with all i am seeing on facebook about ally newbold and daisy fest - i thought i would share my story.
i knew ally when she lived back in florida. we were part of the same social circle. she was very well known, for many different reasons. i had hung out with her a couple times in groups, at parties and gatherings and shows, and every time was uncomfortable. she had always been very mean to me, although i was always nothing but nice to her. i am bigender and prefer to be referred to and recognized as a female and its been this way since i was in grade school. i was born female and have overwhelming amounts of testosterone in my body. ally was the first person to point out to my friends and even some acquaintances that i grow facial hair. she had referred to me, on more than one occasion, as a “he/she” and a “tranny”. it was very hurtful and people recognized this. she started to become less and less liked, so she did something crazy to up her game. she told a lot of her friends, (i even heard this myself), that she only does what she does and hangs out with bands to “rape them”. she had repeatedly bragged about “raping” soupy campbell, explaining in detail how “easy” he was. i don’t know if she actually did any of this, which is why i am quoting it, and wouldn’t want to confirm any of this, just bring light to what she was bragging about and saying. she had said she was going to see how many band guys she could “rape” and had went on to say that it “shouldn’t be a problem” because of her looks. i don’t know what she was looking to gain out of this, but she definitely lost a lot of friends and had to start hanging out with other problematic people. i had been seeing a friend of hers when i was younger and he was much older than me. i was a virgin at the time and he had asked her advice on how to deal with me not being sexually experienced. he said he wasn’t comfortable discussing it with me. she had laughed about the situation, calling him a “pussy”, and told him to break my hymen in my sleep. she pretty much taunted him because he would not rape me. she is an awful person and her problematic bullshit is the reason she had to move out of florida. it has hurt me for a very long time that so many people support her photography and spend time with her and praise everything she does. i saw that she had recently got into an accident and requested money to pay her medical bills. i would never wish pain and suffering upon somebody, but it upsets me that so many people gave money to a bully and a self-proclaimed rapist. please stop supporting ally newbold. please stop making her feel like she is an okay person. please stop being her friend. stop having her around.