Being in a relationship with a BPD patient.
1. they will mold into a personality that will seem like your dream girl and will make you fall in love.
2. they will show you so much, more than you’d ever imagine.
3. they will constantly look good and try to impress you.
4. they’re very sexual people so you will probably have the best sex ever.
5. they’re very impulsive and you will love this adventurous and spontaneous side of them.
6. they will give you all their time bc you will most likely end up being their favourite person.
7. they will start act clingy (which can be cute at first) but then it will turn into extensive 24/7 need of your attention.
8. their moods will start changing a lot as they get more comfortable and you will see the bad sides of them.
9. Anger attacks and Panic attacks, that will be and everyday thing.
10. Jealousy will start to build up as they only want your attention to be theirs = Crazy angry violent arguments.
11. BPD patients feel their emotions to an extensive amount. Meaning their love will be ×100 and that will lead to feeling their other emotions ×100.
12. Be prepared for psychotic, manic mental breakdowns which could potentially be very traumatizing to witness.
13. If they sense the slightest of mood change or behaviour change, they will think they did something wrong (potentially leading to a breakdown or panic attack).
14. As much as we can be very loyal, our sexual impulses are high and there is a slight chance in some BPD patients, cheating is a possibility.
15. Every day, Every hour and Every minute is a mood rollercoaster, be prepared to join in.
16. There is a huge chance that this relationship would be the most exhausting relationship ever and might end up with you cutting them off for being a psychotic bitch.
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