncertainty which fills me with the fear.

Not knowing what could come from this.

Being stuck in the tunnel hearing the voices at the finish line but not being able to see the fucking line.

Patience and Faith is the said recipe when feelings of uncertainty and worthlessness are constant.

But the laying of random words in a cluster to create these sweet words of poetry is what keeps me yearning for the recipe.

by: Ashley Carhee

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Happy Humpday neighbors🤗 just here sharing a book I’ve taken some interest in lately, I mean the title basically describes me. But! this is a must read if you haven’t read it already I definitely suggest taking some time to read it😌 Thank me later✌🏾 sincerely, your favorite neighborhood blogger🧘🏾‍♀️

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the motivation🧘🏾‍♀️

hello and goodnight neighbors,

I hope everyone had a productive Monday.

I’m just here with a short message, working on becoming a better person doesn’t need to be shouted from a roof top, your self improvements shouldn’t be displayed for all to see, rather flourishing and blooming within and the radiance of your glow shows your progress.😌

With that I leave with this, protect your energy, focus on the important things, and let everything else go.

Sincerely,

Your favorite neighborhood blogger 🧘🏾‍♀️🤓

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Feelings🧘🏾‍♀️

Hello neighbors,

It’s almost national nap time for your girl,

But I’ve decided to put my focus on one thing, ME. I’ve realized in order to truly be the greatest person you can be it is first going to take work, discipline , and determination.

Do you actually want to change?

Are you prepared to lose certain people?

Are you ready for a life change?

Yes.

Walking around blindly wondering why tf do I still not feel 100% happy all the way? And it was because I had issues within myself I tried to cover over with concealer rather than just popping the damn pimple. The bright side is now I’m fully aware of my damage but there’s a rescue on its way.🙏🏾

Neighbors if you’re feeling like this or going through similar situations, sit yourself down and have a real one on one. Raw and Uncut, because the worst thing you can do is literally play yourself.🙅🏾‍♀️

So with that, I leave you with this protect your energy and nurture your soul, take time to know yourself inside and out so none feels the need to question you.👌🏾

Sincerely,

Your favorite neighborhood blogger🧘🏾‍♀️😌

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Poetry for my Soul

Wishes..

I wish I was a little bit taller so I could run away,

I wish I wasn’t broken,

I wish I was honest with myself,

I wish I took time for myself,

I wish I had a father who lead by example,

I wish none of my struggles affected me negatively,

I wish I knew everything I know now,

I wish I demanded what I deserved,

I wish I said something,

I wish I spoke out,

I wish.

By: Ashley Carhee

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The Box

imagine being in a box.

four sides equal all the way around.

now upon entrance you are hesitant.

not because of fear, but because you’re not ready to go.

even with these clear thoughts, your feet begin moving, towards this box.

Wanting time to stop, for you to be ready.

stuck in a box, you kinda didn’t want to be in to start.

Trying to find yourself, figuring yourself out, becoming familiar with your own thoughts is now the mission.

Digging deeper and deeper into a box of nothing.

By: Ashley Carhee ✌🏾

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Sunday Reflection 🧘🏾‍♀️

Just want to start off by saying I’m sorry for literally becoming a ghost.

Okay now that I got that off my chest my message today is, respect yourself and protect your energy. Lack of respect for yourself doesn’t do anything but give people a free all inclusive pass to disrespect you. Not all but some human beings will allow disrespect and allow people to treat them any which way. Now even if we are unaware at first, everyone doesn’t have your best interests at heart.

Knowing who you are and what you deserve out of this life, keeps you grounded as far as being able not to take shit from people and their actions.

At all times protect your energy, it’s sacred. And who can give you energy when all is gone due to wasting it on people who in the end had zero to contribute.

I want everyone who is reading this to understand just how important it is to protect your energy, because people will try to take it from you.

sincerely,

your favorite neighborhood blogger 🧘🏾‍♀️

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still alive, excuse my disappearance neighbors🙏🏾. I had to take a little break get a few things in order including my mind 🤓😌, but I’m back! So message for today enjoy today because tomorrow isn’t promised and isn’t set. Come visit me Monday, I’ll be back with motivation, some announcements, and of course a message. so with that I leave y’all with this, protect your energy at all costs.🙏🏾🙌🏾😌 Sincerely, Your favorite neighborhood blogger 🦖🦄

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the motivation 🗣

hello neighbors and new visitors 😌🙌🏾,

Happy Monday, I hope everyone enjoyed their weekend😌but now that it is a new day I hope you’re conquering this Monday and getting shit done, taking time for yourself getting your mind right, or doing whatever it is you said you needed to do today!

Message for this week; remember to always do it for you. Don’t go through life making your decisions based upon other people’s thoughts or feelings on any situation. Whatever it is you need to experience it for yourself, it is not a harm to you or anyone else what’s the worse that could happen? Nothing. So don’t just exist in this life you better live it!

So with that neighbors, I leave you with this, protect your energy. Love yourself. And smile. 🧜🏾‍♀️🤓

Sincerely,

Your favorite neighborhood blogger 🦄🤓

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Happy Friday Neighbors and all my visitors 🤗🙌🏾 Message for today, Protect your energy. Demand everything you deserve. Also settle for nothing. Sincerely, Your favorite neighborhood blogger 🤓🗣

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women wednesday 🧚🏾‍♀️

Hello neighbors and visitors this one goes out to my ladies today,

As a female in society we are told how we should look, dress, talk, act, the whole nine yards. Society also feels though if we aren’t up to the standards they’ve laid out for us then we should take any criticism or bullshit they have to say....well ladies I say FUCK THAT!🤸🏿‍♀️

As females, yes we do have something kinks to work out within our community, as far as coming together to take over the world rather than being bitter at one another but for the most part we are the minority trying to be heard and understood.💁🏾‍♀️

But I’m here to tell you I hear you sis! And however you choose to express your feeling and thoughts....without harming yourself or others...DO IT! 🗣

And with this I leave you, sincerely,

Your favorite neighborhood blogger 🦖🤓