Naulit na naman ang mga away natin. Simpleng bagay lumaki ng ganito. Oo nga pala, tahimik na mundo ang gusto mo. Yung wala ako.
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@tinnnnne
Naulit na naman ang mga away natin. Simpleng bagay lumaki ng ganito. Oo nga pala, tahimik na mundo ang gusto mo. Yung wala ako.
not everything you give will echo back to you. not every act of love, kindness or presence will be seen, named or remembered, but that doesn't make it any less real. you won't always see the ripple. you won't always get the confirmation. but that doesn't mean your light isn't working. it just means your impact is bigger than you can see. you may never know who made it safely to the shore because of you, but someone did. someone always does 🌟⛵️🌊💌🌻
My little family. Ipinagdarasal ko na humaba ang aking buhay para makita ko ang paglaki ng anak ko. Mahal na mahal ko kayo.
To A:
Nakita ko nagsearch ka pala ng "Miserable Marriage/Unhappy husband/Miserable Husband" sa google last August 13 nung nag-away tayo. I'm sorry A, sorry kung yan yung nararamdaman mo sakin. Sorry kung hindi ka masaya. Nag search ka rin ng "Signs of unhappy husband/Why do husband checks on sexy girls". Di ko alam na nagsi-search ka pa pala para maintindihan mo ang sitwasyon natin o naghahanap ka ng valid reasons kung tama ba to sa isang relasyon. Alam ko rin na nag search ka ng "Boundaries".
Sorry kung sobrang pakelamera ko sa buhay mo. Gusto ko lang naman maging open tayo sa isa't isa. Gusto ko pumasok sa mundo mo. Mali yon na magcheck ako sa mga activities mo sa social media. Sa part na yun, dinisrespect na kita at dapat nga lang na mag set tayo ng boundaries dahil masyado na nga kong usyoso. Asawa mo ko pero parang wala dapat akong karapatang panghimasukan ka sa mga ginagawa mo.
Pasensya ka na, kasi nafi-feel ko na hindi ako yung babae o asawa na in lign sa gusto mo. Hindi ko nami-meet yung expectations mo. Hindi man lang kasing level ng katawan ng mga babaeng sinisearch mo/pinapanood mo sa social media ang katawan ko. Since manganak ako, ibang iba na ang katawan ko kaya I feel sorry to myself. Alam ko na ang gagawin ko A. I hope maging masaya ka sa endeavors mo sa buhay. Let's be civil for the sake of our family and for our children.
August 24-25, 2024
24 - Wala masyadong ganap dahil nasa bahay lang naman. Nagluto ng ulam si A dahil may nagbigay ng isda, ginawa niyang ginataang kineme. Umalis sila ni Cai para pumunta sa kameeting niya sa work, inuwian kami ng Jollibee, nagluto ko pasta addition lang for miryenda ng kids at early dinner na rin. Hapunan yung ginataan pa rin.
25 - Pinlano namin kumain sa Above C Level dahil huling kain daw ni A roon sa Quezon Province pa raw kasama kawork niya before. Dahil magbbirthday na rin naman siya sa 29 at meron timing na banner sa restaurant, pumwesto na kami doon na table.
Insecurities ko ang lala na naman. Look how old I look. Grabe, napakanget kong tignan. Kitang kita ang jacket kong ngipin sa picture dahil naninilaw. 😭
Turning 30 na kami this year ng asawa ko. Advance celebration namin ng birthday niya. Thank you Lord. Na-extend pa ang aking buhay para makasama ko ang pamilya ko. Forever grateful at sana gabayan mo po kami Lord ng asawa ko sa journey namin. 🙏
August 23, 2024
Nagbabalik sa pagra-rant dito sa tumblr world. Hi! This would be my online diary again.
LIFE UPDATE.
