[transmascsilenceproject]

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[kayla-denker]

My roommate is transmasc. We were just talking about their reluctance to use the men's bathroom even as they "pass" more and more as a man, which is starting to cause people to give them concerning looks when they use the women's. They said they still use the women's because they feel more comfortable there. Which is fine, we shouldn't have gendered bathrooms anyway. But I told them "you might not feel as safe when you eventually get 'accused' of being a trans woman in the women's bathroom." To which they replied "oh, I'll lust lift my shirt and show them my mastectomy scars. That'll prove I belong in there."

Oh but "everyone is subjected to transmisogyny" (according to tMRA chuds, not my roommate), right?

This is the point of TME/TMA. This is why non-transfeminine people aren't subjected to transmisogyny.

I can't fall back on my AGAB to "prove I belong" in women's spaces.

[life-onthe-murderscene]

does your roommate go by solely they/them or are you degendering them because it sounds like they at least go by he/him

[kayla-denker]

Their pronouns are they/them. They will accept he/him, but prefer they/them.

What exactly made you confident enough to say "it sounds like they go by he/him," since I never once called them that or said that's what their pronouns are, I didn't even call them a trans man, because thats not how they identify. I said "transmasc."

[kayla-denker]

Ah, that would be what gave you the confidence....

[katiknitt]

[currentlydoomscrolling]

[lady-viccy]

Men making it about themselves again

[getrealprim]

Not even *just* making it about themselves, they’re vilifying trans women on a post about how we’re vilified bsffrrn

[hesperocyon-lesbian]

Ah I see we’re doing “trans women are lucky they’re so visible to the panopticon” again

[discodyke-dogthing]

Worst part is the reblogs and comments reacting to this with "Ugh there they both go infighting again, why can't they get along?" I'm sorry but if we keep getting villified and treated like shit are we supposed to just take it so we don't "start infighting again"???? what the fuck are we supposed to do if we keep getting treated like this

[sylvia-on-the-run]

just figured id put this here in response to tall the whiny tmras no you dont actually get treated as bad as us!

[is-it-transmisogyny]

It is!

[jothb]

It's so awesome cool and progressive that the second result of looking up a trans woman on this site is a dedicated hate blog that specifically states "DNI if you defend this trans woman"

But it's okay guys, they put a sign saying "don't harass the tranny! Just let me collect all the reasons that she is unforgivable in one place :)"

[jothb]

It is incredibly telling that there isnt a massive anti-oneyplays fandom despite Smiling Friends being an equally popular show among tumblr queers and those guys actually doing everything gooseworx has been accused of and more "She joked about being the next Shadman!" wow that's crazy. Chris O'Neil housed Shadman and actively defended all the vile shit he did on twitter, including lolicon of real actual children. Why is nobody talking about this. Where is the anti oneyplays fan club. Or anti GameGrumps. Or (and this is a hot one) anti Dropout. Why is there only a hate club for the tranny. Why are the hate clubs only ever for the trannies? But of course, "DNI if you make it about her being trans, thats totally not why she became our target"

[jothb]

[jothb]

I would appreciate it if people reblogged this version that specifically calls out that none of the cis men in the same industry are held to the same standard even when they've done worse, continue to do worse and have not shown any sign of changing or regretting their past actions besides "I stopped saying the n word because people would get mad at me" and not because it's racist.

For god's sake the same people that deride Gooseworx on every social media site will sometimes straight up have Max "hotdiggitydemon" "Steven Jewniverse" "Steven N***averse" "Sans from Undertale calls Papyrus the nword" "Still actively racist" Gilardy profile pics with zero self reflection. And I'm supposed to take anything ever said about "holding trans women accountable " seriously? Gimme a break

[is-it-transmisogyny]

It is!

[maidthings]

i wish the world was kinder to women

[zzzeezeezzz]

Being a trans woman means you arent allowed access to womanhood or the supposed good/positive masculinity often claimed by trans masc folks. This idealized and positive masculinity is one that is supposedly above all negative traits of masculinity and the patriarchy in society that influences it. Trans fems are conversely allowed only access to the negative aspects of masculinity as inherited from patriarchy. We are referred to as being male socialized whenever we do something negative. We are overshadowed in discussions about womanhood and our claims to it are seen as dubious at worst and partial at best. Trans fems are allowed neither womanhood or the idealized manhood that trans mascs are. Instead we are seen as men in disguise waiting to enact our underlying patriarchal socialization. While trans mascs are seen as forging a new masculinity/manhood. One that is both divorced from the patriarchal expressions of masculinity in our society and one that is inherently linked to an experience of "womanhood" and its associated oppressions.

