dear fellow spoonies:
you can have one chronic illness. you can have ten or twenty. no matter what, your pain and illness is valid. just because others have more/worse chronic illnesses than you does NOT mean they have it “worse,” and that you shouldn’t complain because you have it “better.” just because someone expresses their pain more than you does NOT mean your pain is invalid. regardless of whether you go to work every day or stay home and rest, your experiences are legitimate. you are valid, and you deserve love and care.