Married with my high school lover. We are blessed to have two kids, a boy (gave birth on 2017) and a girl (gave birth on 2020, pandemic baby). We had a roller coaster relationship and still hanging in there to forever. Daming ganap in life. Currently on leave due to appendectomy operation last July 17 and will be back on September 2. Pangalawang surgery na sa buhay. I gave birth on my 2nd child through CS delivery and this year, my appendix was removed. I believe that all what's happening in my life are already written and yeah, this is my journey. This is just a phase where I should keep on fighting! So life must go on and hang in there self.
always procrastinating and brain rotting and not making a good use of my time
That is a great question, ____, it is important to know what to expect from your service so you can get the most our of your Verizon Unlimited Plan. When it comes to the data usage, each line will have its own Unlimited Service. Keep in mind that if all the lines use all the 4GLTE data and are in a congested area, the speeds may slow down for all the lines. Does this information help?
We want to make sure you are all set with your billing. With regard to charges, you may have been charged $___ for an activation or upgrade fee. Did you recently upgrade your phone or make any recent changes on your bill? You can also view this information on your bill using your My Verizon account online.
BILLING
When does your billing cycle end? When did you make the change to your account? Did you switch a multiple line account to the new Verizon Plan with Unlimited data? Did you choose to make the change take effect at the beginning of your current billing cycle?
IF you make a change to your account to the new unlimited data option on a multiple line plan in the middle of your billing cycle and choose to have that change take effect at the beginning of your current billing cycle, there would be a one time fee of $110 for the use of unlimited data during your current billing cycle. To offset all or a portion of this one time fee, there would also be a one time credit for the cost of your previous data plan. This is so you won't be double billed for data during the current month.
For example:
Your billing cycle goes from May 25 thru June 24. You have already been charged for service for that time period.
Last month's bill(for service from May 25 thru June 24) has a charge for a full month(May 25 thru June 24) of your old data plan.
Your new bill(for service from June 25 thru July 24) would have a credit for a full month(May 25 thru June 24) of your old data plan.(i.e. you have NOW not paid for data for that month)
Your new bill(for service from June 25 thru July 24) would have a one time charge for a full month(June 25 thru July 24) of unlimited data in your CURRENT billing cycle.(i.e. you have NOW paid for ONLY the unlimited data in your current billing cycle)
The 2 previous charges indicate a CHANGE in your data plan, giving you a credit for your old plan for which you had already been charged and a charge for your new data plan which you are currently using.
Your new bill(for service from June 25 thru July 24) will ALSO have your regular recurring monthly charge for your new data plan for your next billing cycle.
NO LONGER WITH VZN
We are all ears here and ready to listen. It sadden us to see that you are no longer with our VZN family but we will always welcome you back. Hearing about your final statement does not sound like a pleasant experience and would like to help clear the air. For better assistance, may I know who I am speaking with?
We are very sorry to hear about the experiences you've had when reaching out for support and any issues related to a device and your monthly recurring charges. We certainly want to assist further in every way that we can with the inquiries that you have. So that we are updated, can you please share more details regarding your inquiry involving a device that was returned or traded in etc.?
Thank you for bringing this to our attention. We understand your concern and I want to help in the best way I can. To better assist you, may I know your full name and mobile device number please?
UNLOCKED DEVICE
Good question, we want to provide you with the correct information, while your device maybe unlocked, it may not be compatible with our network. This is the reason we ask our customers to check using our tools online for their device compatibility.
Starting a chat
Hello John! How are you doing?
Hello John, thank you for chatting with us. How may I help you?
Perfect, I am really glad to hear that! How may I help you today?
I am really sorry to hear that. Is there anything I can do to help you?
Hello Mary. I understand the concern and will be happy to help you. Let us see what I can do.
May I have your name please?
Good day, thank you for reaching out to (company name) customer service. My name is (name). What can I do for you today?
CALL // Hello, thank you for calling (company name). You’re speaking to (agent name). How can I help you?