[mousidy]

so can I just say there's a reason I wasn't going on and on for paragraphs underneath transfem voices project submissions about how "monstrous" and "demonic" submitters' abusers were, or how their experiences were "horror movie material"

first of all, TVP was not about centering my feelings about transfems' abusers or what they went through. going on about how disgusted and enraged I felt underneath submissions would have actively detracted from the voices I was trying to center. TVP was not about my voice

second, abusers are not a subhuman class of people. they are often very ordinary people that exist in our lives. even my worst abuser did not abuse me because he was a subhuman monster or a demon. he abused me because he had systemic power over me, and that power went unchecked by any of the people or systems that could have protected me. he was thoroughly, mundanely human

the world is full of TME people who abuse transfems in ways that range from minor to major. I do not believe this means the world is full of subhuman monsters and demons. I believe that it means there are systems and norms that facilitate and enable this abuse. this isn't "rot," it's systems working as designed

[mousidy]

[catchymemes]

[aeliad]

HI LET’S SHARE NICOLE’S WORDS ON THE SUBJECT! 

It has been literal years but every time I see Martin’s tweets posted somewhere and his word is shared as truth while her post is not shared it sort of reiterates the fact that we trust men to speak about feminism more than we believe women who experience it. 

Interesting, innit? https://medium.com/@nickyknacks/working-while-female-59a5de3ad266

[wiseacrewhimsy]

Reading her account of how their boss treated her blows me away. Men are so emboldened that they will literally admit to illegal discrimination casually and face no consequences.

[the-geek-cornucopia]

In all the years of seeing this post I’ve never seen a link to her side. Didn’t even know she’d written one.

[pluts04]

Adding screenshots of her post. His whole post is there without needing a link. Hers should be, too.

Also, she posted this is 2017! It’s fucking 2020 and I’ve seen his side of this for years, but it took 3 years for her side to make its way to my dash…

[thou-creature-of-the-deep]

I’ve reblogged his story at least twice; it’s time for Nicole’s.

[samsaragalasinzaraxazeal]

Reblogged him, bout time I got to reblog her.

[lythic-dreams-deactivated202509]

I’ve never seen either side of this story, so sure, I’ll reblog this.

[habitualstairtumbler]

fun fact:

saying kill all tmes does not help anyone. like. i get that you want to be supportive of trans women but this is not a pissing contest. this is not the suffering olympics. we are all oppressed and we are all oppressed in different ways. there is no reason to minimize anyone's suffering, because human suffering is still human suffering regardless of who is suffering or how much they are suffering. if you are someone that cares, listen. help. don't put down someone. take the time to show love and understand your beautiful trans siblings.

[daughter-of-sapph0]

this is actually really funny calling it oppression olympics because trans women are banned from the Olympics, and tmes aren't.

making this post isn't helping anyone either. maybe take your own advice and stop minimizing trans women's suffering and transmisogyny? you're mad that we made a hyperbolic joke about disliking those who have power over us? oh no. so sad. im mad at v-coding.

[habitualstairtumbler]

fun fact:

saying kill all tmes does not help anyone. like. i get that you want to be supportive of trans women but this is not a pissing contest. this is not the suffering olympics. we are all oppressed and we are all oppressed in different ways. there is no reason to minimize anyone's suffering, because human suffering is still human suffering regardless of who is suffering or how much they are suffering. if you are someone that cares, listen. help. don't put down someone. take the time to show love and understand your beautiful trans siblings.

[daughter-of-sapph0]

this is actually really funny calling it oppression olympics because trans women are banned from the Olympics, and tmes aren't.

making this post isn't helping anyone either. maybe take your own advice and stop minimizing trans women's suffering and transmisogyny? you're mad that we made a hyperbolic joke about disliking those who have power over us? oh no. so sad. im mad at v-coding.

[kayla-denker]

Ok, so you don't like TMA/TME. You don't like that its a "harmful binary."

Good! You should hate it!

We do too. That's the whole point. You think we like being subjected to transmisogyny?

The problem is that you are regarding transfeminists, and trans women in general, as if we are the ones who created this situation instead of the transmisogynists who actually created it and are enforcing it. We're just describing it, giving it a name so that we can fight it. If you hate it so much, why are you attacking the women who are trying to end it?

[mousidy]

"you should be taking transfem sexual predators to task"

the full force of the law and every human being on the planet already does that lol, as well as falsely punishing many accused trans women who didn't do anything. there is plenty of scrutiny on us already. now how about the demographics on whom there isn't?

[mousidy]

it should be incredibly obvious that power facilitates abuse, but so many of you are just obsessed with the idea that marginalized people are somehow, en masse, abusing people who hold privilege over them and getting away with it

[mousidy]

so many of power's justifications for discrimination are literally just darvo

[mousidy]

gang I'm beginning to think maybe the vast majority of the violence might be happening to the people being violently suppressed on the justification that they're supposedly just Inherently Violent

[estrogenesis-vaporeongelion]

"let's talk exclusively about crimes in which the suspect is black" was literally what bill o'reilly was doing on fox news when i was in elementary school 20+ years ago, and it was as tired and obvious then as it was back when the nazis were doing it about jews in the 30s, and now trans-men's-rights activists on tumblr are announcing "hey, anyone who would like to describe real or imagined sex crimes exclusively by trans women please form a line for the hate megaphone" like they think they just came up with something new

[estrogenesis-vaporeongelion]

aw, you poor little guy, did the "women YOU'RE allowed to abuse" start talking to each other? you had to put them back in their place? eat shit & die

[stellarynn]

The motherfucker behind it is literally claiming it can't be open to transfems because it'll be "overwhelmed by the amount of transfem-on-transfem violence".

