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Welcome to this-is-transandrophobia!

My name is Forest, I'm an intersex nonbinary trans man and my pronouns are he/they/bun.

I'm not the guy who originally made this blog (Husk or 🪼) I just inherited it fairly early on. It was originally inspired by the original and now deleted this-is-exorsexism and this-is-intersexism blogs, the replacements for which are tagged below.

Please let me know if I mess up somehow, I will rectify it immediately!! I'm autistic and will sometimes make the wrong call as to which asks should be answered.

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This blog talks about heavy and sometimes upsetting subjects, as well as 18+/kink topics occasionally. Things are tagged as needed.

This blog handles a lot of nuanced topics. Poor pissers will be blocked.

If you send in a screenshot, please crop out usernames. Screenshots in queue before this rule was implemented will be tagged but not censored bc I'm not sorting through 800 asks for that tbh.

While I occasionally respond to assholes, this blog is primarily an archive, not a debate blog.

Asks about various discourses will not be answered. Transandrophobia should not be considered discourse.

This blog is:

Pro Palestine

Pro kink

Anti censorship

Anti AI

Recommend blogs:

@thisisexorsexism

@is-this-intersexism

@this-is-saneism

@this-is-anti-romani

@this-is-orientalism

@this-is-latamphobia

@comprehensive-sex-ed

@isuggestcompassion

@poc-transmasc-culture

@former-incel

@this-is-trans-solidarity

@questionable-ftm-passing-advice

@questionable-mtf-passing-advice

@questionable-enby-passing-advice

@vinterfeminism

@this-is-intertransmisogyny

@trans-masc-culture-is

@this-is-poly-phobia

@thisisantisemitism

@this-is-trans-joy

@this-is-masculine-joy

@trans-joy-is

Common tags:

"#mod explains" for answering questions or informational posts

"#mod updates" for moderating info

"#mod lore" for info about me personally

"#reblogs" for the rare reblog

"#disk horse" for drama, recommend blocking

"#screenshots" for screenshots. Will usually also be tagged as:

"#no id" or "#id" depending on whether there is an alternative text available and/or:

"#censored" or "#uncensored" depending on whether usernames have been censored in some way.

"#kink" or "#18+" for related topics

"#vent" for vent like asks. This one is mostly vibes based, although some people do explicitly state that their ask is a vent.

"#long post" or "#very long post" for long or very long asks

"#pregnancy" for anything related to pregnancy

"#trans positivity" for positivity posts, often also tagged as:

"#this is solidarity" for solidarity asks

"#transandronoir" for anything specifically about the intersection of transandrophobia and anti-Black racism. Also see "#racism"

"#isuggestforcefem" for anything related to that blog

Trigger tags are formatted as "#tw [trigger]" If you would like me to add one please let me know.

Please let me know if a post is tagged incorrectly or is missing a tag.

TRANSMEDS AND RADQUEERS ARE NOT WELCOME HERE

I cannot believe this needs to be clarified but I have never supported harrassment.

Queue: 816

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transandrophobia is when my classmates kept asking me personal/uncomfortable questions about my body and also asking me if i was gonna get surgery

one of my classmates even asked if i had tits in the middle of math class

This is transandrophobia.

#transandrophobia #anti transmasculinity #transmisandry #transandromisia #this is transandrophobia #forest mod

forced to call myself a pretty girl while being sexually assaulted by a man targeting me for being visibly gnc

This is transandrophobia.

#transandrophobia #anti transmasculinity #transmisandry #transandromisia #this is transandrophobia #forest mod #tw sa

i always feel like whenever i talk about trans men, people make two assumptions:

if they’re 25+, trans men are “abusers”. somehow, being an adult and a trans men makes you an abuser in the patriarchy. a “traitor” to women, or a “faker” to men.

if they’re less than 25, trans men are “confused little girls”. because its impossible for a youth socially interpreted as feminine to make their own decisions. because its not permanent, its just a phase, its just a joke, its just “another trend”.

theres a lack of autonomy for trans men. either theyre demonized and told that anything they do is a threat, or they’re infantilized and silenced because they “arent real”.

its so hard to face in a world where the voices speaking against you are the loudest.

