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i knew i was in love w him like basically right away. and. i knew each time we hung out. when someone would say something and remind me of him. when we became best friends and when we moved in together. but the only way i knew to love him was to be his friend and not try to make my feelings for him complicate his life. more than it already was. and now, he moved away. and the part of me i created to pretend i wasn't in love has nothing left but to convince me she was wrong to pretend</3. could it have been any other way? this way now i know that i can't just deny my heart. it's okay to feel this way, to be in love and still remain friends. i told him "i love you" a thousand times but only slipped in "i'm in love with you" a couple times. but i think he knows. no matter what he will always be a part of me and me a part of him. i'm so proud of him for making it out of here. all i want is to do the same. and love myself like he loves me. bc when i do i feel him right here beside me

amaraqwolf

Good news: if you’re currently laying around and not producing anything, you are a credit to your species.

curlicuecal

I’m an ant biologist and I’d like to point out that ants also spend a significant percentage of the time doing nothing.

Turns out sometimes the most evolutionary useful thing you can do is chill and not wear yourself to shreds, whether mammal or insect. It helps you deal with emergencies and adapt to change. Plus, you can act as living food storage!

That last part is probably more an ant thing than a human thing, but hey, live your dreams.

jumpingjacktrash

it’s also a bear thing, which absolutely explains me

gallusrostromegalus

Doing absolutely fuck-all is how antarctic sea sponges live to be over 10,000 years old, so live your best, longest, laziest life.

bloodcountessabendroth-deactiva

Hi, I'm 25 and debating starting male-to-female HRT. However, I'm scared that HRT won't help me at all. It seems like HRT does so little after puberty, especially by the time one gets in their 20s. I'm really scared that I'll just end up being someone in a male body, but with breasts. Is there anything you can say to someone having this fear? Thank you, and sorry, I suspect this is a silly question.

Actually, the claim that HRT doesn’t do much after puberty is a myth. I started when I was 31 years old and now I’m 35. =)

It’s never too late to transition!

lady-feral

Yeah, anon, have you seen my timeline? I started at 29.

It’s never too late.

transgirltumbling

Seriously, I transitioned at 39 and I’m 41 now. Hormones are magic whatever your age and while some things stay, many things change and it’s been totally worth it for me.

maikai-hoolilo-deactivated20200

OMG!!! I love seeing posts like this. The hope it inspires. especially in girls like me, is unprecedented. Thank you!

antiquityashley

Hope

themaddahlia-deactivated2023040

I felt the same way before I started transitioning and especially because I have a fair masculine build. But you know what I’ve learned from my experience so far? Fuck it! There is always hope and you could end up surprising yourself with the results.

djzoetrope-blog

I think results vary, I don’t see much difference between pre-hrt and 8 years on hrt

alexfromawen

Just adding another voice to the barrage: It. Is. Never. Too. Late!

The top two pictures are from 2011, age 32. The bottom three are from this yeah, 2016, age 37, and (almost) 2 years on hrt. Hrt is magic.

Never.

Too late.

iwant2bshiela-deactivated201610

REBLOGING!!! Always! Forever!

the-belfry-doll

Reblog to help someone find the courage uwu

alpacajess

Always reblog

nonbinary-dysphoria

Look at these amazing and brave women!!!! A reminder to all my followers, it’s not too late!! You can do it!!!!!

ewok-brock-blog

This is what I needed to see in my day ☺️ I’m only 23 but I think about making this change on a daily basis and it’s been 3 years since I’ve been thinking that. Hrt is in my future (:

misshorrorotaku-deactivated2024

Look at all these gorgeous women! <3

cloviepops

THIS is what i needed to be able to send to my struggling trans friends

tlhrfanfic

Id still like a ftm version of this post

politijohn

When we say abolish police, that also means take capitalism with it

anarchopuppy

The primary purpose of the police is to defend the owning class and capital. These companies are investing in the police because the police serve them directly

somethingaboutsomethingelse

Remember this everytime you see people attack retailers during riots and strikes. If you’re compelled to cry about ‘looters’, stop and shut your goddamn mouth instead.

