Too Kind? Impossible.

Ask me Stuff!

[tookindimpossible]

Just looked back a few years on my blog.. so much has changed! I miss how easily inspired I used to be..

[2-shane-s]

Date someone who will date you

[methfall]

Need me a freak like that

[itzzebbb-deactivated20210319]

WHO THE FUCK WAnts to lay in bed with me and kiss a lot

[whosromeo]

i think it’s cute when someone admits they have a crush on you

[scott-pilgrimage]

i think it’s a fucking miracle 

[rapidily]

i just wanna get dicked down and have roses sent to my front door

[vijara]

look: the right people will get it. the right people will see you and appreciate you for the person that you are. the right people won’t require you to dilute, censor, or edit yourself in order to be worthy of their time and affection. you don’t need to waste your time on people who are committed to misunderstanding you 

[hellish-daddy]

[tookindimpossible]

I think I'm gonna have to move in the next couple months, which is exciting and scary. Lemme know if y'all know of a place I could move

[pez-uzi-deactivated20160424]

Places where reality is a bit altered:

[solareveille]

playgrounds at night

rest stops on highways

deep in the mountains

[ghostfiish]

early in the morning wherever it’s just snowed

trails by the highway just out of earshot of traffic

schools during breaks

those little beaches right next to ferry docks

bowling alleys

[genesisdoes-moved]

unfamiliar mcdonalds on long roadtrips

your friends living room once everybody but you is asleep

laundromats at midnight

• any target • churches in texas • abandoned 7/11’s • your bedroom at 5 am • hospitals at midnight • warehouses that smell like dust • lighthouses with lights that don’t work anymore • empty parking lots • ponds and lakes in suburban neighborhoods • rooftops in the early morning • inside a dark cabinet

[ringingofraevolution]

galeries in art museums that are empty except for you 

the lighting section of home depot

stairwells

[doomgeneration1995]

•hospital waiting rooms •airports from midnight to 7am • bathrooms in small concert venues

[midtownsparker]

I just got the weirdest feeling I swear

[the-crepes-of-wrath]

OK LISTEN THERE ARE REASONS FOR THIS!!!

A lot of these places are called liminal spaces - which means they are throughways from one space to the next. Places like rest stops, stairwells, trains, parking lots, waiting rooms, airports feel weird when you’re in them because their existence is not about themselves, but the things before and after them. They have no definitive place outside of their relationship to the spaces you are coming from and going to. Reality feels altered here because we’re not really supposed to be in them for a long time for think about them as their own entities, and when we do they seem odd and out of place.

The other spaces feel weird because our brains are hard-wired for context - we like things to belong to a certain place and time and when we experience those things outside of the context our brains have developed for them, our brains are like NOPE SHIT THIS ISN’T RIGHT GET OUT ABORT ABORT. Schools not in session, empty museums, being awake when other people are asleep - all these things and spaces feel weird because our brain is like “I already have a context for this space and this is not it so it must be dangerous.” Our rational understanding can sometimes override that immediate “danger” impulse but we’re still left with a feeling of wariness and unease. 

Listen I am very passionate about liminal spaces they are fascinating stuff or perhaps I am merely a nerd. 

[sp1ne-sh0t]

I, for one, appreciate your passion for liminal spaces and thank you for explaining it to the rest of us.

[penspaperandcoffee]

Like A Boss: Writing A Resume

Resumes are possibly the hardest things you’ll ever write. Who knew one little page could be so problematic? Here are some of my tips on writing an effective resume: 

The purpose of a resume is to get you an interview NOT a job!

Formatting is HUGE! 

You will want to use 1-inch margins all around (if you have a lot to fit use 0.5 margins all around).

Do NOT use Microsoft word templates. Recruiters can spot these a mile away and most of them don’t scan well.

Use bullet points instead of long block paragraphs.

12 pt Times New Roman is always a safe bet.

Centered at the top should be your name in all caps with your city, state, zipcode | phone number | email underneath (this is for U.S.). 

All your dates should be aligned to the right side of the document.

Your sections should be in bold and should be: education, related academic experience (if applicable), work experience, volunteer experience, acknowledgements, skills. You can rearrange these sections depending on which you think are stronger. 

Content is IMPORTANT 

Use parallelism in your bullets. For example they should all begin with action verbs (think: managed, conducted, analyzed, derived, and so on). 

Use similar wording to what they used in the job description. If in the job description they mention analytical skills 3 times your resume better say “developed analytical skills by…” somewhere.

A good way to structure your bullet points is to start with what you did, followed by how you did it and ending with why you did it.

If you don’t have much work experience you can totally use projects you have done in courses that directly relate to the job or internship you are applying to.

CUSTOMIZE YOUR RESUME TO EACH JOB YOU APPLY TO!! 

Printed Resumes

Use nicer quality paper (think slightly heavier paper or paper with a higher cotton percentage). 

Make sure the paper is not wrinkled or has any kind of damage to it. 

NO TYPOS

Recruiters receive many more resumes than they care to look at. Do NOT get tossed in the trash pile because of a simple typo. Read and reread your resume to make sure it is error free! 

If you want someone to give a quick once over to your resume feel free to send it my way! 

[sleepyreyrey]

Strong words to use on a Resume

If you have ever had to write a resume for work or for an application, then you know the hardest part is figuring out what type of words to use that sound professional and and intelligent.

Example: If an application asks you if you have any relevant experience for a job at a day care center and you have experience, like you have babysat children. You would look at the words in the columns to see what words you should use that will help your resume stand out. You might put down “Have supervised and attended to children on a regular basis.”

I hope this is helpful to you.

[rampyourvoice]

Now this is a great resume list of action words.  I love that it’s broken down by types of jobs.  Saving for future use.

[pippinismerry-deactivated202409]

!!! helpful for important things in near future ;))))))))

[polo-oeste]

Visit Original Link

[nastynaf-blog]

Would you rather be a cop or a stripper? if you had to choose between the two

This is so dumb, you’re really comparing a credible honest profession to being a cop?

[phoenllx-deactivated20170625]

Oh god I can’t breathe

[bepeu-deactivated20171202]

me , when it’s gross outside: i don’t want to do anything me , when it’s nice outside: i don’t want to do anything…. but im happy

[audrelawwd-deactivated20171206]

Listen, distance yourself from anyone that tells you not to have expectations for them. Relationships, platonic and romantic alike, thrive on healthy expectations. You should be able to expect for your friend or loved one to be there for you. You should expect for your friend or loved one to support you. You’re allowed to expect things from people you trust and to vocalize boundaries, needs, and wants. Anyone that thinks that’s too much isn’t enough anyway.

[maga-master]

The best part about kissing is when you first start really slowly with shy kisses. And then you just start to push yourself against the other one and kisses get longer and rougher and you start to breath heavily. And ugh.

[slothblog]

me: *is bitter but is also right*