This is transandrophobia.

I just got an ask calling me misogynistic for “saying all men shouldn’t be killed” and then called privileged and walking proof that they should

I am openly a trans man on my blog.. (plus I never even interacted with.. such content nor commented that) and now I feel really bad about being a guy

This is transandrophobia.

#transandrophobia #anti transmasculinity #transmisandry #transandromisia #this is transandrophobia #forest mod

i don’t understand the pushback against using the word transandrophobia

why is it so horrible that a marginalized group is using a specific term to describe the specific kind of discrimination they face

This is, of course, transandrophobia.

#transandrophobia #anti transmasculinity #transmisandry #transandromisia #this is transandrophobia #forest mod

I have a trans femme friend who insists that transandrophobia is mainly in niche online spaces and doesn’t happen in real life. I don’t think it’s poorly intended she just doesn’t understand and it’s frustrating.

This is transandrophobia.

#transandrophobia #anti transmasculinity #transmisandry #this is transandrophobia #transandromisia #forest mod

there is a pretty popular post made by a non transmasc person going around talking about how "transandrobros sometimes actually accidentally stumble upon discrimination, but instead of using the name they've chosen to discuss it we should call it trans emasculation". SO YOU ADMIT IT. YOUR PROBLEM IS THAT YOU DON'T LIKE THE WORD WE USED TO NAME OUR OPPRESSION. HEY, WHY DO YOU GET TO CALL OUR OPPRESSION EMASCULATION, WHY DO YOU THINK THAT'S FUCKING OK. EMASCULATION IS ABOUT TAKING AWAY THE SUPPOSED VIRILITY OF A PERSON. MOST TRANSMASC PEOPLE HAVE NEVER HAD THAT PRIVILEGE, THEY AREN'T TAKING SOMETHING AWAY FROM US THEY ARE DENYING US RIGHTS. as a poc it's also pretty fucked up to use a term heavily associated with the forced castration of black men. like yeah maybe it sounds better to you but a) that's not what emasculation means and b) speaking over a minority asserting the language they created to talk about their oppression is wrong is disgusting

op acts like transmascs only problem is that we don't have the same power as cis men and completely ignores aspects like reproductive rights, fetishization, erasure, invisibility and access to gender affirming healthcare.

im so tired of people painting transmascs who want to advocate for their issues as whinny privileged boys and acting as if the second you come out as transmasc you are suddenly free from oppression. as if we didn't have to deal with the misogyny that affected us since birth and now a new layer of transandrophobia. as if being infantalized and treated like we're not mentally sound to participate in all social aspects was a small thing

This is transandrophobia.

#transandrophobia #anti transmasculinity #transmisandry #transandromisia #this is transandrophobia #forest mod

not sure if this counts but my dad after i came out as a demiboy and later trans guy saying "you can't be half a man" about being a demiboy and that if i wanted to be a man i would have to like. stop being such a wimp and stuff and i pointed out he was kind of pushing the agenda that he himself was traumatised by onto the next generation he sort of stopped. but i think it was only really cuz he was afraid i would tell my mom? sometimes he says stuff like "i know you don't want me to tell you how to be a man" and says a lot of stuff about like needing to man up if i wanna be a guy or whatever i dunno. he's been very supportive in everything about my transition (though both my parents still use they/them bc i came out as enby before transmasc and it's hard for them to switch) also he outs me to random people and sort of still sees me as a girl ex. when we were trying to find a guitar teacher there was apparently this lady who only taught girls and enby folks because she wasn't comfortable teaching guys and my dad was like "well they're actually born a girl so doesn't it count" and was shocked when the lady was like. yeah actually that's ? a boy ? and also introduces me with they/them to nearly every single new person which crushes my chance of passing as cis and i've mentioned multiple times how my pronouns are actually he/him and im pretty uncomfortable being called they idk sorry for the run on sentences and rant im very sorry

This is transandrophobia and exorsexism

#transandrophobia #anti transmasculinity #transmisandry #this is transandrophobia #transandromisia #forest mod #exorsexism

i came across an "intersectional feminism" forum that i thought was cool at first because majoruty of the members support palestine and uplift black and global south women but it was just another women+"women-lites"-only group; one of the top posters on there is a radfem. the group claims to love enbies but would ban "masc-looking" amab enbies. two months ago, someone posted a video of this one lady explaining that saying that men cant have periods/get pregnant is transphobic and exclusive (which it is) and oh my god the comment section was a whole terf brigade. "intersectional" my ass.

