Transfem Choices Project

The consequences of your actions

[transgendervoicesproject]

Im a transfem MB not a trans man but I have to say something. User Immoraltranny (not sure what blog number she's up to) is a pedophile. She messaged me when I was emotionally vulnerable due to personal reasons and encouraged hypersexual and sexually violent behavior and thoughts in me while she was aware I was 14. This culture of always defending trans women as a default needs to end because I am almost 17 and still carrying this unable to say anything out of fear or further sexual harassment and retaliation from her and the TWNO/trans supremacy fetish community.

I have to say though, labeling this blog as for 'tme' people seems very diseignous and unhelpful. I spent a lot of time being further abused in telegram groups and I can tell you the majority of the victims of trans woman predators are other trans girls or eggs who have their uncertainty and insecurity in their gender exploited for grooming and false trust. This should be for everyone because this is an issue we all have

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[misogyny-targeted]

They think this about transmen too btw

[transfemchoicesproject]

But it's just a sexual fantasy! I would never ever actually do this! /s

[dakigivemethestrength]

Non-passing trans men out here like white people going "Just got a tan, and a little kid gave me a weird look. So I know exactly how racism feels now. Yeah now I'm racialized. Race is all about social perception."

Except somebody thought they were a trans woman and looked at them funny in the woman's bathroom, so now they think they're TMA and understand transfeminism better than actual trans women who they refuse to listen to and constantly talk over.

[transgendervoicesproject]

[transfemchoicesproject]

At this point, I'm convinced that TME/TMA labels purely exist to give people an excuse for who they're "allowed" to be empathetic towards. When in reality, someone's demographics shouldn't bar them from empathy at all. A trans man being sexually assaulted is just as deserving of support and empathy as a trans woman who has been assaulted. I know, giving empathy and not being a soulless bot is a hot take on this site. Maybe YOU need to unlearn not caring for your fellow human.

[transfemchoicesproject]

This is the response you get when you want self-admitted pedophiles to be held accountable. Suddenly it's spreading "hatred".

[transgendervoicesproject]

you know a lot of your posts "documenting survivor's voices" are recounting stories of a tme getting drunk with a trans woman and accusing her of rape after having sex with her. kinda the exact same thing that happens to black people, hmm....

hey so um. do you think getting drunk with someone is consent? because that's what this sounds like

[transgendervoicesproject]

i... i just opened my notifs and i am literally shaking right now. what the fuck is this.

isuggestsexualasault??? are you actually serious??? reblogging my post about MY trauma???? wow. i guess this is just who we are now, huh? the whole site is just pro-rape at this point, apparently. i feel like im gonna be sick. like actually. how is this allowed. why is this happening

its honestly so funny in the most soul crushing way possible. like, wow, you really thought you did something there by putting that name under my post?? you're really out here proving every single thing i've been saying about how this site protects predators and abusers.

LMFAOOOOO i cant even type straight. i feel like i cant even exist in this space without being hunted by people like that. are you happy now?? did you get your little kick out of putting that in my inbox?? just leave me alone. i just wanted a place to talk about what happened to me. that's it. but no, i guess that's too much to ask for in this hellsite

[transfemchoicesproject]

They're privileged because they can expose themselves as predators, and everyone else will play defense for them. Even other afabs.

[transmascsilenceproject]

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[transfemchoicesproject]

Misogyny and transfems are like bread and butter

[transgendervoicesproject]

My ex had a "transfem superiority" fetish but also made me bleed literally every time we had sex, ignoring the safeword and deliberately going out of her way to make sure she hurt me. I had to be hospitalized at one point because she was convinced she could penetrate my cervix if she used something long and thin enough, and decided to test it out on me while I was tied up. She used a knitting needle and got mad when I threw up from the pain. When she took me to the hospital, I lied for her and said I was worried I was pregnant and trying to abort at home. I was seventeen and had been kicked out of my home, she was 29 and had offered me a place to live. Thanks for giving me a place to say this. I haven't told anyone because I feel like no one will listen or care.

that is beyond horrific and i am so sorry you had to endure that. hearing about the grooming, the manipulation, and the physical abuse especially at such a vulnerable age is completely gut-wrenching. no one should ever be treated like that, let alone by someone who was supposed to be providing you a safe home.

this is such a niche fetish, but ive seen blogs dedicated to it, usually super fringe girls that keep to their own groups, and holy shit those groups are toxic. people dont realize how often younger queers are taken advantage of by older, more experienced queers who promise them mentorship, a place to live, financial support, etc. this issue isnt unique to being queer, either; ive seen it happen among the disabled demographic too, as it has happened to me.

please know that you didn't deserve any of that, and you were not responsible for her actions, no matter what lies you had to tell to survive. i am so glad you feel safe enough to share this here. 💙

[transfemchoicesproject]

This is disgusting, and I think supporting victims like this is more important than uplifting predators