Repeating Visitor // Welcome back (customer name)! Is everything okay with your (previously solved problematic situation)? How can I help you today?
Hello (customer name)! Happy to see you again! What can I do to help you today?
Nice to see you again, (customer name)! How can we help you this time?
Asking for more information
Let me check that I have this right…
Let me see if I have this correct, you want me to…or You would like for me to…?
If I understand you correctly…
Tell me more about…
So you are saying that…correct?
This is what I understand you are telling me…
1. general information
Would you mind us verifying some of your information?
Before we proceed, we will need to collect some additional info, if you do not mind.
2. information verification
To help me verify your identity, I need you to type the mobile device number before we proceed.
To help me verify your identity, I need you to type the phone number attached to your account before we proceed.
To proceed with the account verification process, I will need either your date of birth or last for digits of your social security number.
Before we start looking at your account information, could you please verify your birth date for me.
How about your mobile device number?
Can you please tell me your account PIN?
Can you please share your account number listed on the bill?
Please verify your date of birth for us to track your account information faster.
address information
Would you mind confirming your current billing address?
Can you please tell me your current account zip code?
Can you please verify your location/address before we proceed to check where your order is pending?
Would it be possible for you to share your billing address?
To help me track your order instantly, please provide me your current billing location.
sensitive information
Could you provide me with your credit card details so that I can place your order?
May I please have your full credit card number with its security code and expiration date?
How to say "I don't know"
That is a good question, let me find out for you.
I am not sure, but let me find out for you.
I am sorry, I do not have the information on that. May I put you on hold for a few minutes? I will clarify this with our manager.
I am sorry, I do not have the information on that. May I have your email/phone number? I will find this out with our accounting department and get back to you shortly.
I am sorry, this question would be out of my expertise, but Daniel from the tech support department will be able to help you. Would you like me to connect you with him?
Explaining that chat may be recorded
I want to inform you that our conversation may be monitored or reviewed for quality assurance.
To make sure you’re having impeccable customer service experience, we may review this chat session for training purposes.
We want to point out that (company name) may review this chat to help improve your experience.
How to transfer
1. different department
Jerry, I am going to connect you with Steve from the shipping department. He will be able to help you with this problem.
Jerry, let me transfer you to the marketing department. Steve will be able to answer your question.
I am really sorry but our department may not be able to help you with that. Would it be okay if I transferred you to my colleagues who can handle that request?
(Customer name), let me transfer you to (department name). They will be able to provide the best solution.
I apologize for this inconvenience but our department does not have that type of information. Would you mind us transferring you to the relevant department?
Unfortunately, I am not equipped to help you with that issue but I can transfer you to my colleague specialized for handling this type of request. Would you like that?
Please hold on, I’ll connect you with (agent name) from (department name) in no time.
Would you please hold for a moment? I’m transferring you to the right person.
2. higher-level operators
I’d really like to help you solve this issue but your request is out of the scope of my responsibilities. Would you like me to connect you with my supervisor?
I am sorry but I first have to check with my manager if I can handle this request.
I may not be able to do anything for you regarding this issue but I can transfer you to a supervisor who may be able to fix it.
3. customer wants to speak to specific agent
positive reply
Sure, I’ll transfer you to (agent name) in a moment.
Can I place your call on hold, (agent name) will be with you in a moment?
negative reply
Unfortunately, (agent name) is not available at the moment. Can I help you out with anything today?
How to put on hold
Would you mind me putting you on hold for a moment?
Would you mind holding on for a few minutes while I am checking this with our administrator?
May I put your chat/call on hold while I am checking your order/bill?
May I put your call on hold while I check this for you?
Is it alright if I put you on hold until we have that information reviewed?
If you don’t mind me putting you on hold, I’ll be with you with the requested information in a moment.
Can I put you on hold for a moment?
If you feel resolution will take a longer time:
Jan, I will need to put you on hold for a few minutes to run a few tests and see if I can reproduce the problem. Would that be ok with you or would you prefer I call/email you back with the details?