Capitalism and state (the cops) are inextricably intertwined. You cannot be anti- one but pro- the other.

everythingfox

Suction cup boi

(via)

lezgem-deactivated20160104

I lose followers every time I say “trans women are women”

so I’m gonna keep saying it until I weed out all ya

lezgem-deactivated20160104

immediately lost two followers

audscratprophetlilith

I’d rather see my follower count drop than have anyone following who can’t handle the notion that TRANS WOMEN ARE WOMEN.

bumblebeerror

You can also leave if you can’t handle that trans men are Men.

ask-us-sanderssides

// I had a really stupid talk with someone from my uni recently and they didn’t believe me that trans men are men as well so I whoever thinks this isn’t true can leave

punkcupidz

YO WHAT THE FUCK I REBLOGGED THIS A LITTLE WHILE AGO AND LOST 3 FOLLOWERS WHAT THE HELL I’M FREAKING OUT THAT’S SO SHITTY

sapphiretheautisticenby

Trans women are women.

thequeerunicorn

TRANS WOMEN ARE WOMEN

theartofanimation

Francisco Fonseca - https://www.etsy.com/shop/FranciscoFonscaShop

daftalchemist

autism culture is seeing a post about ADHD culture that has a Very Relatable Feel but being unsure if you can reblog it because you don’t have ADHD

daftalchemist

we are all neurodivergent in this chilis tonight

rose-and-bones

Cousins! :D

sophus-b

Woo! Cousin high five! :D

this-glittering-world

There’s also the third participant in the handshake:

nemira-the-mercenary

If you Relate, or know someone that might Relate, reblog it. I don’t think it really matters if you have ADHD or are Autistic, chances are there’s a follower that is and might not have seen that post otherwise, and it might not make them feel so alone.

lunetta-suzie-jewel

I also think the two disorders aren’t mutually exclusive, right?

pascalcampion

In the dark I tend to wake up early because I like the dark. I tried making a little story to explain it. I love playing with sequential art. Not simply because I want to depict a sequence of event but mostly because I like trying to generate emotions through them. #pascalcampion

2019

yaxawa-archive-deactivated20201

Vegan’s are embarrassing in general but whites especially. When are you gonna acknowledge the like. disgusting working conditions of the people harvesting your stupid fucking organic bananas go die

frigbob

thats actually really funny bc organic bananas are more likely to be fair trade

but idk when are non vegans going to acknowledge they also eat produce? as WELL as supporting slaugherhouse work, which is the most dangerous in america, employing 38% immigrants, with 29.3% suffering injury or illness (compared to 9.7 in other sectors), often ptsd.

82% of starving children live in areas where livestock is raised and exported for western consumption. leather tanning is putting 1.8 million people directly at risk., primarily in india. human rights watch called factory farm working conditions ‘systematic human rights abuse’. 70% of recent human diseases are linked to animal agriculture.

don’t act like you actually care about human rights if you’re just using it to shit on vegans whilst completely ignoring and doing nothing about your own impact.

kiloueka

Do nonvegans just throw a dart at a list of plants and decide to get mad about whichever one it hits?

yizr

descent

arabian-batboy

This is how real change is made, through direct action.

commievoltie-deactivated2021070

Irish anti imperialists shutdown US air force base in Ireland in solidarity with Palestine and against US military presence in Ireland.

https://anti-imperialist-action-ireland.com/blog/2021/05/19/aia-shut-down-free-state-military-airport/

lagoonhag

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents

Lindsay C. Gibson

walkingbomb

reminder to:

straighten your back

go pee goddAMN IT STOP HOLDING IT

go take your meds if you need to

drink some water

go get a snack if you havent eaten in a while

maybe wander around the house/stretch a little if you’ve been sat at the computer a while (artists especially: sTRETCH THOSE WRISTS)

reply to that text/message from earlier you’d forgotten about

maybe send a nice lil message to someone having a bad day?

starrydanny

I just would like to thank everyone who ever reblogs this so that it somehow ends up back on my dash because I usually need the reminder (especially the drinking water one)

tol-critter

A reminder.