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So I need some advice again, or atleast a pep talk😂 I really want to dress up and go out for Halloween, something over the top girly. But I'm terrified😶

Hiii!!! Good to hear from you again! I hope you're doing okay

The really really wonderful thing about Halloween is that you can be *anything* ANYTHING. With no cause, no explanation, nothing! It's a day to play pretend! A dress up day! This is a fantastic opportunity to be exactly who you want to be and you can base it on any character you want to. You can make a whole alter ego for Halloween! Dress up, feel yourself, celebrate yourself! Tell people it's just simply your character, which it is! Halloween is probably one of the safest times to get to explore yourself because most people are stepping outside of their norm.

Wishing you the best of luck and the most confidence! You're gonna kill it in your costume!

Hi, I just wanted to say thanks and give you an update on my journey even though I'm sure you don't care😂. I have been following your advice on becoming more feminine. I have been painting my nails and wearing tighter jeans which has made my confidence go through the roof🥰 now I'm just working on building my confidence up enough to actually go get my nails done and maybe even go buy clothes in person which is super scary to me😣

(oh my gosh, this is the 3rd time i’m trying to answer this freaking message. tumblr keeps deleting my reply!!!)

Hiii thanks for the update!!! I'm so happy for you and that you're able to take steps towards the life you want and feeling more confident!

As far as getting your nails done, you can always go in and just get your nails cut and cleaned up. that way, you can just introduce yourself to that environment and those nail techs and see if it’s a place that you feel comfortable getting a colors and tips.

And with buying clothes, I like to shop at big department stores with minimal employee interaction. I like to be left alone when I shop, not sure if you feel the same though. Think places like Ross, Kohl’s, Target. I avoid basically all the places in the mall.

And, of course, remember that you are living no one’s life except your own. You deserve to live the life that YOU want to have and experience. All the people working at these shops are literally being paid to help you, not to judge you. Glad you’re doing well out there, friend!