To the moon and back

[thisbittersweetheart]

Go for it!

So I have been inactive for a while and sorry about that i guess I just kind of grew out of tumblr. I wanted to say thank you to all those who shared their support and love with my account, im not actually sure if much of my followers are active but if so i hope you are all well :)

If you are still reading I would like to tell you a story as a last post on this account sort of thing... I started this account around 2015 to put my feelings of a crush out into the world for others to relate to, that crush didn’t like me back and that was okay, sure i was hurt about it for a long time but i moved on. I ended up meeting another guy in mid 2016, he was friends of a friend and we start all playing video games together. I started writing about him as I grew feelings, these feelings were a lot stronger which made it scary because I didnt want to get hurt again. We both put ourselves out there eventually and that was the beginning of our relationship, now relationships are tricky but so perfect if the time and effort is put into it. Its 2020 now and still with him and incredibly happy.

I just wanted to take the time to tell anyone who needs to hear this, if there is someone you like... go for it. Life is too short to lose time that could be spent with them. 

You have the strength to tell them but also please know your worth. Taking a risk is scary but if it works out then all is well but if it doesn't work out with them you will find another. Love is everywhere, it can be a friend, a neighbour or someone miles and miles away. You have the ability to find love, you deserve it. Take the leap, find your love, tell them your feelings, tell them over and over again when you are with them, don’t let them forget it. 

Life is full of spectacular moments, make them happen.

[unforgetable-words]

“He never wanted to be away from her”

- She had the spark of life

[firstlovesuggestions]

I’d give anything to feel your arms around me right now.

[thisbittersweetheart]

There's this girl I met online three years ago, we met in person last year but were only together for one day. I'm going to fly out to see her in 47 days and stay with her for 5 days. I am so in love with her but we are just best friends. Sometimes she says things that make me believe she wants more, what do I do, should I try to "make a move" when I see her in person?? Please help me x

If you think there is a chance she has feelings back you could try letting her know, but you also need to be aware that there is a chance she may not feel that way. Being in love with someone is big, i feel it is best to go for it because why would you want to not use the time you have now to be with the one you love? But in the end its truly up to you and what you are prepared for to happen. I wish you well :) 

[for-him-diaries]

You see, sometimes, it doesn’t make much sense at all. Sometimes, you just stare into a pair of eyes and just know that you’re home.

P.G.G (via for-him-diaries)

[heavensghost]

Flashlight - the front bottoms

[leohearts]

When I close my eyes, I see you. When I open my eyes, I miss you.

(via leohearts)

[for-him-diaries]

I think you’ll always be the hardest thought to get off my mind.

P.G.G (via for-him-diaries)

[thisbittersweetheart]

Hi!! So I have a crush on this guy. I’m an introvert who has never dated before. I want to do something about this crush and I know talking to him is the way to go but I’m such an introvert. Can you give advise on what babysteps I can take? Thank you!

I understand your struggle, im also an introvert. Best advice from me is small talk, sometimes talking online makes it easier also as you dont have to freak out being face to face so try do that. As you get closer try some light physical touch whether that be a hand on the arm or leaning yourself gently on them- shoulder to shoulder (of course if they seem uncomfortable then stop with your actiona) but yes try these things and i wish you the best!!

[thisbittersweetheart]

Is it possible to call someone a crush if you just met them and like kinda talked to them?

Yes!! I’ve experienced crushes where i haven't even talked to the guy, completely possible. Its when you get to know them when your crush develops into something deeper :) 

[thisbittersweetheart]

My love for you has never and will never stop growing.

[justs0meth0ughts]

You’re all I can think about

[teenagecrush]

[thisbittersweetheart]

Hi!!😆 So I've had a crush on this guy for abt 2 months now, and it's very confusing because he has a very flirty/funny personality so I can't tell if he's flirting with me or just being himself. And like some days he will talk to me all day and others he will act like I don't exist. I have no idea what we are so I'm really confused and I'm shy so I don't know what to say to him or what to do. Any advice???

When he acts flirty you should try do something similar back to see how he reacts. On the days it seems like he isnt acknowledging you, you could try strike a conversation with him yourself or you could just give him some space and see if he comes to you to talk. Hope this helps in some way, good luck!

[unsaidhabits]

“I caught your eyes across the room and I don’t want to ever let it go”

[thisbittersweetheart]

Okay so I'm really confused with this guy, he's been my crush for the entire year now and most days he is always around me//looking at me like ALL THE TIME but then other days he doesn't look at me at all and is completely oblivious too me? I'm getting this weird vibe about him that he's different but I don't know why. HALPPPPP!!! What does this all mean help ya confused girl out xx

First, if its most days he looks and is around you i would take that as a good thing, those days he doesn't he could just not actually see you in those moments maybe? You should try talking to him if you dint already see what happens there.

[thisbittersweetheart]

Have you ever met someone with so much common interests you feel an instant connection? Then you guys don't speak for weeks and everything fades into nothing.

Yes in a way. You should talk to them again though, its always great to have a connection with someone :)