When the customer is waiting for too long:
I am sorry to keep you waiting. I have managed to reproduce the problem. Here is what needs to be done to fix it.
Say thanks for waiting
Thank you for waiting/holding. I have the details of your latest payment, let me send it over to you.
Sorry about the wait and thank you for holding.
We apologize for keeping you waiting. I’m (agent’s name) and I’m ready to help you.
Thank you for your time and sorry for the wait. How can I help you?
How to apologize
1. for a problematic situation
(Customer name), I’m so sorry you have to deal with this problem. Let me check if I can fix it.
We’re really sad about your negative experience. Tell me what happened and I’ll do my best to make things right.
I understand how you feel and I’m deeply sorry about it. I’ll forward your request to the responsible officer right away and try to correct this as soon as possible.
2. for being unable to meet the request
I really want to help you out with this issue, but I am not able to fulfill that request at this moment. If there is anything else I can do for you, just let me know.
We are sorry, but right now we may not be able help you out with that as your request is beyond the scope of our support possibilities.
3. providing alternate options
While I can’t help you out with that specific issue, I would be happy to recommend a suitable alternative.
I am highly convinced that your issue can be easily fixed if you try some of these options instead: …
May I recommend you try one of the following solutions as an alternative?
reviewing options
If you need any help choosing the right option for you, do not hesitate to contact us.
We know that our website offers a lot of choices. Can we help you make the right decision?
Do you want us to tell you more about our best offers?
If you tell us a bit more about what you are looking for, we will gladly help you out.
Recognizing when customer needs help
Hi there, do you need some help finding what you need?
Looking for something? Let us know if we can help you find anything.
It seems like you reviewed your shopping cart a while ago. Do you want to check-out, or do you need help finding something else?
Unresponsive customer
Still there? It is been a while since your last message. Do you want to continue chatting?
It seems like you have been inactive for a while. Is there anything we can do to help you out?
It seems like you have been inactive for a few minutes. Can we help you navigate our website?
John, we have just noticed you have been inactive for a while. If you need some help to navigate our website, don’t hesitate to contact our live chat support.
Communicating Sales and Promotion
1. active promotion
Hi, we just wanted to let you know that we are offering a discount on (product name). Let us know if you’re interested in this deal!
It looks like you are about to check out. Before you do it, check out this limited-time deal that we are offering exclusively to you!
John, did you know that (product name) is on sale at the moment? Check out this offer if you want to save a few dollars.
2. inactive promotions
We are sorry, this offer is no longer active. If you want to check some other awesome promotions, check this out.
Unfortunately, the time limit on that offer has expired. Do you want to check out some other great promotions we have prepared for you?
Sorry, that product is out of stock, but I can suggest other attractive specials available at this moment.
Offer Items Frequently Purchased Together
If you are purchasing (Product 1), we would suggest you also check out (Product 2).
Many customers who have bought (Product 1) have also bought (Product 2). Do you want to check it out?
You have just purchased (Product 1 name). It’s a perfect choice! Would you like to complement it with (Product 2 name)?
Purchasing and Shipping Options
At this moment, you have got (number) items in your cart and your balance is (total).
Great news! Since your cart value is over (number), you have got a special discount.
The shipment options you can choose from are (Option 1), (Option 2), …
The estimated delivery date for your offer is (insert estimated date).
We expect your order to arrive within (the number of days).
Awesome news! Your order is (total), which qualifies you for free shipping!
How to admit fault
Rob, I’m sorry, I made a mistake and gave you the wrong price for this item. The correct price is…
John, I’m sorry, we made a mistake and sent the invoice to the wrong email address, which is why you did not receive it. We are going to resend it now to the correct address and add a few more days to your subscription to make up for our error.
How to say "No"
I’m sorry, Joan is not available right now. May I help you with something?