This is transandrophobia.

#transandrophobia #anti transmasculinity #transmisandry #this is transandrophobia #transandromisia #forest mod

my ex-friend vaguely praising charlie kirk, referring to my binder as a bra, and calling my also openly transmasc boyfriend my girlfriend

This is transandrophobia.

#transandrophobia #anti transmasculinity #transmisandry #this is transandrophobia #transandromisia #forest mod

I posted smth about supporting trans men (as I am one) and acknowledging transandrophobia and immediately got called a “transmisogynist chud”. Keep in mind I had put the fact that I support trans women and acknowledged transmisogyny in the same post. Yay… /sar

This is transandrophobia.

#transandrophobia #anti transmasculinity #transmisandry #transandromisia #this is transandrophobia #forest mod

found a comic of someone retelling a conversation they had with their partner about trans men and the incel pipeline, basically saying that trans men who want to be masculine and get dysphoria from being short, not passing, etc are incels? They literally said “you don’t have to hate women to be an incel” WHAT ??

(💿 so I can find this later)

This is transandrophobia.

For those who want to learn about the *actual* incel pipeline, and how to get out of it, I reccomend the blog @former-incel

#transandrophobia #anti transmasculinity #transmisandry #this is transandrophobia #transandromisia #forest mod

I feel like a gender-trader. I feel like I'm a horrible, disgusting person for being a transmasc. I'm a man that has abandoned being a woman and I am monster for doing so.

and I hate that I think that. I'm a masc and I love being masc. and I don't wanna feel like a monster for being happy.

This is internalized transandrophobia.

#transandrophobia #anti transmasculinity #transmisandry #this is transandrophobia #transandromisia #forest mod #vent

the argument that testosterone is a poison and makes you more aggressive/monstrous or whatever has never sat right with me because it genuinely is basic biology that everyone has some level of testosterone in their body unless they have a specific intersex variation that nullifies that fact, so pericis women and peritrans women and perinonbinary people and pericis men and peritrans men and most intersex people have testosterone in their bodies. it's not poison, it's literally just a hormone

but wait I forgot. if you can't ascribe morality to hormones, how are you going to be able to let people get away with their personal moral failings by throwing your hands up and saying their violence is innate and thus the only way to solve it is to exterminate the perpetrator and others like it regardless of whether or not they themselves are violent?

This is transandrophobia.

#transandrophobia #anti transmasculinity #transmisandry #this is transandrophobia #transandromisia #forest mod

My parents know I’m trans and I cut my hair and they took all my masc clothes that hide my chest (I’ve figured out ways around it) and say I’m “Only saying I’m a boy because I’m a confused tomboy and autistic” (I do have a diagnosis, so) I know for a fact I’m not a tomboy because I know I’m a guy but they keep saying I’m just a tomboy who wants to be rebellious

This is transandrophobia and ableism.

#transandrophobia #anti transmasculinity #transmisandry #transandromisia #this is transandrophobia #forest mod #ableism

Transandrophobia is this interaction I just had with a stranger on Tumblr who disrespected my whole post and my whole experience in a reblog and then in comments. It also has some ableism / psychophobia going on (CW r-word) but I thought not "enough" for this to be submitted at an another "this is" blog. I'm sorry if this takes some time to read, their name is made invisible and all medias are id in alt text.

I reblogged right after with "I'm asking for respect from the community I'm a part of." or something along the lines but I wasn't able to have it in the screenshot. Then, after that, this blog went to my comments :

I don't plan of deleting this post so no matter when this ask is posted you can look for it on my blog and see it for yourself. Thank you :)

This is transandrophobia.

#transandrophobia #anti transmasculinity #transmisandry #this is transandrophobia #transandromisia #forest mod #screenshot #censored #no id

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