Welcome To The Shit Show

Sharing my chaotic life one blog post at a time

[diesetdown]

[marlbororeds100s-deactivated202]

i find it absolutely hilarious when brands sell “grunge” fashion (raggedy flannels, ripped jeans, etc.) when that look originated from grunge band members being dirt poor and buying everything from goodwill and salvation army

[marlbororeds100s-deactivated202]

this post is from oct 30 2017 and i still agree why are rich people like this

[yekkes]

Also the fashion was started by lesbians. Courtney Love once said Kurt Cobain just started dressing like her lesbian friends and that’s when it blew up

[rickriordanrevamp]

Dirt poor lesbians are the real trend setters send tweet

[halloweencrafts]

DIY Leather Bat Bow Tie with Template

All of these bow ties can do double duty as hair ties or additions to headbands.

Find this Bow Tie Tutorial from A Crafty Gentleman here.

More Bat Bow Ties from the Archive

DIY Crochet Bat Bow Tie Tutorial and Free Pattern from Good Knits here.

BUY or DIY: $9 Jack Skellington Bow Tie from Magical Ribbons.

DIY Halloween Felt Bat Bow Tie Tutorial with Template from wear the canvas here.

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me: let’s get this done

my adhd brain:

[lustik]

Photos by Miles Herbert, Matt Binstead. Via 41 Strange

[vantasticmess]

shoutout to the adhd people who did well in school for years but suddenly crashed and burned when the responsibilities outweighed their coping skills

shoutout to the adhd people who couldn’t finish college

shoutout to the adhd people who do great work but lose their jobs because of poor time managment

shoutout to the adhd people who don’t lose their jobs but can never advance because of their inconsistent performance

shoutout to the adhd people who want more work responsibilities but are afraid of what will happen when they inevitably make a careless mistake or their inattention leads something important to be forgotten

shoutout to the adhd people who have damaged their credit rating by forgetting to pay bills or return library books

shoutout to the adhd people who work their ass off every day but never know if the results will be stellar, average, or terrible

shoutout to the adhd people who have done just well enough to go most of their lives knowing something was wrong, but figuring they just needed to work harder to fix it.

[bigbadbrainblog]

someone: i noticed you’re not doing so good do you want to talk?

me, in desperate need to talk, but unable to ask for help anymore due to the bad things that happened in the past when i have asked for help: no i’m okay thanks though! :)

[ham4harrypotter-blog]

Way too many parents need to learn the difference between “a child being disrespectful” and “a human person expressing an opinion that differs from theirs”

[jumpingjacktrash]

my mom had a nice technique for this. when i’d give her sass, she’d say, “i don’t speak rude, what’s that in polite-person-ese?”

basically, she’d encourage me to rephrase my opinion without the attitude. so “UGH, you NEVER let me do ANYTHING!” would (often after quite a bit of bitching and grumbling) turn into “it feels like every time i have a fun idea, you say no, and i just end up sitting around the house.”

and at that point we could troubleshoot like civilized people. she could explain that she didn’t want me to go to jimmy’s sleepover because jimmy’s dad creeps her out, and i could suggest maybe i could have andy over instead, and she could say sure, why not call peter and stacy and brianna and have your own party, i’ll pop some popcorn and rent a movie, and i could add what if we put up tents in the back yard and have a bonfire and roast marshmallows, and she could laugh and say don’t push it.

[hermioneindisguise]

I really like this technique because it addresses the OPs comment but recognizes that the two can coexist. The problem is often the child is expressing their opinion in a rude or disrespectful way. And as humans we automatically become adverse to opinions we feel are aggressive toward us.

[sixpenceee]

Mental illnesses or disorders sketched by Shawn Coss for Inktober. 

[tinifingies93]

Anyone want to flirt with me?

[tinifingies93]

Of course you’re cute!

Awww thanks if you weren’t on anon I’d be able to say the same!

[tinifingies93]

I’m officially single now. Anyone want to come forth and tell me I’m cute? No? Ok.

[zombiemacguire-deactivated20131]

when straight guys ask how lesbian sex works i feel really bad for their girlfriends because if you dont understand how to have sex with a girl in any way other than repeatedly putting your dick in her you are having some really bad sex

[veepoe]

I want to reblog this 100 times but I’ll just do it once

[flamestodustt-deactivated202104]

It takes a lot of strength to accept that there are some things you just can’t fix. You have to let it be. What’s broken will always be broken.

A, Broken

[niightmareish]

I really want to run away from here, for good. But I can’t, I can’t and i don’t know what to do, I wish I could talk to someone here, but no one would listen. They wouldn’t understand. They’d tell me I’m stupid and to get a grip, I swear when I hear those words my blood boils. I don’t have anybody or anywhere I could run anyway to. I’m stuck.

[why-am-i-alive-world-deactivate]

[niightmareish]

who’s staring back at me in the mirror that’s not me it can’t be me