I am sorry, we cannot lower the price for this item any further, but we have a similar product which is priced cheaper because it doesn’t have the built-in face recognition. Would you be interested to take a look at it?
I am sorry, we do not have this feature at moment. We do intend to add it to our service and we can notify you when it has been done. Would you like to receive an email update?
How to follow up
Rob, I just wanted to let you know that we are still investigating the problem. We don’t have a solution yet. I will email you as soon as we have found the bug.
Jerry, we haven’t been able to complete the transition of your account yet due to a small database issue on our server. We are fixing this now and hope to have everything ready for you by tomorrow. We will keep you posted.
Hello Tom. I’m sorry we have missed your chat. Is there anything we can help you with?
How to handle complaints and angry customers
I am really sorry this has happened. Let me see if I can find a solution to it.
I am really sorry about that. Tell me what happened.
I am sorry you are having this problem. Let us see if there is anything we can do to help the situation.
I am sorry you are not happy with our product/with your purchase. Let us see what we can do to make things right.
I am sorry you didn not receive your purchase on time. Let me find out what I can do to make it up to you.
I am sorry this has happened. I understand your frustration, and I will do my best to help you.
How to deliver on a promise
We could not have promised anything like that.
Let me put you on hold for just a few moments and verify this information.
If I understand you correctly, you were promised… It appears there has been a mistake. Let’s figure out how we can resolve this.
How to handle several clients simultaneously
Jerry, let me review your transaction history. Please bear with me for a few more minutes.
I am sorry for the delay on my part. I am pulling up your account details. Please allow me another minute. I’ll be back with you right away.
How to treat those who contacted the wrong chat
I am sorry, you have reached the wrong company. This is…, we are not affiliated with…
No problem. Thank you for your call. Have a good day.
I am sorry, we would not be the right company to help you with your question. We don’t deal in…We appreciate your contact. Have a good day.
How to wrap up the chat
Mary, is there anything else I might help you with today?
John, is there anything else I can do for you? As agreed, I will post a note to our billing department regarding your payment and we will follow up with you on that by tomorrow.
If any other questions arise, please feel free to contact us at any time. Thank you so much for chatting. Good bye.
Thank you for chatting with us today. Have a nice day. Good bye.
Credit to renew plan
A: Thank you for calling VZN. This is ___. May I have your name please?
Cx: I need a 4 dollar credit to renew my plan today.
A: I can sense the urgency of having your plan renew today. Let me check if it is possible for you to get a credit. I just want to set your expectations ___ that credits are subject for approval. Okay?
Cx: That's fine. I already have 61 dollars on my account, just 4 dollars more then I'm good to go. My son need this for homeschooling so I can't run my day without data.
A: Definitely! I also have a homeschooling brothers and I could say that it really requires a lot of data so I can feel you. ___, if you don't mind me asking, what are your challenges in making the full payment today?
Cx: 'cause I don't have money right now but I can pay it tomorrow morning.
A: Great! Do you have WiFi at home?
Cx: Yes
A: Awesome! The reason why I asked those questions is because I want to check all available options for you to use data because as what I can see here, VZN has partnered with you in the past 90 days and has been so generous in providing credits to you.
A: Now, as much as I would love to apply a $4 credit on your account, our system is not allowing me to do so since you already reached the maximum credit limit on this account. On the other hand, I'm happy that you have WiFi at home that you can use for the meantime until you complete your payment tomorrow morning.
A: Once the full payment of $65 is made successfully, your plan will automatically renew, Okay?
A: How do you usually process your payments?
A: Great! I highly suggest that you do it on your MyVerizon App under the Payment tab, select use the different card. Okay?
A: You're most welcome. Is there anything else I can further assist you with today?
A: All right! Again, Thank you so much for chatting VZN. Stay safe! Stay healthy. Good bye.
