hey, if youāve found this page and decided to scroll a bit, a little disclaimer first. i have my commonly used pronouns in my bio even though im okay using any and all pronouns/descriptors. i personally donāt like to use pronouns for myself because i hate having to label and describe myself to other people. hate when strangers ask me my name, and i have to decide between giving my commonly used nickname or my government name. hate having to explain what my full name means, where it comes from, where my parents are from, where i live, my race/ethnicity, my childhood, issues and insecurities, my sexuality, my gender identity/orientation(thatās a more recent development), music taste, etc. but i know that other people consider pronouns to be important for themselves as well as being polite and inclusive when it comes to talking to/about other people.
tldr: iām an oversharer, and she/her is something iām comfortable with people using, but iām also very comfortable with he/him, they/them, bro, pal, dork, idiot, etc. š«”