Like huh, what a novel idea to claim that it's actually the targeted minority group doing all of the violence against itself, that way you're both claiming they're the most violent AND you can disregard any of their experiences since 'they just do it to themselves you see'. We've definitely never seen that one used in like, I dunno, claims of violent black men or anything. It's not like a well known white supremacist's last words were minimizing gun violence with this strategy or anything.

[storyweavingspider]

2026 TUMBLR WHITENESS CENSUS

There are SIX questions total in reblogs, the end will be marked by large green text. If you don’t see all six, check reblogs and grab the version with the ending note.

1/6 - Do you identify as some flavor of white?

White

Non-white

Only considered white outside of imperial core

Insecure Mixed Person externalizing my family racial issues here

Remaining time: 14 hours 31 minutes

Answers amended from the 2025 census based on feedback. If you’re mixed, choose what feels right to you I’m not here to do phrenology or paper bag test you but don’t make it my problem either. When in doubt, ask yourself: would the whites kill you too in the race war?

This census is US-centric because so is tumblr, unfortunately. This poll is also starting with a heavy Black/racialized bias due to my personal followers. The main point of this census is to see how white-dominant the site is currently compared to prior years, as well

For the purpose of this census, Imperial Core will be defined as the following: United States, Canada, Australia, Aotearoa, basically all of Western Europe, Japan, and Israel. If you want to argue about any of these designations, too bad maybe they should stop colonizing.

Reblog from question 6/6 below!

[storyweavingspider]

2/6 So is you Black or nah?

Ye

Nah

Insecure Mixed Person externalizing my family racial issues here

Not considered Black in my country, but considered Black elsewhere

Remaining time: 14 hours 32 minutes

[storyweavingspider]

3/6 How about trans?

Transfemme

Transmasc

Non-binary/Genderfluid/related but TMA*

Non-binary/Genderfluid/related but TME*

Non-binary but don’t consider yourself trans

Agender

Two-Spirit

Otherwise cultural gender (please share I wanna know!!)

Other not listed

Cisgender

Remaining time: 14 hours 41 minutes

Note for clarification:

*For those who don’t know, TMA means transmisogyny affected (such as trans women, some non-binary people, etc.) whereas TME means transmisogyny exempt (Cis men, cis women, transmasculine individuals, etc). If you want to ask for clarification for which applies to you for the purposes of this poll, feel free to ask and I’ll try to reply, but if you try to argue or quibble about the terms themselves, I’ll block you.

[storyweavingspider]

4/6 Are you currently inside or outside the imperial core? (Defined in first post)

Imperial core

Semiperiphery

Periphery

Immigrated to imperial core from outside of it

Other/Complicated

Remaining time: 14 hours 45 minutes

[storyweavingspider]

5/6 How many Black people would *actually* call YOU their friend? Online counts.

I’m non-Black, 0

I’m non-Black, 1-2

I’m non-Black, 1-2 but I have <8 friends

I’m non-Black, 3-6

I’m non-Black, 7+

I’m Black, 0

I’m Black, 1-2

I’m Black, 1-2 but I have <8 friends

I’m Black, 3-6

I’m Black, 7+

I have less than 3 friends total.

Remaining time: 14 hours 50 minutes

[storyweavingspider]

6/6! How many TMA* (Transfemme, some non-binary, etc.) people would *actually* call YOU their friend?

I’m TME, 0

I’m TME, 1-2

I’m TME, 1-2 but I have <8 friends

I’m TME, 3-6

I’m TME, 7+

I’m TMA, 0

I’m TMA, 1-2

I’m TMA, 1-2 but I have <8 friends

I’m TMA, 3-6

I’m TMA, 7+

I have less than 3 friends total

Remaining time: 14 hours 54 minutes

*For those who don’t know, TMA means transmisogyny affected (such as trans women, some non-binary people, etc.) whereas TME means transmisogyny exempt (Cis men, cis women, transmasculine individuals, etc). If you want to ask for clarification for which applies to you for the purposes of this poll, feel free to ask and I’ll try to reply, but if you try to argue or quibble about the terms themselves, I’ll block you.

THIS IS THE END! Please reblog for bigger sample pool 💖🙏🏽

[sapphling]

the sex binary is socially constructed and not actually descriptive of any biological truth. you know that, right? it's important to me that you know that

[sapphling]

i know people can be a little overzealous in describing political backslides ("this used to be the feminism website!!!" etc.) but it's disturbing to me how much incredulity i've gotten from other trans people as of late just for, like, saying that "biological woman" is neither a real category nor a phrase that should ever leave your mouth uncritically

[transatlanticvoicesproject]

can we all go around and say what we would like for our birthday's?

I will start. I would like a fine bucket of kelp

[transmascsilenceproject]

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[humanvoicesproject]

I would appreciate a new set of lungs and vocal cords please

[transmascsilenceproject]

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[storyweavingspider]

Everything is pink~