Can't Make or Receive Calls (Troubleshooting) SCRIPT MOCK CALL
A: I can only imagine how difficult it is for you not to have a working phone. Since you mentioned that you're in the hospital right now and you need to get in touch with your son immediately, I'll make sure that I won't let you go unless and untill all your services is up and running, okay?
Cx: Thank you so much
A: You're most welcome.
A: Just in case we need to do some troubleshooting steps, do you have any alternate number that we can use?
Cx: Yes. It's #____
A: Thank you. To make sure that I am looking at the right account, may I know the phone number that you're calling about?
Cx: Sure. It's #____
A: Thank you so much Amanda and your account security code please?
Cx: That's #____
A: Thank you.
A: All right so as I look into your account, I've seen you're in a $40 plan that gives you 4GB of data with unlimited calls and text and your plan will now expire until the 14th of October. You've mentioned earlier that you don't have service, right? So which of your services is not working?
Cx: The calls on it. I can't call out. I can't receive calls too.
A: All right. How about sending and receiving messages? Do you have any problems with those?
Cx: No
A: Great! What about your internet?
Cx: I think my internet is good.
A: That's perfect! I just really want to make sure that you don't have any problems with those and now, we just need to focus on your phone calls. So let me ask you this, have you tried doing any basic troubleshooting before you called like turning off your phone and turning it back?
Cx: Oh no all right
A: Okay. That's fine. When was the last time that you were able to make a phone call?
Cx: Last night
A: Okay. Is this happening to all of the phone numbers that you are trying to call in?
Cx: Yes
A: Is this happening in all locations or just one specific location?
Cx: All locations even if I go outside.
A: Okay. I know this must be so difficult for you since I know that you need to talk to your family and friends. And I thank you for providing me all the necessary information that I need so I can start troubleshooting your phone. So right now, can you tell me if your wi-fi is on or off?
Cx: Off
A: Thank you for checking those for me. Now, can you please confirm your ICC number or your sim card number?
A: What about your airplane mode, is it on or off?
Cx: Off
A: What about your mobile data?
Cx: It's on, great!
A: You can try to check it on the original box of the phone or your phone settings.
A: Let me look real quick thank you.
A: You can tell me the numbers after the five zeros meal
A: Thank you so much. Let me quickly verify if we have the same ICC number in file okay?
A: Oh great! It's the same one. Also, let me check the coverage in your area. Are you in Lancaster, PA right now?
A: Thank you. What's your zip code?
A: Thank you.
A: All right. As I checked, we don't have any problems with the coverage in your area. It's 4j and no current outages too. So with that being said, let me proceed with the next part of our troubleshooting steps and this time, I will be needing your partnership. Can you please go to your phone settings?
A: From your home screen, try to look for a gear icon and below the icon you'll see the word "Settings".
A: Awesome! Now look for General Management.
A: All right. Tap Reset. Before you tap Reset Network Settings, I just want to let you know that this will erase saved WiFi passwords and bluetooth connections but it won't delete any of your apps or personal data. Are you okay to proceed?
A: All right. Perfect! Now you'll have to confirm that you want to reset your network settings.
A: Great! This time we are almost done with our initial troubleshooting steps and the last thing that I want you to do is to power cycle your phone so turn it off and wait 10 seconds, power it on then we'll test it okay?
A: Let me call you on your alternate number so don't hang up with this line and listen until you reach me on the other line, okay?
A: You can now disconnect the other line and turn off that device and wait for 10 seconds before you turn it back on. Let me know once it's on, okay?
A: Great.
A: Good. So it's now time for us to test it, all right? So can you try to call your son now
A: Oh great! Ok so it worked, you are most welcome ma'am. I am so happy for you and thank you for partnering with me today. I hope I was able to make you smile. Is there anything else I can assist you with today?
