Totally Normal Grindr Exchanges

Totally normal Grindr exhanges from totally normal cis men looking to be in the DMs of one totaly normal and perfectly hinged [25-35 year old] trans girlie, shared totally for her desires to be held to account for how totally normal she is, and not because she desires to share the totally normal exchanges for the perusal and subsequent gawking by netstrangers (Posts will be as frequent as totally normal exchanges enter her Grindr inbox + how frequent that she's looking to be dicked down + when she remembers Tumblr exists and she has one techically) [some artistic license is used to edit some for comedic impact I mean illustration of normalcy. Much effort is used to anonymize those within the messages; no images of the subjects involved will be on display]

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Heh, it was worth throwing the whole "I ghost cis men and white people" line in my Grindr bio XD

Something about how gd fragile Washingtonians are gets my East Coaster roots menace heart aflutter in the toxicity I hold to keep myself feeling like myself XD

Anyways yep he did send me pics of his dick immediately after this... it's Grindr XD and liiiiike, had he not been this sorta weird insecure mfer?

I miiiight not want to ghost him

What a shame he did tho X3 and besides, I've def had bigger in me XD

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IDK what the Tumblr algo is

Go ahead, put anything. In my ass. On my strap. In my face.

Yeh, breaking from the "gimmick account mode just a sec", cuz apparently Tumblr's algo is deliciously rancid XD

I love sex. With cis men, with trans men, with cis women, with trans women, and with the massive list of genderweird folx too of course. Tbh, def flows easiest with fellow transfems for me, but I've also been around the sexual block a good bit.

To be real a sec? Def lots to be critiqued on "sex positivity" of a certain sort. Compulsory sexuality is a monstrosity that I've seen fuck up... oh lookie that, predominantly transfems (esp transfems of color), but also of course fucks up alllll across the gender spectrum.

And yet?

I fuck with... fucking X3

I'm a storied fuck btw. I've been to a gathering that led me delish fucking... and then I helped instigate and from that chase out a racist abuser in that space (and uninvited myself from that space in the process; the price for fucking up abusers that I hold myself to).

I once helped be a good hole to a cis guy so well that... I then helped him recognize and then get away from his possessively abusive roommate, an AFAB queer ftr. And yeh, not connected with him anymore, cuz again, social responsibility.

That's just a taster; tis the storied ass and mouth and hips of a queer that... yeah, intends to perhaps someday in the memories of those who knew me with one of my many names, be remembered as a... radical queer, heh, a radical feminist of a sort. Or otherwise, pre-fade into obscurity, a life lived as a component to a greater cultural milieu, of the fags and their friends between revolutions, swapping life fluids to keep each other afloat in the turbulent seas.

...

Made this gimmick account (of barely any posts; I just post when I wanna) cuz my friends loved hearing the ways I'd read to them my... colorful Grindr exchanges, the dramatic flair I imbue them with, tinged with the sort of... mutual queer feelings of delight that comes from the sharing of storied intimacies X3

My friends and I? We fuuuuuck X3 beyond the vanilla extract, to the fuller depth of flavor that... well, shame that vanilla is somehow considered... bland, milquetoast... a good vanilla bean truly fuuuuuucks with the palate (if one is so inclined to find it indulgent), and honestly? For me has the characteristic of a good, smooth fuck. The richness of her girlcock, the depth of flavor of his boypussy, the pungent creaminess from his load hitting the back of my throat, the boldness as she unleashes a torrent of squirt into my welcoming mouth...

I fucking love sex >:3

At risk of eating a ban for this (idk how puritanical Tumblr's become since the porn ban waaaay back when), fuckkit I love sex, do you hear me? I LOVE SEX, finish me-

And I looooove the ways my fellow trans brothers sisters and sibs looooove to do the sex, in the wholesome, sure... but especially in the intense, the raunchy, the kind that gets eyes twinking in "I'm USING you", the moans and wails of "I'm TOYYYY", doms having their way with my heaving body, subs melting under the undulations of my tongue and fingers...

Not to say that somehow... sex can be scary. I've been SAed before... and thankfully but still, most I've done has been some consent violations I've had to come correct to. And before folx side eye me, I wanna be DIRECT, if you've fucked? It's HELLA likely you violated consent too; it's frankly such a subjective read based off of the individual that... honestly, the folx who somehow esp self claim never having had a single consent violation? I sideeye those mfers for somehow... creating a culture of secrecy around their behaviors.

Sex is scary, sex is complicated, sex is social after all

But, even with my own storied background, navigating sex via frankly luckily running into sex positive books in the public library before the US health education system fully fucked my sexual autonomy up, and def fucking up pleeeenty along the way (and of course had folx fuck up with me too)

I still seek pleasures, pleasures aplenty, with those who can likewise own the desires for desire...

So, Tumblr algo... please... keep me with the horny freaks, perhaps with various feministed minds, but who then, in a sort of self solidity practice, submit themselves to the chaotic pleasures of the flesh and body, to check the haughtiness of the mind, and from there...

Take me away from the mfing puritanicals XD not gonna do a classic Tumblr DNI ftr, just... ugh, algo, pls... I don't need to see more folx wishing the deaths of my fellow trannies; the keyboard genocidists are certainly mfers who then don't actually go out into meatspace and hafta deal with... the direct deadly fallout of such callously deleterious rhetoric.

Anyways, back to your irregularly scheduled programming :P

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Currently on my bio I have a line that says

"I ghost cis men and white people"

Of course all it means is that insecure white men bother me with messages like this, as if my asian body is free use from the get go 🤣😵🤣

It's a fun outlet; nice to let the judgey mean girl toxicity flow sometimes ;3

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Grindr Denizen Exhibit 927:

The pnp guy who sTarTed parTying Too early, Then decided ThaT i needed To know ThaT lol he mighT be a mark

Have def had some beautifully unhinged exchanges with in particular white cis men, who might be too lost in the the amphetamine confidence X3

(I should know, tis my own amphetamine confidence [adhd meds medicating my usually overwhelmed self] that brings me to post the random unhinged shit I receive lol)

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Some say he's still sitting there, waiting, watching, being. The years pass, and the weight of the silence is comparable to the growing weight he feels on his knees, the tick tick ticking of age matching the creak xreak creaking of the joints, joints which will never be used to indulge in her bodacious form. The chat log continues to beam back at him, a read receipt but alas, still no answer. "She must just be shy, she has to just be shy", he thinks, as the bedsores burst and fester from his stunned stillness. Hair drifts from his patchy scalp, the cruelty of time mixed with the maximum stoic sedentariness, after all she must give chase after him, she MUST, she's a WOMAN, they all JUST chase, they HAVE to CHASE ME, ME, the sexy blank Grindr pfp. Neg, I must neg harder, HARDER, but through silence, because sooner or later, she'll come back I mean she'll come to me...

If only, she never left in the first place, if only, then maybe, she'd be back, she'd come back for me...

-is what she thinks when she tells to his face that she's ghosting him, and giddly watching his pathetic little responses before the convo fully died off and presumably both parties pretty much just went and did their own thing lol

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why yes, she did use Signal's stories feature to annoy all those connected with her there with the fantastically 4X4 of perfect prosetry which arrived in her inbox

she then proceeded to reply to the totally normal cis man with an album of pick[axe]s, and also a video bathroom ie some company's bathroom promo short clip

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(Unfortunately, for the time where she put this as a Grindr PFP to attempt to mock the cis men approaching her, too many cis men thought it meant it was perfectly fine to use that exact phrasing as an opener, or would approach her to wanna be forcefemmed. It got annoying pretty quickly)