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Simple question: I'm going on a date with a guy from school. We talk a little at school, but not that much. What if things get awkward?

Just remember that you have billions of things to talk about. You could ask him if he's signing up for the dodgeball tournament. Ask him what classes he's taking next year, ask him about music he likes, bring up something you talked about before even! Think about events you know are coming up at school, or other places you know he goes, and asl him questions about things he's talking about. He'll like that you're interested.

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I have this ex I've literally not spoken to in three years but I can't get him out of my head and it's driving me crazy and I can't even talk to anyone about it because they'll think it's weird to still obsess over an ex from so long ago that I don't even talk to but I have to see him everyday and more often recently and I don't know how much longer I can take this why can't I get over it/him

Consider the reasons why your relationship ended in the first place. Do you actually want to do that again? If you really still have feelings for him, maybe you should start talking to him again. People change in 3 years. You're relationship could be completely different this time around. If you DO NOT want to try that all over again, you might want to make yourself a list of reasons why you're going to move on.

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Theres this girl in my classes who just wont leav e me alone. She finds reasons why shes better than me. like one day she asked me if I had a cell phone and I was like oh I have this little fpip phone. and she was like oh! really? and i just know she probably went and told all her friemds i cant afford a phone or something. she also purposely tries to disclude me because shes in my lab group for science she "forgets" to put my name on our labs we turn in. What do i doabout her?

The best thing to do? Act so sickingly sweet to her that she won't want to say anything. That can be hard though when someone's a total beyotch. You don't have anything to prove to her. When she does things like ask you about your little flip phone and then probably go off and talk with her friends about how you aren't "cool" because you don't have the newest iPhone, let it go. You don't want to be friends with her or her clique, so why do you can what they think? They're so insecure that they have to make fun of you because of your PHONE? Don't worry your pretty little head about insecure morons like her. As for your science labs, you could always just say to your teacher after class something along the lines of "Brittany and I don't get along very well, and I was wondering if it would be possible for me to switch lab groups." Even if your teacher says no, most teachers switch seats every quarter anyway. You could always bring this up to a principal or guidance counselor if she is purposely leaving you off of a lab. That could harm your grade. Over all, if you make her feel silly for what's she's doing, then she won't want to do it anymore!

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How do I tell my parents I got a boyfriend? (I'm a girl btw) I've never told them before when I jad a bf because they were those little kid relationships where you saw each other in school and texted or called each other if you both had cell phones. This is a more serious high school relationship. I don't want to freak him out by telling my parents about our first date. We're just going to the movies and mini golf if it's nice outside. I don't want to lie to my parents though!

He won't be freaked out of you just tell them. Telling them you have a date doesn't mean he's now obligated to sit down for a two-hour dinner with them. You tell your parents what you're doing when you go out with you friends, so do the same here! They'll probably ask questions like, "Is he a gentleman?" (Yes) of course if they haven't met him before they may want to meet him briefly before you leave for your date. Give him fair warning if they do, and you'll have the excuse of making sure you get a good parking spot/good seats/aren't late for your show time etc. to get him away from them if it gets uncomfortable.

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Up All Night (I'm not in a boyband either)

I'm also up really late on weekends and holidays, so I'll get you questions :) It's 5:58 am right now, and I got up at 7:30 today. Whoops. I get up for school at 5:35 and I feel more tired than this. Stupid insomnia. OH YEAH, ASK ME QUESTIONS, ADVICE, ANYTHING.

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HELLO

This is my new second blog. I'll give you advice on anything. If you just want someone to talk to, that's cool too. Also, I promise not to be racist, homophobic, or force religious beliefs on anyone. So ask or submit about anything: Crazy parents, relationships, school, bullying, self image, etc.