A: You are most welcome. Again, this is ___. Enjoy the rest of the day! Thank you for being the best part of VZN. Bye for now.
write that book. publish that blog. apply for that job. dye your hair. cut your bangs. pick up that hobby that you’ve always wanted to try. wear that outfit that you loved but were too afraid to put on in public. life is way too short. be whoever you want to be, and do whatever you want. stop waiting for the right moment, because there will never be one. sometimes you just gotta say fuck it, and do it! live your life the way you want, and don’t ask for anyone’s approval.
*SOME NOTES TO SAVE*
HOW TO CALM YOUR HUSBAND'S MIND
1. MAKE LOVE TO HIM
Sex has a way of relaxing a man. You will change his mood when you make love to him, especially if you are the one who seduces him and initiates it
2. DON'T MAKE THE HOME A WARZONE
If coming home to you is coming home to yet another argument and fight where you explode and turn everything into an issue, he will dread coming home and it hurts when home is a place to run away from, not to run to
3. ASK HIM HOW HE IS
Most women want the husband to ask them "How was your day?", "How did you sleep?" "How are you?" yet they rarely ask the husband these. If these questions make you feel cared for, your husband also wants to feel cared for
4. ORGANIZE HIS LIFE
A lot of men can be disorganized, especially when they are going through a lot in life or have a lot on their mind. This chaos in their system, dressing, schedule or environment can lead to more unease on their mind. When you help him clear the clutter and attend to some of his needs without him asking, he will think better
5. DON'T ATTACK HIS MAN CAVE
Most have a man cave. This is an activity they do or a place they go to perhaps a room; maybe to play a game, watch TV, meditate and think, write, read, create, work out or just be. Don't attack this, just agree with him on how he can balance his time so that he doesn't spend too many hours in his man cave
6. PRAY FOR HIM
You are the one who knows best his potential, struggles, battles and questions; commit him to prayer. Let him hear you pray for him
7. HELP HIM OUT FINANCIALLY
A lot of men are going through stress due to finances. Help him, by not putting pressure on him to give the family a lifestyle he can't afford at present, by helping to pay some of the bills, by helping him manage finances better, by saving and seeking long term investments, by stepping up especially when he has been fired or going through business losses
8. AFFIRM HIM
A man can get tired, a man can go through burn out, a man can question himself, a man can worry, a man can get discouraged; which is why it is important for you to remind him of his greatness, celebrate his achievements and tell him how proud you are of him. This motivates him
9. STAY FAITHFUL TO HIM
Nothing destabilizes a man like when he suspects or finds out that the wife he loves and has given his all to is entertaining, flirting, sleeping with or longing to be with another man. Spare him this torture
10. BE EASY TO TALK TO
Most men show a tough face and don't open up to anyone because they trust no one. This is how many of them go through depression and suffer in silence. They long to find a confidant who they can reveal themselves and their deepest joys and pain to; be that confidant
11. SMILE
The smile of the woman a man loves keeps him going. Your smile inspires him and makes him want to do more for you to keep it
12. KISS HIM
Kissing him shows affection. Kiss him not just on his lips, kiss his cheeks, his arms, his back as you tell him you love him
13. MASSAGE HIM
Home massages are the best. Invest in some good massage oils and ask him occasionally to lie down and give him a feel good massage. Lie down too so that he can return the favour
14. MAKE NEW MEMORIES WITH HIM
When he is spending time with you - face to face or online, make new memories together; joke with him, tease him, play with him, have stimulating conversations with him, do something new. This will recharge him and make him miss you when you two are apart
And after she does all these my guys, give her love, give her plenty money as your hand reach, take her on beautiful vacations, be romantic and respectful ,attentive and considerate to her, any woman who gives you peace deserves more than all that’s listed here.
© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde
To whom it may concern:
Ganon ata talaga. Once you become a parent, eventually you will lose a friend while losing yourself too. You realize that you are stuck on your life and you are being left behind. You continue making sacrifices for your own family and not just for yourself. Your FAMILY is your WORLD now and what matter most.
“Just because you fail once, it doesn’t mean you’re going to fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself.”
— Marilyn Monroe