People came to our hypnomeet some time ago, and they asked why we didn’t want to work together with Nimja, who organises the Amsterdam hypno munches, and who has this impressive YouTube channel.
The first and most important reason is that he violated the consent of a dear friend of us. This highly skilled hypnosub, and at the time a vulnerable young woman because of her low self esteem, went on a kinky date with him. She wanted to play with him without hypnosis, to get to know him perhaps. He hypnotised her anyway and the things he suggested to her still make her angry and hurt to this day.
But that is not the only reason. In 2019 a woman came to me for help. She had been playing with him online for a while. She wanted to play with hypnotic denial, and he told her to watch/listen to a file of his. It developed into a pattern where she couldn’t even go to the bathroom without listening to the file. And it was at this point that he broke off contact with her, presumably because he was no longer interested in her, or busy with other things. She was very distressed, seeing as she was dependent on hearing his voice. She contacted me for help, and I was able to help her recover from this ordeal.
But that is not the only reason. I’ve spoken out about this before and the tone of his denial was a clearly orchestrated attempt to deny and shift the blame. When I told the story mentioned above, he tried to make it that she was just a bad ex who used me and told me lies to make him look bad. He has never straight up admitted that one of these stories, and there are more, was his mistake or tried to make amends. On the contrary.
But that is not the only reason. When I spoke out about my friend being violated by him and about the other woman in 2019, women started sending me messages, pms with stories about what this man had done to them. And that they were afraid to speak out against him, afraid of being online lynched by his adoring fans on YouTube. So I can’t tell these stories, because these women are afraid.
But that is not the only reason. All of these stories form a pattern. He seems to seed his files with suggestions to contact him personally. If the person who contacts him is feminine and willing enough, they will start playing online. He will refer them to files or perhaps even make files for them to reinforce the conditioning. But at some point it will go wrong, and he will break off contact, unwilling to admit that he made a mistake and unwilling to remove all of the suggestions he put into place. He’s probably already looking for the next girl. This is why he’s a predator.
But that is not the only reason. Also in 2019, I was approached by the organisers of NEEHU. Someone who was planning to come to the event had told them of a negative experience they had with this man, and NEEHU wanted to hear my perspective seeing as I know a few things about him. I told them all of this and they decided to ban him from NEEHU.
But that’s not the only reason. I have to admit that I have never seen this man teach hypnosis. Guilty has, back in the day when this man’s hypno workshops were the only ones in the country. Guilty felt he needed to break away from this man and start a group where we would actually teach hypnosis properly, to tops and bottoms, people of all genders alike, instead of just installing hypnotic triggers on girls for their Doms to use. Admittedly, that was over a decade ago, so perhaps he’s become a better teacher since. Though my friends from Scotland who have seen him teach at the event in Wales have nothing good to say about it.
So there are all the reasons why this man is not someone we want to be associated with. This is why I actively warn events when he signs up, because he goes to events in search of his next girl. He will hurt more women, unless we stop him.
